Posts made by toonfan69

Deadpool

Absolutely gorgeous body and a couldn't care less attitude

Don't use Crisco with rubber clothing or condoms

If you use a water based lubricant (j-lube, k-lube, aqueous cream) you can mix in a bit of voltarol (diclofenac) gel to help ease any painful feelings during the play

As to after-care, you should have just moisturised your hole extremely well, it will return to it's natural size within minutes and should need no looking after until your next session

I have spent hours playing, to double width, and need to do nothing afterwards other than shower to get rid of any lingering lube on the outside…

I'm afraid that I ALWAYS have sex on a first date, just discuss it and do it, if you are sexually incompatible then the relationship might struggle on for a bit, but it's not going to last properly.
Open frank discussion is far better than being coy

It can depend on the situation and especially who you're with, I have managed 5 times in 5 hours with the right man in the right mental space, other times it's once and that's it for hours

Take life as it comes 

What's a strange fetish?  Strange and even fetish are terms that vary with who you're talking to…

My fetishes include: rubber, leather, fisting, sounds, toys, among many of my friends they would be considered perfectly normal, but I suspect many of the mainstream population would consider them very strange

Effeminacy has nothing to do with what your sexual position is.

There are total tops who are effeminate, and also total bottoms who are as masculine as it is possible to be.  Just because you like getting fucked doesn't make you one or the other.

Perfect example is a truck driver friend of mine, fought in the first Iraq war, has muscles to die for, and loves nothing more than a dick up his arse, he looks, and behaves like a man, everywhere including the bedroom, there is NOTHING effeminate about him at all.  Perfect husband material (if I wanted one)

where in "North East England", I'm 8 miles from Newcastle…

I have a mate who is always more turned on if I turn up wearing my Converse boots  :@)

Sorry, but I think thongs are vile, real men wear jocks

Often you CAN try them on in shops, but only over your underwear, and they may have a plastic liner inside the speedo to protect it in case you don't want to buy it

So if you do go looking in a physical shop don't wear baggy boxers 

bareback and fisting, better still if the guys are wearing rubber or leather

top sitting on the edge of a bed with the bottom straddling him facing him

as a top it means I can slide my hand in alongside my dick if he's in doggy position, as a bottom it's far easier to get double fisted 

I'm 6'1" it's not easy finding taller guys  lol

Don't leave it too long between shaves

Shave it if you want, but then use a moisturiser, preferably a thick cream one, to help stop itching

just use whatever lube you would normally use, and the bigger dick always goes in first  lol

I clean out for far more than if I was just getting fucked, I regularly get fisted, so I need to have a good deep clean
About 6 hours before play I take a couple of loperimide capsules to slow movement down
2 hours before play I douche well using a nozzle attached to my shower (until I run clear)
1 hour before play I have another loperimide
30 mins before play I douche well again (running clear again)
I can then play for hours without any issues

Certain foodstuffs should be avoided, especially peanuts! Quite a few guys I know have issues if they had cooked onions the day before too

It's definitely a case of "it all depends" with me
If he's naturally hairy all over including the bum cheeks, then I want it kept as it is
But if all he has is a ring of hair round his hole, then I prefer it shaved off

Any smell is due to not having showered recently enough (though some guys like a man to smell like a man!)

I shave my groin and hole for play sessions, but my chest and any other body hair is staying exactly where it is