Posts made by jazzmale29

Let's get real here. If you think there is no sex involved you need to get your head examined. Come on guy, I understand financial needs but he is nothing but a paid sex slave/dog/whatever. Trust me there is more going on than you think.

Had a small gang-bang for my birthday about 5 years ago.  Saw and got fucked by a huge hung horse uncut black cock. He was at least 11" long and 7 to 8" around. He either was jiggyman or I swear his twin, he was from Jamaica. He fucked me several times during the party and towards the end of the gang-bang, he was fucking me and pushed in balls deep. OMG, I shot all over the place the minute I felt his huge balls slapping my ass. Would love to get back together with him for a one on one extended play session. It was HOT!

Recently Single (4 months). Heart-wrecked, depressed, sad. I am not a loner so being by myself is a difficult time for me.

greymo, I see someone mentioned using a shower head that is on a hose, but that can not be inserted into the anal cavity. Nowhere have I seen any mention of a "shower shot" persay

My god you people must not be very gay…LOL!!!!  I use a "shower shot", it is how most bottoms in the United States clean inside deeply. I have had one for years and would not go without one. You can buy them online at Amazon, Fort Troff, Mr. S. Leather, and many gay online shopping sites. I can not believe one person posting in this thread mentioned it. The best way to get deeply cleaned, I have never once been dirty after using this. Invest in one, you will be glad you did. They even make a portable version for you to take with you on trips for hotel rooms, etc....check it out guys. Geeze!

I would not try to be his friend. He kinda betrayed you in some form or fashion. I broke up with my ex last October, he was very abusive towards me, he was emotionally and mentally abusive. We have over the past 3 months tried to be friends, even spent Christmas together,
but in January his abusive nature took over again. I ended the friendship as of yesterday. I even had to change my phone number because he would not leave me alone. I am as well still grieving, even though he was abusive, I loved him and I am still sad over the situation. There is a thread here in Sex and relationships…called "my partner and his best friend", read it.

DamaDama, exactly! I agree. I thought this thread would generate a true interest and find some common ground. Where are the guys on here who have an age preference, I would love to hear your take on why you set limits.

aadam101, I am glad you are enjoying being 54, I am 54 as well. I tend to disagree with you about the age barrier. I have online profiles on some dating sites and to be hones there are many profiles that state an age preference. "If you are over 30 don't contact me", "If you are under 40 pass me by", "If you are older than dirt move on". Do the guys that think older men, let's say 40 and up, are to old for them, do they realize that one day they will be 40+ years old as well, and they will realize they put barriers on age preference. Love is love and chemistry is chemistry, age makes no difference to me.

Stunning man!

Just curious when it comes to dating why is there such an age barrier? Love has no eyes when it comes to age in my book. In the gay society I see guys calling men over 30 a "daddy"..so is a man over 40 a "grandpa"…and what about the man over 50 and up..."great granddaddy"  ?
I guess since I am maturing I don't understand this, because the guy that is 25 now someday will be 50 if he is lucky. I was not brought up to see any barriers or walls when it comes to love / sexuality. I see no age, no color, no creed. If the attraction is there, then what does it matter? Is it all just peer pressure? Your thoughts?

If you are only interested in Bareback sex there are many hook-up / dating sites that are for that purpose. Such as Barebackrt.com for one.
Just google it and it will pull up many sites for you to join and enjoy.

Update: Well to those of you interested, Mutt called it quits with Jeff today. I am happy for him, will be there for him and glad he chose to start the healing process. He told me he will be seeing a counselor next week and Jeff will be moving out. Thanks for all your advice.

I would love to get fucked by: CutlerX, Mr. Marky, Jerry Stearns and Rocco Steele

Yes, I am the bottom:

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I get turned on by interracial sex, something about the skin tones against each other and seeing a BBC penetrate a white or latin bottom. I was wondering what is your favorite interracial scene or movie?

Thank you, we are all from the United States here. I will take the advice given from you as part of what I share with Mutt, thank you so much.

Forgot to add this information: Jeff doesn't think anything is wrong with the relationship and is wanting Mutt to ask Jeff to marry him.

Wow, no more responses?

Mutt and I have been friends for a very long time. I am not trying to "fix" their relationship. My friend asked me for my advice that is all.
Secondly, Jeff does not drive due to eye problems and does not leave the house unless he goes with Mutt somewhere. So I doubt very seriously that Jeff is screwing around on Mutt while Mutt is asleep. Thirdly, I will stand by my friend and be there for him no matter what decision he makes regarding his relationship.

My best friend [Mutt]asked me out to coffee yesterday and needed to talk. I was quite surprised by the subject matter. Let's just call them Mutt and Jeff for privacy sakes. After hearing what Mutt had to say I was so shocked I didn't really know what kind of advice to give him and told him I would get back to him this week. I am asking you guys for your honest advice and opinion on the matter. Mutt and Jeff have been together for 2 years and Mutt is at his whits end with his partner and is really considering calling it quits. Mutt and Jeff live together They are both on disability so neither of them work. From what I am told Mutt leads a pretty normal life, stays up all day, sleeps at night, eats dinner at a normal time. It seems as though, Jeff is the opposite. He stays up all night, sleeps all day. When Mutt who normally does all the cooking and when dinner is ready, Jeff never wants to eat at the same time Mutt does. They never truly eat the same meal together at any given time. Mutt occasionally  likes to be held while watching TV or a Movie and Jeff will sometimes do that but tells Mutt that if they do that to much that he will get bored with it and won't want to do it much anymore. Same goes for sex, Jeff likes to take breaks from sex (sometimes as much as 2 weeks) saying that if they play on a regular basis that he will get bored with sex then. Mutt tells me sex lately with Jeff has been pretty bad and that it has been more of a jack off session more than anything else. When Jeff tries to penetrate Mutt he loses his erection, but when they jack off together, Jeff is hard as a rock and Mutt tells me for the first year the sex was fantastic. Mutt says that when he approaches Jeff for sex, Jeff tells him, "Oh you caught me off guard" or not now. It seems the only time they have sex or cuddle together is only when Jeff wants to.  Jeff likes to dip skoal and spends the majority of his waking time in the bathroom dipping, up to 8 times a day, 30 or 40 minutes at a time. So to put a long story short, I guess, Mutts needs and wants for a relationship have been squashed. Mutt is beginning to feel like he has a room-mate or a fuck bud instead of a life partner.  Mutt told me that if you love someone you shouldn't get bored with them, that you should want to be around them. To me it seems Jeff is taking Mutt for a ride. Mutt does all the housework while Jeff is asleep most of the day. Mutt cooks the meals and then eats by himself because Jeff isn't ready to eat, this bothers Mutt because he puts a lot of work into cooking and it just sits there for hours. Jeff says he should feel comfortable and be able to do whatever he wants, meaning his sleeping schedule, eating schedule, cuddle time and sex. And when Mutt says something to Jeff, Jeff becomes very argumentative and judgmental as well as defensive. Mutt told me he feels as though he is alone most of the time even though Jeff is in the house. I told him that if you really love someone you don't get "tired" of them or refrain from activities for a lengthy period of time, you want to be with them. Jeff told Mutt he feels like he is up under Mutt all the time. I told Mutt that they do not really sound compatible with each other anymore. It was not like this until after they moved in together. Mutt feels as though he has exhausted all efforts to try and I am not sure but it seems he is very unhappy. I had never seen him this upset before. Seems as though Mutt is putting in all the work in the relationship and Jeff is just coasting along.  What advice would you give?