Well, like was said before, having a racial preference is normal. Most likely, it will be a preference to someone of their own race. I am a bit different in that, despite all the diversity within my race, – we blacks do come in all shades of "black/brown"-- I am not, in general, attracted to black men. There have been exceptions in my dating life, but less than a handful. My attraction is more toward European men - particularly German, French, Italian, and British/Scotish/Irish men. For the longest time, I was not attracted to Spanish men, but man has that changed since 2010 and my trip to Spain! What a person likes is what they like, and people should not get so upset or take it personally if they simply aren't what someone likes. Just accept it and move on. Questioning it is useless. I outline online what I like in my profiles. No need to contact me if you are not what I want or describe. I am not the type to change my mind on a whim just because someone asks a question like..."So you aren't interested in black guys?" I am also not looking to start an extended convo/discussion/debate about my likes / dislikes until we're past the initial hook up stage and things get a bit more serious. I just delete those kinds of questions and move on. No need to waste your time or mine. I wish more people thought like this....
