Posts made by BEAUJONES

Miley Cyrus and Stevie Nicks "Edge of Midnight"

Bareback and PrEP. It just feels better, and its more intimate.

Condoms are not all that effective on the following STIs- Syphilis, Herpes,Crabs, HPV, Molluscum, scabies.

Best thing you can do is assume everyone is positive. People lie. Even partners. Get on PrEP and stay on it.

@gayaznboi22:

Which do you prefer?  I like bareback because of the thought that everything is skin-on-skin when I'm being fucked.  That there's no need to wonder if the condom broke or slipped off; it's just a means to continue a good fuck.

While I prefer bareback, I use condoms with one-night stands and guys I meet online.  The only exception is if the guy has a recent test of being clean that they can show; I guarantee very few guys are willing to show or have such evidence.  As of now, I only bareback with my fuck bud.

Drug addicts are dirty or clean. HIV+ people have a disease or virus, and you can ask their HIV status. I thought in 2020 everyone knew how rude and stigmatizing that language is to HIV+ people. Do you call your mom dirty when she has the flu?

I would put my  tongue in there

Definitely not 26 fists that day, but a lot; at least 10.

I think there are many reasons why I like Group sex.

I have always separated love and sex, so I don'r have the hang-ups other people do.  I was raised an atheist so I never feel guilty for having sex. It is a normal thing to scratch and itch so to speak.

I loved the opportunity for variety, learning new techniques and challenging myself. I think one of the things I like best is how group sex brings so many styles and techniques from different walks or life to the table. It could also be linked to having severe adult ADHD.

The thing that I enjoy the most however is defying the "bear" stereotype.

@gayaznboi22:

@BEAUJONES:

I was the bottom for a fisting/regular fucking gangbang at Steamworks in Chicago. I think I took around 26 guys according to my friends who were monitoring the situation. I love group sex

26 with some doing fist fucking?  Geez, you are a definite trooper!  I assume not all 26 had their fist in you…?  Though it's good to hear you had some friends keeping watch just in case things got weird.  I assume they got a turn on you as compensation?  lol

But seriously, what do you find interesting about group sex?  Just being curious.

I don't think that is Leftist with FOX News saying the same thing, and all the Republicans that are starting to turn their back on Trump, because he's made the USA the laughingstock of the world.

I think Trump still has the support of QAnon for now and extemists,

We had a really hot minor league baseball player who delivered the mail, and I had messed around with him a few times. Then one day on break from his mail delivery we met up, and he parked off road and her fucked me in the back of the mail truck on top of everyone's mail. I am sure their were some sweaty letters.

@andergarcia:

Most of us have had weird times during the covid-19 quarantine. I have also been very little productive during these months, I have watched more porn than ever during these months, I have jerked off more often than before (even having a boyfriend as I do and living together as we are)… I guess now that the quarantine is over, the point is to try to start doing regular things and similar (as much as the pandemic allows us) things as before... coming back to normal, I would say.

In any case, I think professional help from a psychologist is always going to be very positive after such an unusual situation we all have gone through. I am already talking to a psychologist to put things in order in my life again.

And I recommend it to everyone.

I am so jealous. Living in the USA with Cinnamon Hitler as President means no end to the quarantine ever. Too stupid to live = most US Citizens

I was the bottom for a fisting/regular fucking gangbang at Steamworks in Chicago. I think I took around 26 guys according to my friends who were monitoring the situation. I love group sex

@cteavin:

@flozen:

@cteavin:

I think this title question would be better written as either "Are religious people better able to exist in our modern science-oriented society?" or "Are religious people more socially responsible than non-believers?". Maybe even, "Are religious people able to follow judicial law and social moors better than the non-religious?".

That's all great food for thought.  As far as the part i boldfaced, wouldn't religious people be less likely to do the "best" job in following judicial law and social moors, as they would claim spiritual beliefs take precedence when there's a conflict?  Isn't that what occurred with the horrible anti-gay postal clerk, Kim Davis?

