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Any tips to give for those who are noobs in a group, orgy, or going to a bath house?

On a chair with my partner on top of me

@asimpleman:

Proper ingredients are key to a good sandwich. 

A good ratio of PB&J  :cheers:

Lucky ducks!
I'd like to experience that. I'm a top so I envy the guy who I bottom, whenever he cums while I drill him.

@Blastfurnace:

@thebartender:

Relatively the asshole is cleaner than

Anything that comes out from the body is sterile … hygienically clean. I.E Urine and stool. As soon as these come into contact to the dirty bits like the tip of the penis or an unwashed anus then it become contaminated.

Generally, what I'm trying to say is that there are more bacteria found in the mouth than in the ass. But yeah. It is gross but if you and your partner take precautions of becoming clean then the risk of infection is lesser.

Yep. I am in Narnia too  :cheers:

Guy's who I have dated/hooked up with.
A few colleagues (who became close friends) and some close friends.
I love my wardrobe  ;D

@daydrm:

I have never cheated on any of my exes nor my current bf, but I have been the 3rd person for some time in a fucked up situation that took place in 2012. I have regretted about it many times since then.

Sorry about that daydrm. I have a friend who was in that situation as well. But in his case it was 5 people.
It was mayhem!

O/T
I do not condone cheating but I urge to ask your partner and talk things out.

For those noobs who would like to do a sexparty/group/orgy:
My advise is to ask if there are any etiquette like how to say no. or if you have to bring your own rubber or lube.

Relatively the asshole is cleaner than the mouth.
As long as the hole is cleaned well.

As a bottom, ever cummed while being fucked without even touching yourself?
How does it feel?

Ever tried being the middle guy who is drilling someone and then gets drilled at the same time?
How is it being sandwiched in the middle.

To me, No it isnt as I am an occasional smoker. The taste and smell of cigarettes on the other guy, is awesome.

I've cheated on my ex. When we got back together, sex was none existent. I was really horny, so I cheated on him with 3 different.

I said this to my ex when I broke up with him. Not proud of it but I did it.

I love orgies. Threesomes, groups, not so much into the Bath House scene.

Fucked a guy in an ATM Booth

Most of Korean men are uncut. Delish!

My ex and I weren't having sex (even when we gotten back). I was horny then and I cheated on him 3 times. One night, we had a friend over, Ex approached me asking if we can have sex together - a threesome. I relented but he persuaded me. After that night, I left him. My moral compass was askew and my principles compromised. I didn't like who I became.

It is hard, for an HIV+ to have a relationship especially with the current stigma. It's tricky. Yes one does love one another but the emotion is not part of it. How about an HIV+ person and a Non-HIV+ person relationship?

Versa-Top here. I'd bottom but I'd would be a guy of my choosing.