Is it just me? WHO pulls out of a fine ass to cum on a dude's face?
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I don't get it... SO MUCH porn these days features this "ending"...
2 hot guys fucking - sometimes even flip-flopping - and at the last minute... when the top is about to cum... he pulls out, quickly re-positions himself, and shoots his load on the other guy's face... not even in his mouth, just "across his face"...
Is this some kind of "gay for pay" thing? "I'm not queer if I don't take loads in/on my ass, just on my face"?
I get it - as much as porn is fantasy, the guys still have to do something to actually get-off... and sometimes, the guy you're topping just isn't doing it for you... I completely understand the scenes where they fuck for a while, then you have to cut away and they beat off to get off... shit happens...
But in many (most?) of these scenes, there isn't really a cut-away, it's literally that the top says he's gonna cum, so he pulls out, strokes himself 3-4 times while the bottom quickly re-positions, and he squirts on his face...
This has become SUCH a pet-peeve of mine lately... I have started to skip to the end of the scene to see how they cum... and if this is the ending, I delete the file without ever really watching it!
Anyone else feel the same? Or care to defend the practice?
One last thing: this isn't to be confused with the A2M fetish (Ass to Mouth) - because the bottom doesn't take the load into is mouth, and usually doesn't lick the top's dick after he cums - much less take him into his mouth... this is just pull out of his ass, spin him around, shoot across his face.... and end scene... such a waste! Such a turn-OFF!
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It’s ok not to be aroused at something you see in porn. Someone else will. At least 90% of porn content is completely unappealing to me personally.
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@utf16 said in Is it just me? WHO pulls out of a fine ass to cum on a dude's face?:
It’s ok not to be aroused at something you see in porn. Someone else will. At least 90% of porn content is completely unappealing to me personally.
I hear ya... and I totally agree... but while I get a lot of fetishes: e.g.: I don't give a flying fuck what you're wearing - my goal is to get you OUT of them anyways! Leather? Lace? Jockstraps? Speedos? It's nothing to me sexually until you drop 'em and we get down to business! But, I get it that a LOT of guys are INTO leather and these other scenes... and I totally support that! Porn is fantasy, and we all fantasize about our own things...
Even in real life if you want to fuck while wearing a bear suit, I'm down! The bear suit doesn't do anything for me, but if it makes it better for you, I'm with it!
I guess what I'm looking for is the plethora of porn fans who are watching a good fuck scene and thinking to themselves: Gee, I hope he pulls out and cums on his face! - you'd think they way they're doing these scenes, there would be a LOT of those guys out there... but I've never met ONE! Not a one!
That's not to say that oral scenes aren't hot, and flip-flop scenes are my PERSONAL favorite (I get it - a lot of guys don't like flip-flop scenes because a top is supposed to BE A TOP, not turn around and give-up his ass to the bottom! - and if that's you, I respect your opinion... I don't want ALL scenes to be flip-flop.... OK, that's a lie... I personally DO WANT that, but I don't EXPECT that...)... but my own expectation of porn in general is that the studios go where the fetishes are!
There is a new series out from Helix with guys wearing costumes! Cool! I know that fetish is out there, and I know how hot some guys think it is! Cool! Get 'em hard and let the spunk fly! But I'm not expecting to see costumes in nearly ALL Helix videos in the future! Just a few while the fetish remains "in force"...
But the "pull out and cum on his face" thing seems kinda recent to me, and I'm pretty sure it's not really a fetish per-se, so I'm wondering if there is ANOTHER explanation?
Anyone?
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I should point out: I've worked in porn (a VERY LONG time ago)...
In the condom age it wasn't uncommon to pull out (wearing a condom) and to shoot on the guys face... that was safety! (It was also sometimes as long as 20-30 minutes after the bottom came!)
- The ass was open and raw - cumming on his ass after fucking him was not much safer than fucking raw to begin with
- The actor being cum on back then, usually was careful NOT to get cum in any "openings" (eyes, mouth, nose, etc)... for the same reason: if the other guy had HIV and his cum got in your nose, you could conceivably get the virus.
- It was rare - back then - for a guy to pull out, yank off the condom, and cum on his face in a "single take"... it happened, but usually there was a scene cut (and, to be honest, a significant delay) before the top came on him (usually, back then, yes - on his face)...
But the porn where I'm suddenly seeing this predilection for pulling out and cumming on their face is newer (and bareback) porn...
to coin a phrase: this ain't that
Maybe the directors are just old farts (like me) who remember the old days? ROFL
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@bi4smooth I have no idea about the intricacies of bareback porn. Call me old fashioned, but I don’t watch it personally, I don’t pay for it, I’m not interesting in it. It turns me off. At this point no porn at all is better than bareback porn.
