I agree with the above poster. My dick is not massive by any means but is a good 7.5" when fully aroused. That said, I am almost beer can thick (the head being a bit thicker than the shaft actually). Many men have enjoyed my cock in their ass, but many have squealed, gasped and inevitably barked at me before pulling off of it. They always love to suck it, but sometimes are not as thrilled when I am inside their butt. As a top, it is super frustrating to just get your head in for less than a minute and do to discomfort on the bottom's part have to be sucked or jerked to complete an orgasm. My personal preference in a bottom is a sexy guy who is relatively masculine, has a cute face (not necessary if the ass is hot), cute butt (not necessary when the face is cute), and honestly I do fetish a TINY dick. Just my thing - that combination turns me on. But yes, my girth has been an issue for some men (I tend to hook up with newbies for some reason) and is a huge turn on for others. It has ruined the moment for me at times, so yes it can be a hindrance.