no u don't have to be happy for her…but have u ever talked to her? or met her?
Yes. When he had a leave of absence for 24 hours he brought her to meet her with his friends.
She was obnoxious and very spoiled. She didn't bother to say to me ''very happy to meet you'' despite me being nice to her.
first of all, don't come at me like that saying I didn't read ur post, ok. im not sure if English is ur first language, but "platonic" means flat, which in relationships means u don't have any romantic feelings for the person. so u using that term, I assumed that u were saying that u didn't have those feelings any longer. and if I was in ur place, no I wouldn't feel the same. if I loved someone, and their happiness was with this person, then i'd be happy for them.
Platonic in Greece has a different meaning. It means that something we feel is not manifested or it is kept a well hidden secret.
For him i am happy and that's why i haven't tried to establish a form o contact after all these years. However, being happy for him doesn't mean that i have to feel happy for the bitch.
so if it was just platonic feelings u had for him…why do u hate her so much?
By the term ''platonic'' i mean that i haven't revealed to him my feelings (apparently, you haven't red the whole story).
It doesn't mean that there were not there (and there still are).
I hate her because she have him. It is that simple and don't tell me that you wouldn't feel the same way if you were in my shoes.
And let me tell you that she didn't apprieciated the fact that he was her boyfriend. She was a demanding and selfish harpie! 
The first one was awesome. The second one needed work (all though, they did introduced a very handsome version of Raiden). :laugh:
I just noticed that the author of the first post is not from USA! I apologize!
ahhhh,i see. u still talk to him? or still bitter towards her?
No, we parted ways when he was transferred into another unit to complete his military service.
It was not something physical, it was more in the form of a very strong platonic love that i have torward him. I never revealed to him my feelings for the formentioned reasons.
If i am still bitter? Man, I HATE HER!!!! :spank2:
now was the guy's gf/wife REALLY a bitch/slut, or are those ur personal feelings because she was with the guy u liked? it can suck falling for a straight guy, but it's a normal experience. my family is pretty dope and excepted it when I came out. i'm one of the lucky ones, but I REALY do feel for the ones that aren't excepted and cast out of their family. actually want to go into counseling of some sort for teens and/or adults who are shunned by families when coming out.
Mostly because she was with him.
In Greece, the military service is something that every man has to go through.
When i reported for duty, i met this guy…. he was my sergeant. You wouldn't say that he was attractive, but, man, sure he held my heart captive.
I serviced 9 whole months in the region of Evros with him but i never dared to reveal my feelings for him.
The enviroment, plus the fact that he was straight and fallen for a slut of a woman, forced me to hide my feelings for him and we remain friends until we were seperated since he was transfered into another unit in Greece. My heart was utterly shattered.
It was then that i realised that i am gay
Ten years later i learned that he was married and he had a daughter with the bitch!
I also have a very strong connection with my mother. She eventually discovered that i am gay, from me. It was a period that i do not want to remember. She didn't accepted it right away and certainly not easily.
As the time passed, she realised that i was her son no matter what and how much i really care for her that she managed to accept it and now she says that she is very proud of me (as i am for her). The same thing went for my younger brother. But surely, it is a storm that i was glad that has passed!
As for my father....well, i suppose that he wanted daughters in the first place because i haven't heard a single nice thing from his mouth to begin with.
As you can probably found out, my coming out was a disastrous and unpleasant experience but as far as the majority of my family is concerned, things turned to be fairly fine.
As for him? Well, let's just say that i was one of unlucky ones that realised their sexual orientation with a straight guy! :cry2: :cry2:
It is possible that you are confused in a certain degree.
Try to recollect that first sexual encounter you had and give it some very deep thinking about it.
Did you enjoyed? Do you want to happen again?
Do you want to make love with a woman? Does that idea fascinates you even a bit?
What arouses you the most? A topless hunk or a topless woman?
And do not feel ashamed for being gay. From what i can tell, you live in the USA. Do you know how lucky you are?
I do not know what your parents are thinking about the gays but if you have, even a small, suspision that they might give you a bad time then hide it from them.
There are some territories that even our parents are not allowed to touch if they cannot understand. It's not something harmful. You should only take the proper protections (meaning condoms) when you are going to make love until you will meet that guy who you trust completely.
It's a acronym for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.
Sexologists have agreed that it's a perfectly normal sexual behaviour.
If that's the only way to get laid, then yes!
But only normal sex sessions meaning no scat, pissing, fisting and other weird practics.
Just a plain good fuck!
Dylan McDermott recently came into my mind!
I haven't saw the others seasons yet but even if i would have saw them, i would vote S1 for mr Dylan McDermott!
Man, what a hunk!!! 
