@juancho:
@OP
there are 3 possible things that i can imagine from your original post.
1. he could be gay and slowly discovering who he is but your aggressiveness gave him fear and made him very defensive and pushed him back to the closet.
2. he could be just a very friendly straight guy. i have a lot of straight friends and they think it's cool to have gay/bi friends and consider our inputs (especially about the ladies) very useful. sometimes these straight guys (mainly because of conditioning) are confused on how to treat us without offending us which make them shuttle back and forth from treating us like one of the straight guys and like of the girls they know. but that doesn't mean they like us sexually.
3. your having a crush on him clouded your judgment. it could be that he was just straight and nice to you but you misinterpreted his words and actions and placed deeper meanings into otherwise mundane comments and actions. we all do that sometimes.
these are just possible scenarios, of course. i don't really know you, that guy or the exact situation/happening.
but whatever it is, hopefully you'll be able to evaluate everything with a clear head and decide accordingly.
growing up entails experiencing a lot of complications in life and we can only hope to emerge from this stronger and better in every way than when we first started.
good luck.
thanks for the reply, i dont think i was aggressive or assertive in anyway in this relationship i never threw myself at him and stuff thats for sure.
i guess its true that he could be str8 , but he did too many things for him to not be gay i dont know, but right now i dont really care anymore.