I never think about having an "age limit" in either direction. For just sex I am open to all ages. When looking for a boyfriend I want to be with someone within +-5 years just because I have more in common with them.
I'm sorry for them, but hopefully (and very likely, based on what you told us), that was the right decision and they can both move on to something better for them now.
Hey Jazzmale - I really feel for you and what you've been through. Now that 6 monnths have passed -
a) how do you now feel about all the things that happened to you then and
b) even though last November you wern't looking for a new relationship - did you start going out looking ?
c) Do you fgeel ready to give relationships a chance again ?