Posts made by koolqee

I believe communication and honesty is key. Tell him what you want and why you want it. Of course, it's important to be sensitive about the issue and also respectful of your bf's decisions and thoughts. You could also try warming up to the topic and gauging your partner's reaction by asking his thoughts on open relationships.

Losing my boner by overthinking about all the small worries

afternoon for me

@gaypraha2:

seminal glands,and prostate are mostly responsible for that. if you take steroids you will shoot a lot. ( doesnt mean some guys use that to achieve it). you can also greatly enhance that with supplements L-arginine, zinc, selenium, horny goat etc.

wow thanks! I might try taking some zinc and maybe horny goat first as it's easily accessible where I live.

@cwamoon:

Boys. Sit. Down. I got dis  :cheers: :cheers:  :cheesy2:

I've always had combination skin. Too oily on the T-zone, but somehow breaking out in pebble beach patch of white-heads whenever I use anything to control the oil.

After years of trying everything out (All the major brands + the so-called acne-focused brands. Did you know even burtsbees has some questionable ingredients?) without success, as a last resort, I tried the hippy-dippy shit: all natural.

And my goodness. It worked. Now my friends refer to me as someone having exemplary clear skin…
The only "chemical" that I've kept is Benzoyl Peroxide in the morning, and a tiny tab of salicylic-acid-containing moisturizer at night.

My daily routine looks like this.

Morning:
-Benzoyl Peroxide cleanser, applied using finger and hands
-Witch Hazel and cold-pressed Aloe Vera, alcohol-free "toner." Spritz
-Burts Bees SPF 30 daily moisturizer (although not perfect, when it comes to sunscreen ingredients, they use the mildest)

Night:
-Tea Tree Oil and various essential oils with natural ingredients, applied and scrubbed using terry cloth
-Witch Hazel and Aloe Shit I mentioned above. Spritz
-Then I mix in my palm: a bit of cold-pressed 100% aloe vera juice which has grapefruit seed extract as the preservative, 1 small pump of cold-pressed argan oil, 3-4 drops of 100% Lavender Essential Oil, tiny dab of Neutrogena moisturizer with salicylic acid.

Of course everyone has different skin types.. But with most other conventional products, I noticed that it swings the "pendulum" too much because it works too quickly/strong on my sensitive skin. Rather, going the hippy route took longer, but actually managed to balance my skin.

Please link the products you use. I want to check it out haha

@cwamoon:

Don't masturbate for a few days - you'll definitely start loving that hole again.
Also, when I top (which is rare), I prefer to fuck guys that are 'broken in.' Too tight, and it actually hurts my cock. I prefer it a little loose.

When it comes to the curry-dick… OH HELL NO. NOPE. NOT HAPPENING. INSTA-HARDON-KILLER.
Find a bottom that cleans himself INSIDE OUT squeaky clean before sex. Enema X 3. I mean, that's what I do for my tops when I bottom...

When it comes to the size.. I mean.. Which direction does your dick curve? With the prostate's location in mind, choose your position accordingly so that the bottom's prostate is grazed against. Make sure to have him whine and quiver until the prostate is inflamed, and the size shouldn't really matter too much. Unless you are below average size, then maybe not.

I'm a smal0 5'5" Asian with a 5.5" dick. Never had problems with fucking other guys. Although I guess I haven't tried fucking a 6' tall guy before either. Tallest I think may have been like 5' 9". Taller than that, because of anatomy, might be difficult to please.

OMG the image that popped up in my mind when you said curry dick…. I actually almost vomitted  :puke:
My dick is 16cm and it points to the sky so it kind of hurts to have it perpendicular to my body but usually I go for missionary. That works best for me. I stress about hygiene though and doesn't help that I have a sensitive nose so I can smell things easily. Sex is hard... lol

@gaypraha2:

seminal glands,and prostate are mostly responsible for that. if you take steroids you will shoot a lot. ( doesnt mean some guys use that to achieve it). you can also greatly enhance that with supplements L-arginine, zinc, selenium, horny goat etc.

What do those supplements actually do? Doesn't it just help produce more sperm? Even when I save up for a week, I won't necessarily shoot…

I've see so many guys on porn shoot so hard and wondered what makes cum shoot like that.

Here's my hypothesis:
My cum rarely shoot out far and I think it's because my cum consistency is REALLY thick. My cum tube (Not sure what the correct term is but the tube where urine/cum comes out) isn't as big because it doesn't bulge out like some guys I've seen so I think that's also one of the factor.

My skin breaks out easily so I use the following morning and before bed:

• Toner to neutralise skin ph (I'm using Burt's Bee toner)
• Light moisturiser for oil skin (I use Aesop)
• Sunscreen when I go out because I live in Australia and the UV here is like wtf (Korean sunscreens are really good!)

I've gone through similar experience but maybe not as severe. At the start of sex, I get so hard and leak precum like crazy from getting turned but after a while, it just goes away and I have trouble maintaining my erection.

I think the problem is all about the mindset. If I feel stressed or worried, I lose my erection immediately. Sometimes I worry when I can't feel much sensation and get stressed over bad hygiene, whether the other person is feeling good etc.

A solution to this could be to just let yourself go. Don't sweat over the small stuff and just try and enjoy it! It might not be easy because it's all about the mind power but I guess practice makes perfect. Also, I think it helps when you have sex with someone that you trust and feel attracted. There's barely any chemistry with random one night stands.

I hope this can resolve your situation! Let me know if it works out. Happy humping  :hug2:

Hi guys, I'm a top vers but recently during sex I haven't found top enjoyable for various reasons.
1. I can barely feel anything (even with a thin condom on) and this prevents me from being fully hard
2. I get grossed out by poop and don't like to touch the anus with my hand but I like penetration
3. I don't think my cock is big enough?

Does anyone else go through similar issues? Any advice/tips to get around this? I'd love to hear from both tops and bottoms!

Thanks guys!  :love:

13 was when I first did it. I was showering and rubbed my dick with soap and it suddenly felt so good so kept doing it until something white came out. I wasn't too sure what it was even though I knew about sperm and got so frightened…. man I was so innocent haha

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Of course I miss my life as a child. There are many things I can't anymore as an adult. But adult life is pretty good too… I mean come on guys, we can have SEX  :cheers:

I don't like anything that seems painful like sticking things into your penis or fisting asses until the anus goes inside out like  :afr:
It's just not my thing but I know some people like it

I have a love hate relationship with japanese porn… I mean, why do they blur out the good bits?!  ??? ??? ???

What's your secret to shooting like that? Or are you just a natural shooter haha

On a hot Summer day when my ball and cock is hanging low sometimes I'm still feeling really horny after my first cumshot so I just go again and again and again until I'm completely exhausted with no more cum left inside of me. At this point, I'm a hot sticky mess but feeling satisfied haha

As a Korean, I tend to go for people similar to my appearance so I think I'd prefer Chinese people.

So you may have heard that China has been boycotting Korean products to retaliate against the placement of THAAD in South Korea as it pose as a threat towards China.

I would like to know if Chinese people are actually boycotting Korean products and feel threatened by THAAD. I've read on Chinese forums and I'm having trouble understanding if some people are genuinely hating on Korea and boycotting it or if it's propaganda/government trying to convince people to boycott.

Also, why doesn't China boycott USA instead when THAAD is an American equipment controlled by the Americans?

I know this could end up as a heated argument but please, I just want a discussion and to understand China's viewpoint. Thank you  :love: