Posts made by sakyo

Curious wouldn't dating app/sites be more effective? Not that I had much luck haha

@danijelr15 @hotdutch
Both of you are 100% right, I always think "what if this guy just want to find someone to beat up/rob or a serial killer?", especially if he seems a bit out of the league (no I don't mean those spam bots that opens with "hi there sexy"). However if you would like to be cautious then you probably should aim for non-sexual meet ups rather than wasting someone's time setting up something that you know you are likely to bail out of. I state in my profile that I'm not looking for hook ups yet still get guys message me with "want to have some fun?", at the same time when I message someone that says they are after friends only yet they don't reply - though probably because I'm not goodlooking enough to be his friend haha.

I'm also into fetish play where I says in my profile that I want to meet for a non-sexual session first before it progresses any further, yet still get guys setting up meetings and not turning up, it's funny that I can predict their grandma will fall ill or they will get a cold on the day we were meant to be meeting up. To help to screen the weirdos, I only will consider progressing further once we meet for a coffee first, if they are genuine enough to show up knowing there is no sex involved, they will be worth your time.

It would be the biggest turn on, please also check out the spanking thread

Martin are you looking to start one? If yes I want in! lol

I think it's very likely that they do, might help to get a bigger pay check?

Is the game Inuyasha?

The characters are basically a common Buddhist chant/script paying homage to one of the buddhas, you can go ahead and buy it as it's not something silly lol

Manhattan

I can relate to your comments, sometimes we feel that gay for pay actors are in a way "cheating" by doing something they normally wouldn't enjoy just for money, though when think about it, it's just like any other job, you do what is required to get paid but not necessarily agree with the company's certain policies. It's same with mainstream movies, sometimes we are disappointed when an actor plays a nice, devoted person in a movie turned out to be a sleazy cheat, but they were just playing a role for the movie, it does not reflect their real personality.

Although it's quite personal and intimate compared to normal jobs, I'm sure 99% of the guys in porn does it for the money than loving being filmed having sex and shown to the world. I'm not sure how porn works but I'd imagine the actors might not even be turned on by everyone they do it with - think about a group scene involving 5 or 6 different person, everyone might not be attracted to everyone else, or certain fetish movies, the actors might not be into it, but it might pay more than scenes where only sex is involved. It's the same for gay for pay actors, they have the body and the looks for the job, and they get paid for that job 

Long socks are really sexy, love to play in them

You are definitely NOT the problem and there is nothing wrong with the way you look as long as you are comfortable in your own skin, some people wants to lose weight and some people wants to gain weight, it's all personal choice.

Although twinks are actually one of the more "popular" (and I am using that term loosely) types people go for, as you would be able to tell with the number of twink videos on this site. You are right people tend to go for types of guys that are similar to themselves, I found this to be true especially in twinks and gym fit guys. Having said that everyone is into different things, there are younger guys looking for slightly older guys, maybe you can look for dating sites that caters for that or keep trying.

You are certainly not alone with this issue, and I hope you will find something sooner whether is a once off or something more a long term. Like I said I know that awful feeling you are going through, and I genuinely believe you will find someone you like

It's interesting that you have started this thread, and great to see others are in similar boat. I've just turned 34 not long ago, and I have hooked up with some guys mainly through online dating site or apps and also met up with guys for just coffee and chats. It definitely seems that many guys are after quick fun rather than something long term.

I have had a "kind of" relationship with a guy for a year but it was more like a friends with benefits arrangement. That was 7 years ago and since then I didn't meet anyone that I could have a relationship with. Especially with dating app these days, gay guys are getting more superficial than ever (didn't think it could get worse), just looking at someone's bio can destroy your confidence - "no one over 30, no chubs, no (ethnic groups) etc". I definitely feel your frustration that it appears no one is into you and I do get the emotional lows when not getting any replies from messaging 5 different people. But don't let that get to your heart, just move on, life is too dull to be dwelling on things you can't change, like someone said, maybe looking at changing yourself, get fit - even by just doing 10 minutes of jogging once a week; experiment with wardrobe and hairstyle; invest in yourself, learn a music instrument; learn cooking new things; try channeling those negative feelings to motivations.

We are all human and we can't force ourselves to love the ones we don't and by the same token we can't force those who don't love us to love us. Just keep an open mind and something might turn up when you least expected - on my recent trip overseas I even met up with a guy that's 23, we had a chat over dinner, then a few drinks at a strip club giggling at the stripper's dick, at the end of the night we just hugged and said good bye. Even if we didn't sleep together, just had someone 10 years younger than me asking me to catch up was a confidence boost. It also proves that just because you think you are average and unloved, it might not be that case in someone else's eyes.

Like the rosy ass in the middle!

Very nice, esp second pic!

Long time no see, thanks for the pics as usual

Got an interesting pic in my email today

I'll look deeper into my folders and see if I can find more

Franco is one of my favourite spanking cartoon/comic artist, here's a few to get things started

white socks goes well with jockstraps and running shorts IMO, perfect for hairbrush and ruler

Sounds great, although the sock part is my fetish

I think we should really compare notes with ideas.

This is HOT, just what I need, a boy waiting to be spanked