A bit of the end-game in that kerfuffle:
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2017/07/21/kim-davis-kentucky-hook-legal-fees-gay-marriage-fight/500408001/

I would think so.

I see several possible outcomes:

• Religious people who obey secular laws over religious ones meaning they aren't really religious but in name/identity. (New Yorkers, Azerbaijani .)

• Religious people who thwart judicial/secular laws in favor of religion (Kim Davis, Cults, Saudi Arabia, Iran).

• People who claim to be religious and bend with the wind (most of humanity).

• Non-religious people who take to a secular cause with religious fervor to force upon others their ideas (SJWs, Civil Rights Movement, Iconoclasts).

• Non-religious people who flow rudderless and create their own spiritual replacements (modern Wiccans, African-American this, White-Nationalist that).

From what I see most people don't really believe in the Gods or religions they claim to, at least not the big three in the modern West. In and around Asia and the Middle East things get more complicated. But to the type you bolded, I think the majority of Western people can and do try to follow secular law first and as a whole we do a pretty good job. Do you see something different?

I go by this passage when it comes to law and authority of government.

Romans 13:1-3 “Be a good citizen. All governments are under God. Insofar as there is peace and order, it’s God’s order. So live responsibly as a citizen. If you’re irresponsible to the state, then you’re irresponsible with God, and God will hold you responsible. Duly constituted authorities are only a threat if you’re trying to get by with something. Decent citizens should have nothing to fear.” (The Message)

Also, being a Christian doesn't make one moral or amoral. One's actions define that in my opinion.

@raphjd:

Religion is bigotry when it is created by men who make their god in their own image.

@raphjd:

Religion is bigotry when it is created by men who make their god in their own image.

Its funny you bring that up. My pastor, who is female and I were talking about that, because I like to refer to God as not having a gender. Just because we were made in God's image, doesn't mean the architect of creation had to be female or male. God would have no need for such definition or function.

And I was taught in my religion classes in college that the King James Bible has a lot of bias and personal politics in it, and that before the King James translation, instead of saying Man shall not lie with Man as he would with Woman (paraphrasing) it says in the oldest texts Man shall not lie with Boy as he would with Woman. And that is a whole different ball game.

Our church stresses the Golden Rule above all else and love. We focus more on trying to be Christ followers. I am a gay man and I am on our  worship team. Its a pretty awesome group that tends to the homeless in our area, welcomes people struggling with alcohol and drugs. When I joined our motto was "No Perfect People Allowed." Now it is "All are welcome here. Love is not an option."

I think it is easier for some ministers and churches to use the "other" as a threat to keep their people in line. Its abusive, lazy, and cynical. Its also a sign of lazy theology. If you are keeping your flock by constantly sowing fear and division, then you aren't digging into the text enough, and you are staying with the 99 when Jesus clearly said to go after the one.

I get pretty emotional about my relationship with God, because I feel like it was stolen from me for a long time. Meeting my church family was accidental, and it they embraced me from the start and it took me awhile to hug back and to accept that God loved me.

Religions and churches are like any other group of people. The minute you generalize about the group, five examples will come out of the ether to say the opposite. If you want a relationship with the Lord or Buddha or Allah or any God of your choosing, don't let anyone take that away from you or put you down for it. And that goes for atheists too. Don't let believers give you shit. Its not their place to judge your lack of faith. Judgement is looked down on for us anyway,

Just curious to see how your personal grooming habits have changed since Quarantine?

I take care of a 97-year-old family member so I haven't gone anywhere. And even though the property has several building and I have a play space, I can't get laid, because I don't want to catch it. I have had lung issues and asthma since high school. I have only left the house maybe 12 times since the Pandemic began. And of course the day before the pandemic was announced a bunch of equipment came that I still haven't tried.