Cumming on a guy’s face is fine for me. What I have basiscally ended up doing is downloading video files and manually editing out the bareback anal part.
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@bi4smooth said in Is it just me? WHO pulls out of a fine ass to cum on a dude's face?:
I don't get it... SO MUCH porn these days features this "ending"...
2 hot guys fucking - sometimes even flip-flopping - and at the last minute... when the top is about to cum... he pulls out, quickly re-positions himself, and shoots his load on the other guy's face... not even in his mouth, just "across his face"...
Porn directors like to show cum shots on screen, presumably because they believe that's what the audience wants. I agree that's it's unrealistic--in real life fucking or sucking, most guys (giving or receiving) want an internal cum shot.
Another "unrealistic" part of porn is that the actors never communicate what they want--the director is telling them what to do. The best sex happens when guys say what they like--and don't like--as they're doing it.
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@eobox91103 said in Is it just me? WHO pulls out of a fine ass to cum on a dude's face?:
@bi4smooth said in Is it just me? WHO pulls out of a fine ass to cum on a dude's face?:
I don't get it... SO MUCH porn these days features this "ending"...
2 hot guys fucking - sometimes even flip-flopping - and at the last minute... when the top is about to cum... he pulls out, quickly re-positions himself, and shoots his load on the other guy's face... not even in his mouth, just "across his face"...
Porn directors like to show cum shots on screen, presumably because they believe that's what the audience wants. I agree that's it's unrealistic--in real life fucking or sucking, most guys (giving or receiving) want an internal cum shot.
Another "unrealistic" part of porn is that the actors never communicate what they want--the director is telling them what to do. The best sex happens when guys say what they like--and don't like--as they're doing it.
All good points... the "external" cum shot (what we used to call the "money shot") has to be visible (as in unwritten rule) - tho I find it EXTREMELY HOT when I guy cums in the ass and you can see his cock pulsating the cum into him - you can literally see the tube along his shaft pulsing with the flowing cum... that earns a rewind and cum shot of my own, usually!
I just (personally) like it when they pull out, cum to show you it's real, then plunge it back in to get the full "force and effect" of the orgasm...
Porn is 100% about fantasy - and mostly about picturing yourself as one of the players... maybe bottoms like it when a top pulls out and cums on your face?
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I know that when it comes to porn, I prefer a nice face shot then seeing someone blow his load in an ass.
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@bi4smooth I just think it is for the visuals, they have to have some end. I don't like the endings where the guy came inside the others throat or inside the anal, even ot that would be the normal. But you don't get a good closure, it is just like, oh, was it over?
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@flashboy I think it's kind of hot to see how much cum comes up... sometimes when it's just in a mouth it's hard to see. With that being said, seeing cum drip out of a bussy is much hotter
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So, let's differentiate here:
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In PORN - which is fantasy and NOT a how-to manual for sex - the "money shot" is virtually always made visible in some way (sometimes it's even faked - usually badly, see many sketchysex.com clips).
I, for one, prefer it (in porn) when a guy being sucked off cums in/on the mouth of the sucker, and then the sucker goes back down on the cock, sucking up every last drop. It's even hotter if he keeps sucking as / until the cock starts to soften!
Likewise, I prefer (in porn) when a guy fucking another guy pulls out just as he starts to cum (to show that he's cumming), and then stuffs it back in - especially when you can see the pulsing cock delivering another shot deep into the bottom's hole!
What I don't enjoy - even in porn is the situation where the top fucks for a while, then pulls out - not to cum on the guy's ass or chest or stomach... no, he pulls out, re-positions himself, then jerks off (because, honestly, who can stay THAT CLOSE to orgasm while you do all of that moving around!?!) to cum on the guys's face... to me, that's a signal that the top just wasn't "feeling it" and couldn't cum fucking that bottom, so had to finish the scene jerking off... -
But, reality is another thing entirely:
When I'm sucking a guy and he cums - it's in my mouth! You'll never see me pull off to "display" the cum... (not even on my tongue) ... I take every shot, every drop, down my throat and swallow "while its hot"... no display necessary, as the only one who's there to see it is the guy who delivered it to begin with!
When I fuck a guy and I cum, I wouldn't DREAM of pulling out to cum on his ass or chest (much less twist around and try to cum in/on his face)! I cum in his ass - as deeply as my endowment allows - and I usually "lean into" him to kiss him while I continue to convulse!
I do admit that, when in groups, this changes... I have been sucked off my multiple guys simultaneously, and they WANTED me to cum across both their faces - so they BOTH got a taste! I was happy to oblige...
Sadly, that is not a common scenario for me (at least, not anymore!) LOL -
