@jazzmale29:
Yes I have. It was a very short relationship, thank God we had not moved in together. Sex in a relationship is good and healthy but this guy was a "sex-aholic". Apparently he wanted a monogamous relationship where I was to be faithful and he could do what he wanted, but to my understanding it was to be a monogamous relationship. I used to spend Sunday afternoons with him at his home. Every Sunday at about 5PM he started hinting how tired he was, that he had to get up early for work…blah, blah, blah. So I would let him have his space and go home.
I usually called him when I got home and sometimes never got an answer. We spent the weekend at his home about 4 months into the relationship and I was helping him clean house. I offered to do his laundry. I was sorting clothes and noticed many pairs of his underwear with cum stains in his crotch, I said nothing but began to wonder. I mean it wasn't like a drip or so...it was major staining. I went on about my business. We would see each other about 5 times a week, spending the night at each others homes. Sometimes while he was at my home he would get phone calls and step out of the room " oh it was my boss" or "oh it was my best friend having a crisis". Once he even had to leave because he had a gut feeling something was wrong at his house. I started to become suspicious. One Sunday when he pulled the "I am fading and getting tired/work early crap" I thought okay, I am going to park down the block for about an hour and see if he leaves. Low and behold about 15 minutes after I left I see him pull out of his driveway. I follow him at a distance. He ended up at an adult bookstore. I waited till he went in and till he came out 2 hours later. I was fucking furious. No wonder he never wanted sex on Sundays.
When he got to his car, I walked up and confronted him. He turned a shade of white I had never seen before. All I said was" caught ya" and walked off. I ended the relationship the next day and went to the doctor immediately. He gave me an STD. I then went on craigslist and wrote an ad in the "men seeking men" section, saying that if you have been with this man you need to go get checked. I got over 100 responses saying they had either sucked his dick or had been fucked by him. I contacted the TX department of health as well. Come to find out he had been going to the bookstores, bath houses and posting ads on craigslist. He needed to have legal action against him for spreading this STD to so many people. I let it go and decided to move on. But you talk about a sex addict...I don't think any partner could have ever satisfied his needs. So yes, I ended a relationship because my boyfriend cheated on me. GUYS BE CAREFUL SOMETIMES YOU REALLY NEVER KNOW WHO YOU ARE DEALING WITH!
So he gave you a STD just for sucking his dick? Or did you also practice bareback with him?