I have noticed that I have forgotten to comb my hair or put on pants before Zoom meetings for work or for board meetings at the charities I am involve with. I haven't had my hair cut since it started. I kind of like it. I have lost a ton of weight, and sometimes spend the entire day in my underwear, even to walk to the mailbox.

There are many reasons one may find it difficult to make the leap. First, there is no right nor wrong choice here. And it is different for everyone.

A couple of you mentioned that you aren't out yet. In actuality you have to come out at least twice. You come out to other people. You also have to come out to yourself. That's not as easy as people think. And maybe that hesitancy is because you aren't ready to embrace that aspect of who you are. If you lose your virginity, does that mean you are gay? Does it make it real? That can be scary. Of course a lot of non-gay guys have sex and aren't gay. But that's an idea.

Also, maybe you are putting pressure on yourself to have sex as a rite of passage, but in all actuality you are Ace and gay, which means you want a love relationship, but no sex.

I know this is cheesy, but make a list of pros and cons. Free write your thoughts on it. Also, it is a big step for you. It wouldn't hurt to speak to a sex therapist. You would be amazed at how past trauma that you didn't even know you had can affect things like sex drive, confidence and even the ability.

The guys who said go for it covered the bases pretty well. I just would add that when you are out and about don't leave your drink unattended. Being drugged and fucked is not most people's idea of a pleasant good time.

Dudes, I used to wax everything. I am super hairy and I would even bleed from it, and the holy heck it hurts down there.

Once in a while I get the urge to have a smooth hole, and then I will use a Nair-like product, but you have to pay attention. If you stop to soon it leaves a hairy choppy uneven mess, and too long can burn you.

I love rimming and have no preference, but for myself I decided that there are enough guys that like a hairy ass that I wouldn't cater to the smooth lovers.

@furfiend:

Get a partner who appreciates a hairy arse! ;D

Hallelujah Amen.

Whatever you do, don't try to cover it up. There are a lot of really sexy guys with hair loss. Use it to your best advantage if you can't reverse it.

I have a friend, hot as hell, who lost his hair so he shaves. He is a straight dude and he actually really misses going to the salon But his confidence really is the sexy thing other than just being handsome.

And there will be guys who are into you at first because of the hair loss. Its a thing.

I would agree that liberalism has caused a lot of problems in Academia, Its really eroded civil discourse, which allowed better ideas to move freely, critical thinking skills to develop, and a better understand of problems, because all sides were heard.

Now students won't tolerate professors to teach from texts that offend them. If I had not been offended at some point in my education, I wouldf have asked for my money back and changed schools.

Cancel culture, dismantling history, conspiracy theory and echo chambering are ruining everything.

I am happy to go either way, but when I am picking out pornstars its hairy, bearded tattooed guys every time

Yes, Clinton did do those things … but only to save his ass after his dick got him in trouble. And he and Hilary were super anti-gay when they were in Little Rock. He is an opportunist. So is his wife Hils and his good buddy Trump. Ever wonder how they ended up facing off in the last election. How convenient when they both may need pardoning for trips and activities with Epstein.

We have to get out of the mind set or Right/Left or we are screwed. Not everything is Cinnamon Hitlers fault, but a Hell of a lot is.

He openly disapproved of the Supreme Courts decision to include LGBTQ people in the Civil Rights Act. Schumer may have written the Religious Freedom, but you can bet Mike Pence is gonna abuse it, and it is very similar and a stepping stone to the horrendous crap Russia has been doing.

To act like any party in the US doesn't have blood on their hands is nuts.

Clinton should be strung up by his nuts, which have had way to much sway on our nation even now as he and Trump dodge the Epstein blackhole.

Both parties are amoral. The Democrats for now like to ruin people by hoovering. As bad as things have been under first term Trump, imagine what it will be during his second term when he has zero effs to givel  Death squads? Or maybe just turning a blind eye like in Brazil after a town murders a trans person like they are attending a community picnic.