Posts made by Blastfurnace

@thebartender:

Relatively the asshole is cleaner than the mouth.
As long as the hole is cleaned well.

No it isn't.

How would that even make on the most basic level? Shit is associated with disease for a reason.

@yababylol:

It's been about a year since I got it out of my system (for now), but I had a good run of no-strings fun between 2014 and 2015. I've had success with Growlr, Scruff, and Grindr … in that order. Growlr because I'm in pretty high demand on that app (grr!), and have met my most permanent fuck buddies from. Scruff was hit and miss for me, mostly miss.

Grindr ... well, it was said that it was the "fastest" way to hook up, and I think that was true. It's just that worrying so much about speed seems about desperation to me (and I don't judge, I've been there), and you might find yourself just accepting a blatant anonymous fuck offer just for the convenience of it with a guy you normally wouldn't consider remotely attractive. Then again ... I had the most amazing sex with the most amazingly perfect-my-type guy with someone I met on Grindr. We've texted back and forth a few times over the last year, talking about meeting up again ... but it always falls through when it comes to me committing to it, for some reason. :-S

I also think it's regional, to be honest. Some areas might be very heavy into Scruff and not use Grindr much, some vice versa, etc. Just download them all (I know it sounds slutty, but let's be real ... you want to get laid within a short timespan by someone you find attractive ... so you are being kind of slutty.  You can get a better and faster hookup by casting a wide net), and switch back and forth once you've decided to cruise. You'll probably see a lot of the same guys on all the apps, too, so you'll know you're not alone. One of those guys might even be the one you end up pounding.

Good luck.

So why didn't you start a relationship with that guy?

All of them are an invasion of privacy. Especially the 'mandatory pic' ones.

It's pretty natural to want to come inside your partner, using a condom or otherwise. The only people to practice coitus interruptus are porn stars.

Bicycling.

Antony Starr from Banshee.

Yeah, I've written some stuff in my native language. It's fun, gets you to process certain things, reach another stage in your psychological development.

Ballbusting, as in slapping them? Does anyone really like that?

I would not, because:

a. porn is mostly waiting around for the cameraman to get into position, meaning the sex is unnatural and unpleasant
b. you would run the risk of catching STDs
c. people would be able to see you naked whenever they felt like it.

The porn industry is also pretty exploitive. You'll end up cast aside within a couple of years.

Some guys call pull it off. Like those bear paws on the chest, or something on the bicep (that isn't a ring around it). But mostly it's just pretty tasteless. It doesn't make them look better, just sad and desperate to fit in. As if they had to get a tattoo in order to get a personality.

What are the odds of having a boss that swings that way? Probably slim to none.

Getting spanked.

Too much self-respect for me to allow it to come that, but the feeling of my ass all red, sore and glowing would be glorious.

Bought an anal toy once but never used it. One of those Aneros g-spot stimulation devices. But I never got over the 'ick' factor and just shelved it alongside the three bottles of anal lube. haha

The intro article sounds like the author didn't appreciate that the other guy 'got dominant'. But he let him have his way anyway, because it was easier to just go along with it.

More a maturity issue than anything else.

If it's safe sex in a committed relationship. Sure, why not?

Too much 'bitchy' snark.

@flashboy:

