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Hi, i really have a turn on for beautiful scandinavian and dutch guys (Danish, Swedish, Norwegian, Finnish), and although these countries are super liberal for me it's still difficult to find porn stuff coming from those countries. You guys have any suggestions of scandinavian models or porn studios with hot movies i can look for?

I am gay and catholic, and after much thought about my sexuality i came to the following conclusion.

Let's be strict. According to the bible dogma sex before marriage without reproductive purpose shouldn't be done, and althought it seems completely different in practice, this has no exclusive or exception rights for straight people. Sodomy (what straight homophobes call us all the time) involves from masturbation to oral sex straight AND gay! Sex with condoms, having multiple female partners are technically sins a well! In a post-sexual revolution world we have a giant hypocrisy of a straight society that do as much "sin" as gay people and still externalize this to homossexuality as if this was a "special" or "worse" sin that ever existed.

I researched a lot and talked with catholics priests, and they explained over and over that in fact, chastity should be for everybody, but while straight people can have a marriage and can generate life, gay people fall on the problem of the need of eternal chastity. But this do not mean that a straight guy having multiple sexually active partners during his life is better than any "promiscuous" homossexual.

What happens is that straight people, and in fact, the average-joe, hates homossexuality purely by orientation repulse: "ew, i wouldn't do that so this means this behaviour is bad". And this kinda tangles with the notion of chastity of christianity that they themselves forgot and ends up in "gay are sodomites, but my masturbation is natural and ok, even if masturbation IS sodomy". Knowing that what homophobes and their alpha male complex says is not what the bible dogma is brought me back to christianity, made me feel not as an outcast monster as I felt before. I keep as a catholic, because protestantism in general the Catholic Church understand that humans have sin, and tolerate it way more than protestantism, that keep pushing this idea that their followers are holy and everyone else evil sinners from hell.

And the part of understanding sin nature of human is the most important. Just because it's wrong nobody expects you to have a holy life without sin, although it's desire of the church and from god that this goal become reality for many people as possible. If living a saint life was so easy, we would have way billions of saints. I value religion because it sets virtue "ideals" that are good to pursue, living a life in sin it's not nice, i know because i was really promiscuous and i always felt empty inside. Even in a non-religion sense we can notice that having and accepting lots of vices and addictions are not nice, but we know that living without them is almost impossible.

You need to repent from your sins truly at some point of your life if you wanna achieve heaven, this includes the blowjob of that girl a straight guy had, or the blowjob from thay guy a gay guy had. The homophobe that brags about fucking loads of women while discriminating gay people for having any kind of sex life is the most likely to go to hell, once he never repents and have pride in their sin.

That's my opinion, and this conceal pretty well my sexual orientation with my faith. Basically I don't believe i'm doing better or worse than any average straight single guy nowadays.

It's just frightening when you go to the place of the person, things are kinda dark and you only can think: Okay, what if he is a serial killer and kills me right now? Instantly i recap all my life, so most hookups on grindr (where i go directly to the person's house) for me have a bit of  passing-away experience for me. I generally don't like to go out at night, although it's more difficult somehow to find partners during the day.

But that's what gives us phobia, the unknown. It "might" be a psychopath, 99% of times may not be but there's still the 1%. I feel kinda scared too when i have sex with a stranger, even if it was safe-sex, and then some weeks later i get a flu or something. So far nothing happened with me, but i confess it's pretty terrifying.

How it was the relationship with the first guy?

Hi, i decided to extend something i posted on a comment:

I have a problem: my partner is an effeminate top and i am a discreet bottom. I like discreet tops and he likes it as well, so i take the top side of the relationship. This makes me so tired and made me loose most of my sexual interest for him, although we keep doing sex, fewer times than we did before, what makes him feel really bad about himself. He works hard at the gym and got a beautiful body, but still doesn't makes him desirable for me aesthetically.

I constantly deny and try to create this idea of "i don't like to make sex just for making", although if a hot top guy asked me for sex probably i would do it without second thoughts. But we both know that i don't feel that much attracted for him, i fear this is hurting our relationship. The problem is that i love him a lot!

He is a sweet person that understands me and i am an really attentive and caring partner for him outside sex. We work well together and in a world that have so many std's (i am kinda hypocondriac), its good to have a partner that you trust. I cheated on him? only once when i made a travel for other country but instantly regret it, he said that he would be ok with an open relationship, but this goes against all of my principles.

So, since then i kept loyal to him, but keeping a sexual life is difficult! I don't wanna break up with him because of sex, in fact i came from a previous abusive relationship where the person faked he was my boyfriend while had sex with more than 100 people (yes) in a year. Since then i grew to understand that sex should not be a focus of a relationship, I feel i'm loosing desire for being single, i want to have a serious relationship that makes me happy and that can endure for a lifetime. And it's not that i never have sex with him, i do! and i do it well! but he needs to take the initiative almost always.

