hmmm, it was in 2001 I was around 17 and I had a relationship with a married 44 man. Since I was living with my parents and he was with his family we went to a hotel nearby. It was nice, everything was so natural and I felt realy cozy and special. Looking back at it, I am glad that this was my first time. He was respectful, gentle and caring and doing the right steps trying not to hurt me (at least not too much)
Posts made by nikolaos84
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RE: How did you lose your virginity?
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Dating a religious person
Here is the story,
The last few weeks I am seeing a guy who is deeply religious and conservative. Our relationship is purely sexual and I must admit that it is the best sex I have ever had.
However his opinions trouble me: sometimes he feels guilty about having sex with men, he is somehow homophobic, he doesn't want to be more sentimental with another guy. On the contrary, he said that he doesn't like for me to sleep with other men.Yesterday he said that during a religious fasting period of 50 days he will not have any contact with me, no sex, no texts, no dates nothing at all, he will ghost me. But he somehow believes that I should wait for him.
I replied that for whatever reason he feels that we should not continue our meetings, it is his right, but since he puts an expiration date to our relationship, then he cannot have more expectations from me.Honestly I cannot interpret his behaviour: During sex he shows emotions of carnal desire and attachement as well, he also likes to cuddle with me, but everytime I am trying to become more close to him, he draws away.
What do you think I should do? I am trying not to develop feelings for him and stick only to the sexual part of our contact, since he has already declared that he will ghost me in a few weeks.
Do you think that it worth a shot in pursuing something more or he is a lost cause?
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RE: Does size matter ?
size does matter, but for me "the bigger the better" doesn't always works. The top has to know how to use it in order for both to enjoy it.
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RE: Tips request for become a pro sucker
you can practice on your own with cucumbers on different sizes
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RE: Do you use dating apps?
I use gayromeo often, for NSA fun, or even friendships.
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RE: Being bisexual
Human sexuality is so complex and has so many faces. It is not in our position to explain what turn somebody on. You just accept it
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RE: Age Gap Relationships
my ex boyfriend was 23 years older than me. The age gap was not an issue in our relationship
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RE: Which bollywood actor will you like to have sex with
Hi Nikolas84, Wow Purab. I loved his movie My brother Nikhil.
I loved Sanjay Suri more in the movie. But it was a bold movie for that time.I agree, the movie "My brother Nikhil" was very daring. I loved Purab in Sense8, he was so sweet and sexy at the same time
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RE: Which bollywood actor will you like to have sex with
Purab Kohli
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RE: Cam sex
not realy,
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RE: How many guys would you have sex with at once?
10 tops and me, i could handle
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RE: What gives you the best orgasms?
Good chemistry among the partners and a little help from poppers.
Especially in group sex where I am the only bottom, it gives me great pleasure to be lied down and watch them masturabating at the same time a little before ejacuating all over meIf there's good "chemistry," you wouldn't need poppers.
perhaps you are right, the point is that i have the best orgasms!
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RE: What gives you the best orgasms?
Good chemistry among the partners and a little help from poppers.
Especially in group sex where I am the only bottom, it gives me great pleasure to be lied down and watch them masturabating at the same time a little before ejacuating all over me -
RE: Anyone have experience with Viagra?
Cialis is much more suitable for longer sessions. My bf used once one and he was hard almost a weekend
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RE: Scam or real - Online Dating Verification
I don't use gridr but such sites are not using a verification ID mechanism especialy a mechanism which is not free of charge, so in my opinion it is definitely a scam.
Those sites are also based on a certain level of anonimity and privacy among its members, so those schemes are violating the terms of use.
The app has all the necessary personal data in its disposal by the time you agree to use this app
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RE: How to know if someone is jerking off in the next stall?
Usualy those guys want to be seen so they leave the door half open
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RE: Have you ever used someone strictly for sex and then left after you're done with
I would't say I "used" anybody, but yes I had several casual flings with people no strings attached. I prefer to stay for a couple of minutes before going, I usualy stay for a cigarette and then I go home
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RE: Blindfolded in a Sauna?
For me it is a fantasy, but it will remain only a fantasy.
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RE: How to approach someone you like?
Usually eye-contact is the first sign. Then depending on the situation. For example in the supermarket you may ask thw other person sth about a product and so on
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RE: Make Hay While The Sun Shine and Become a Dirty Old Man
The way you describe it, sex sound like a compulsion or even onerous, I don't like it. I don't need to have sex just to have sex, only to compensate for future days.
If there is genuine attraction by both parties then everything is cool, have fun and enjoy it without constrains
I am 35, and I am quite overweight… there is a proportianiolity regarding older men and oversized men