Some people are beyond anything and are incredibly nervy/obnoxious. An older friend of mine, we'll call her Betsy went to a younger friend, Stella's house for a dinner party. Betsy asked Stella for a recipe for a dish she liked. Stella said "Oh, I never share my recipes" Betsy responded with fury "I practically taught you how to cook, shared my father's recipes with you (he's a professional chef) and now you won't share ONE recipe with me?"
The above is a true story! Needless to say, Betsy & Stella are no longer friends…..