One thing that happened to me for about 18 months ago, I've been taking to many beers with my friend and we where leaving. Outside we met two drag queens and we starts to talk. My friend went to the tram and they asks me if I would like to hang out with them at a strip and video club, I have been there before and knew it was a bit shabby but I have never felt a hostile atmosphere in there…
There are only female stripper but they have a floor with video booths, some dark room areas and place where you can hang. It is not that big and rarely crowded. There was a guy flirting with me and he asked me to join him, he was cute and I was charmed. He leads me to one off the smaller dark rooms and I hesitate an say that I would prefer a video booth. I didn't plan to have sex with him, at least not now, I don't find it like a big turn on to have sex in a place like that, it feels to artificial and awkward for me. My plan was just to make out with him and maybe drag him home later...
But he don't wan't to go in to a video booth, so I go back to the drag queens I came with. They give me a beer. I see the other guy passing by and looking at me, we aren't a lot of people there...
I am drunk and feels like it is time to go home, but what the hell, let's go and check for this guy just once. He has went back to the entrance to the dark room and when he sees me he walks in. I follow him inside, which I shouldn't done. I am waiting in the dark for my eyes to adapt, and a guy comes toward me and start to touch my chest and I did the same to him, then I hear two other guys on my left and right side. It is too dark so I can't see if it is the guy on my left side. I am trying to say hi but gets no replies. I stop feeling comfortable with the situation, but still like I have control. At least I thought, I asked the guy who was trying to get his hand down my pants to stop and wait until I have can see anything in the dark. He doesn't so I turn around...
Here is where I start to understand this is not about sex any longer, the two other guys open my belt and unzip my pants and I hear how they take things from my pockets, my cellphone and creditcard, I later discovered. The other guy is trying to penetrate me. I just freeze, cause it went so fast from the moment where I thought I was in control till I wasn't.
The two guys are blocking my ways, the have their hands on my shoulders and makes me bend over more, they are not violent but I know if I am trying to do anything they will try to keep me there. I am standing against the wall and I feel how the other guy is fucking me but I have just turned everything off and thinking that I hope it is over quick. And it was cause I hear him breath more heavily and then he pulls out and he zips his pants and the guys letting me go and I felt down on the floor against the wall. The guys are leaving while they are laughing and I only got a glimpse of their backs.
I rise and pull up my pants. Then I go to the toilet, there is no paper so I will have to use old used ones from the trashcan to clean most of his sperm. I washed my hands before I want back to the others I came there with, I hadn't really gripped what had happened. I waited for about ten minutes and I left the club and went home. That is all in a blur, the only thing I remember is that I must put my underwear in a plastic bag so they can take DNA if that would be necessary... Very CSI of me though.
Next day I was frustrated, angry, sad and blamed myself for getting drunk and go in to a dark room after a guy, for not making any strictly verbal or physical protests, for just being so stupid. I might have frozen when it happened but if I would met the guy that day or the following months I would probably killed him.

I did a STD test after six months and that was negative, that was a relief. I went back to the club once just to feel that I could put it behind me. But in this months I can count how many times I've had sex on my fingers... I am eating medication against anxious.

So do I consider that I was raped? I am not sure, I walked in to that dark room by free force, I did put myself in a dangerous situation, that is not an excuse for those guy to rob and rape me. But I have thought a lot about where is the line between being a victim for the circumstance and your own personal responsibility...
With that said, no I don't think he was raped. He wrote an article about it in the Huffington Post, if that was the case, he got away easy... This is the first time I ever written this down and one of the reason is that I am writing it in my second language which makes it more distant for me and less real. Having low self esteem is not being raped or being sexual assault. The only abuse he have had is what he is doing to him self... And that thought have been on my mind too, did I let myself get in this position, can I be that self destructive?

Of course you were raped. There were two of them and they robbed you during.

@bibob:

I find this review on a mainstream tech gadget site.
Seemed to me anal sex is no longer taboo in the mainstream.
When the reviewer( who professed to be gay and a bottom) couldn't find the gay porn he needed, he had to use a straight porn. Come to think of it, gay porn always started borrowing from straight porn. After all, it's basically the same except that one guy has to assume the female role.

Though I'm mostly versatile, my recent being forced to be the bottom for a rather nasty Arab top, who explicitly told me he's not gay but treating me as a female when fucking me because I'm smoother than Arab women. I can understand that he need to vocalize even calling my body parts in female terms because of his self denial fears of his homosexuality.

But of course, he don't want me to cross dress because he's actually still sexually aroused by a male body. It actually crossed my mind to cross dress just to freak him out .But I didn't because he could really get unstable and violent.

So now, it crossed my mind again to join this VR chat room as a female and really experience being female and virtually banged by a straight guy with virtual dildo with virtual touch then reveal my true self to freak him out

http://www.engadget.com/2016/02/03/the-future-of-sex-part-two/

Why would you even want to date someone like that? It's called self-respect. And no, pretending to be a woman is never okay.

Get him a vibrating disposable condom ring.

You should keep them small as a habit. It's dangerous and decadent to keep long nails. Your nails are more likely to tear off.