It’s ok not to be aroused at something you see in porn. Someone else will. At least 90% of porn content is completely unappealing to me personally.

Jerking off multiple times a day = sore and painful dick + orgasm with a side feeling of nausea and tiredness.

@bi4smooth I have no idea about the intricacies of bareback porn. Call me old fashioned, but I don’t watch it personally, I don’t pay for it, I’m not interesting in it. It turns me off. At this point no porn at all is better than bareback porn.

Cumming on a guy’s face is fine for me. What I have basiscally ended up doing is downloading video files and manually editing out the bareback anal part.

It’s ok not to be aroused at something you see in porn. Someone else will. At least 90% of porn content is completely unappealing to me personally.

@Grotomode:

By all means, avoid bareback, but that is a weird reason to do so

Most people would never consider putting into their mouth something that just came out of someone’s bottom, no matter how clean the bottom was supposed to be.

I understand that sexual tastes are individual and unexplainable. But what’s so weird to want a sexual experience in hygienic conditions?

@fezobe:

Antidepressants - hmm, I'll check it out, very thank you. Now to find a good therapist instead of these two previous quacks…
Though last time I heard they are not killing the sex drive as much as revealing it was already dead due to depression (patient doesn't pay attention until they feel good enough to have a use for it again, or something like that), but that may be false info.

Exhaustion - unless you have a really good cause it's just a way to run from your problems. And when your problems are permanent, I don't see a point - if you're going to just work youself to death, why bother and not just kill youself directly?
Not planning myself yet, fear of death intact.

Now, it’s not like you’re going to solve any of your problems in a porn web site. But the intense physical activity is probably your safest bet. You’ll only have a stronger and healthier body overall by doing this.

As for the antidepressants, only SSRI (Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) might work. I say "might" because it’s a side effect unique to every individual. Any sexual activity physiologically becomes more like a chore, like eating when you have no appetite, but you know you have to do it to survive. I think it’s not worth to take them though, you’ll be living with a permanent taste of electricity in your mouth.

SSRI antidepressants prevent orgasms, especially in larger doses; they also tend to kill any sexual arousal. Only a doctor can prescribe this medication, because they have severe side effects. I actually read one person’s account that SSRI pills damaged his nervous system in such a way that he’s unable to experience orgasms.

Extreme physical activity and physical fatigue tend to kill sexual arousal as well, as least to me. Go to the gym regularly, exhaust yourself and you will never ever think about sex again, because you’ll only want to sleep

I don’t put my raw dick to anyone’s butthole and I don’t touch someone else’s raw dick that has just been pulled out of my ass. I understand that many people have some sort of sexual fetish, but this one is just ridiculous.

Some time ago, I actually dumped my boyfriend and one of the reasons was that he refused to take a shower before sex and wash his teeth. And this is way less siginficant than putting a dick to a smelly hole.

@manrmen:

in pakistan, if a family member stains the honor of the family, they usually kill that member.

I’m not sure I agree with the word "usual" in this context. What you describe in your post is that in Pakistan every family is a mafia and a prison at the same time and is composed of pure psychopaths (and all of this literally). I am absolutely sure situations like these do happen, but they are not usual, because we’re all human beings and we’re not that different. We tend to show more respect and love to people with whom we live.

If what you say is absolutely true and that person risks his life by living at his parents, it would be insane to continue doing this. If for some reason I knew my parents were about to kill me, I wouldn’t just stand here waiting for my death. Maybe it’s just me, but I think it’s completely insane to live with psychopaths.

I live in a very conservative European country. Being gay is legal everywhere in Europe, but in my region "traditional family values" prevail over basic human decency. Family bonds are praised and cherished. Homosexuality is a banned subject in public.

When I was about 9 or 10 years old, I was starting to figure out something was very wrong with the environment I was living in. I was starting to see that this permanent state of poverty and shortage of food correlated well with that "family bond" fetish. I was surrounded by families, none of which were functional, but still cherished for absolutely no reason.

The day I finished school and got the diploma, at the age of 18, I packed my stuff (a couple of books basically) and moved out to another city to study and never came back. At that time I had equivalent of 25 € in my pocket. I received almost no financial support from my "family" and during the next 3 years or so I was very dependant on State support and social security. University studies are completely free in my country.

Since the day I left, my parents played absolutely no role in my life.

Not sure if this scenario could have worked in Pakistan or in other muslim country, but it is still something to think about.

@sultrysam:

Yeah, those same people insisting on condoms are still fucking without them off a studio camera anyway.  They should not be catered to. If they don't want to shoot bareback porn, then they should get out of studio porn.

I’m trying to make some sense out of this gibberish. Who the hell cares what porn stars do off a studio camera?

Lol wtf? Plz go back to your westboro baptist church forums and congregate with your own and leave us gays alone.  :funny2:

Yes, I know, if someone doesn’t love licking dick covered with shit, they’re not gay enough. What can I say, the world is cruel and unjust…