Posts made by hylas

Woooo!

Can't decide on one single favourite… but Dark Souls, Ocarina of Time, Link To The Past, Chrono Trigger, Secret of Mana, and Baldur's Gate II are some of my faves.

The dudes in porn are just born that way.
Don't sweat it… porn isn't real life, and most dudes are just average. Which is why it's called average.

I only have one straight female friend who's made some vague noises about liking gay porn… but I generally don't talk to friends about porn, whether they're gay or straight. So we never really talked much about it.

But it does make sense to me. I mean, if they like men...
I sometimes watch straight porn, and I identify as gay, not bi. Not all that different, I think.

@warpaint: i also don't get the behaviour of some people. The guy in your 2nd paragraph is such a case. I guess he's enjoying the attention? Who knows.

But different folks consider different things to be rude. I don't think blocking someone you're not interested in is particularly rude… That way, they don't waste my time and i don't waste theirs. For example, Profiles without facepics are not interesting to me, i always block them right away. Not meant as a slight, it just means, I'm not for you, you're not for me.

Dating apps are great, but you need a thick skin and low expectations. There are a lot of fakes, flakes, time wasters, and straight up assholes on there.

Grindr is the most popular in my region, but also the least effective for me. It rarely leads to anything. I prefer scruff and planet romeo.

Adele - Don't You Remember

He has a lovely voice, but somehow, his music never quite reaches me. Can't quite put my finger on why. There's just something milquetoast about him. Play a Sam Smith song next to one by Amy Winehouse or Adele… to me, there's just no comparison.

I don't watch that many movies when they come out – my watching habits are pretty random, and I will often only see a movie after it's been out for years -- but of the one's I've seen, Wonder Woman was probably the best.

Some movies I've watched recently:

Thor: The Dark World (rewatch) 3/5
Love Hemsworth in this role, and there's some other nice stuff scattered around (Loki, Lady Sif, Darcy)… but ultimately, this one's just a big nothing of a movie.

The Handmaiden 4.5/5
Very good erotic thriller. Gorgeous period setting, great performances by the two leads.

Personal Shopper 4/5
Strange but good movie. Kristen Stewart really has that certain something. The special effects in that one scene look really trashy, though.

Lady Snowblood 5/5
Just absolutely fantastic. Watch this if you like women warriors and/or revenge flicks.

The Love Witch 4.5/5
Great visuals, and interesting acting choices. I like that the story leaves quite a lot open to interpretation... the broader themes are clear, but if you start thinking about it, the movies messages are really not that simple.

The Neon Demon 4/5
This movie is all style over substance, and completely unapologetic about it. And it really does look drop-dead gorgeous, every last frame of it. Unfortunately, it also has a nasty, misogynistic streak.

Nocturnal Animals 4.5/5
Great visuals and strong, intense performances. The story is maybe a bit slight, but the visuals and performances really do elevate it.

Arrival 4/5
Very good cerebral sci-fi. I was ever so slightly disappointed, but only because it had been hyped to high heavens. I really shouldn't watch movies with expectations like that.

Mariah Carey - We Belong Together

Sophie - Lemonade

Charli XCX - Secret

War on Drugs - Holding On

I like a lot of different things, but if I have to pick one, Hot House is probably my fave.

NOPE, I'm good.

Huge dicks. Looks great in porn. IRL, when I bottom, average to small feels so much better.

Anal beads. Love them in porn. IRL, they're not worth the hassle in my experience.

And this one is a bit weird, but: blowjobs. I know I'm in the minority here, but I don't particularly enjoy giving or receiving them. Seeing a cute and motivated dude give a BJ in porn can be hot, though.

Gaping assholes actually turn me on. But prolaps… well, it's not for me.

There's a few of them, but off the top of my head, Logan McCree and Lucas (Corbin Fisher).