good protein in that stuff, swallow it down!

on a side issue, the risk of HIV is far more from sucking a guy just after you've brushed your teeth than from swallowing the stuff

Deadpool

Absolutely gorgeous body and a couldn't care less attitude

Don't use Crisco with rubber clothing or condoms

If you use a water based lubricant (j-lube, k-lube, aqueous cream) you can mix in a bit of voltarol (diclofenac) gel to help ease any painful feelings during the play

As to after-care, you should have just moisturised your hole extremely well, it will return to it's natural size within minutes and should need no looking after until your next session

I have spent hours playing, to double width, and need to do nothing afterwards other than shower to get rid of any lingering lube on the outside…

I'm afraid that I ALWAYS have sex on a first date, just discuss it and do it, if you are sexually incompatible then the relationship might struggle on for a bit, but it's not going to last properly.
Open frank discussion is far better than being coy

It can depend on the situation and especially who you're with, I have managed 5 times in 5 hours with the right man in the right mental space, other times it's once and that's it for hours

Take life as it comes 

What's a strange fetish?  Strange and even fetish are terms that vary with who you're talking to…

My fetishes include: rubber, leather, fisting, sounds, toys, among many of my friends they would be considered perfectly normal, but I suspect many of the mainstream population would consider them very strange

Effeminacy has nothing to do with what your sexual position is.

There are total tops who are effeminate, and also total bottoms who are as masculine as it is possible to be.  Just because you like getting fucked doesn't make you one or the other.

Perfect example is a truck driver friend of mine, fought in the first Iraq war, has muscles to die for, and loves nothing more than a dick up his arse, he looks, and behaves like a man, everywhere including the bedroom, there is NOTHING effeminate about him at all.  Perfect husband material (if I wanted one)

where in "North East England", I'm 8 miles from Newcastle…

I have a mate who is always more turned on if I turn up wearing my Converse boots  :@)

Sorry, but I think thongs are vile, real men wear jocks

Often you CAN try them on in shops, but only over your underwear, and they may have a plastic liner inside the speedo to protect it in case you don't want to buy it

So if you do go looking in a physical shop don't wear baggy boxers