I chose a cousin close enough to help boost my confidence if she accepted me, but not that close so it wouldn't break me if she didn't… then it was my best friend, then my sis (the person I'm closest to) and then my mom
maybe my "method" is not the best option there but it worked for me. I think a close friend might be the safest choice for you.
if you want shirtless guys (and more) def watch spartacus! I don't know if it is still on netflix but it was a year ago (watched all 3 seasons on netflix)
good tv shows with no shirtless guys… Black Mirror, I totally loved Revenge, daredevil, Sense8, Bloodline first season was good (haven't watched the second)
what kind of shows do you like?
first of all, relax, it's just a guy (yes, maybe a hot, gorgeous guy… but still... just a human)... and really, just try to be yourself, it doesn't matter if you're just looking for sex or you're looking for something more serious... your own personality is what will pull (or not) the other guy towards you
well… lucky you! I've been wishing I could see my best friend naked for over two years!!!
I was so afraid everyone would turn on me or to stop talking to me… I chose someone important enough to tell her but not that much so if she did, I wouldn't be broken about it... I told her in english cause it felt easier (my mother tongue is spanish) and she asked me to tell her in spanish, so I took a deep breath, say "I'm gay" in spanish and then cried my eyes out... everything was fine I was just so emotional... so after that I chose to come out to my sister, kind of the same thing happened, everything cool.
Things changed a little bit with my mother, she was the one crying, cause she didn't want people to criticize me or make fun of me and stuff so I told her "you're 20 years late... that has already happened and I'm still here!" she took a while to let it sink (she would let me touch her the first week after I came out) but everything turned out fine and we are very close now 
I think it´s simply about feeling attraction to your same gender… you are not gay for being attracted to one guy, the same way you're not a vegetarian for eating vegetables just one day
I was 22 and so afraid when I did… but now everything is cool (im 26 btw)