It is being bad for him, because he associates sex with love, so he thinks i don't love him but i do and a lot! so much that i could have been cheating him lots of times but i don't do it and feel completely fine about it. I denied sex with really hot guys interested in me for a long time. The problem is, is this sustainable?

Any opinions?

It's sad, but i feel exactly that. My boyfriend is the sweetest guy you can imagine, on our first months we had a lot of sex but i lost sexual desire although im deeply in love with him. The problem is that i'm the discreet-looking guy and he is affeminate, but he is a top and i am a bottom. So, i don't wanna bottom for him because this is a total turn-off, so i force a dominant "alpha" top on bed, what he likes a lot actually, i like it too but it's tiresome sometimes. I really like to bottom, but to buffed and more masculine guys than me.

Everytime i masturbate, or we fuck, i only imagine college frat guys that i know fucking me in all ways possible. That's what makes me really hard and that gives me pleasure, and to top that, my boyfriend has a super hot twink like body but his face is not my kind. In short terms, he is almost but not quite what i seek on a partner for "fuck".

But i came to a conclusion that is not worth ending a really good relationship, specially after all the shitty relationships i had with guys that satisfied me sexually way more than he do.

I went to hook up with this guy that was older than me (like, 35… i'm in my 20's), he was a bottom and so buffed and i thought it would be interesting to fuck him. When i came to his house ( a really nice house!), he showed that i could dominate him and at first i felt good! The things went downhill from there, why?

First he asked me to rim him, not a problem, but i rimmed him for like 10 minutes straight and my tongue was almost numb by then, i finally made him give his ass to me, and he started to shout first... "breed me", ok that's hot! But 5 minutes after he was like.

"Are you a straight boy yes? do you like my pussy yes?" - YEAH I GONNA FUCK THAT PUSSY DO HARD BABY
"Suck my nipples, like you suck of a woman, tell me more about how you fuck them" - hot... yeah i fuck many women (lies)
"Tell me do you like it yeah?" - yeah i like it but you are so much better (trying to be cute)
"YEAH DO YOU FUCK PREGNANT LADIES, FUCK ME LIKE A PREGNANT LADY" - wha... I don't fu...
"I WANNA SEE YOU FUCK YOUR MOM, FUCK ME LIKE YOU FUCK YOU MAMMA" - WHAT
"Yeah, suck my PREGNANT LADY TITS BOY" - WHAT THE FUCK (emphasis on the shouting of pregnant)

By this time he was saying a bunch of weird shit about fucking a pregnant lady and the baby inside and i totally got turned off, and see that i'm into lot of roleplaying fetished (dad, son, brother, frat, teacher, sub, slave...), but pregnant-lady fucker? Hell no, everything has a limit.
I asked him to stop riding me, and dressed up as fast as i could and rushed aways as fast as I could. Why? For real, i thought if i stayed a bit longer he would kidnapp me and i would be gone forever. He looked kinda weirdo, i didn't notice this at first but he talked in a really weird tone of voice (not an accent though).

I remember talking about that with another hookup i had, i still laugh about it today. Someone could please tell me if this pregnant-lady-gay fetish is a thing?

I used to have + 600 GB, but i select rigorously all the videos. It's always on the best quality availabe, no duplicates, all the models are hot. One day, somehow i had lot of guilt and a bad feeling for having so much porn and i decided to delete almost everything from it. I left my skype recordings though (as i wouldn't find them anywhere else). Now im rebuilding my collection, but this time better!

I have a funny relationship with gay porn, i confess to you that i don't masturbate for porn in a while (like, more than 4 months for sure!). The best porn do for me is giving me ideas of sexual fantasies that i can have when i'm going to sleep. And the ammount of porn that i had and even the porn that i have now would take an eternity to watch.

But you know, i believe that collecting, and specially classifying porn has become a hobbie! It's so weird right? I naturally love to collect stuff, when i was young i used to collect rocks and stamps. The classifying part is my favorite though, i organize stuff in lots of different ways, now i'm trying to mount other scheme more based by actors (that is my favorite way to classify porn). It works like that: I select a pantheon of my favorite porn actors (Connor Maguire, Scotty Zee, Collin Simpson…), he being mostly top or bottom gives priority.

For example: if connor maguire and scotty zee made a video together where Connor is bottom, it would go to scotty zee file, but if Connor is a top, as he is mostly top on his videos, it would go to his file instead. I'm still making a more rigorous standard, because people like Tom Faulk that is bottom and top i classify by his looks, you know. More masculine guys take the top priority.

It doesn't give me much trouble though, generally one actor on the "pantheon" is always with other that is not.

I confess i am in a difficult moment and my life, i dropped out of college and i'm trying to enter in a new one, but this will take months and even with my job i still stay most part of my time at home. I love hot guys, so this has become a great past time for me.

If you curious to know what do i do with hot scenes that do not involve my favorite actors? I classify them firstly by fetish hierarchy: BDSM will have subfiles (edging, fisting, "rape"), Incest (brothers, dads, uncles - i don't bother with step-relatives), International (foreign guys is a fetish of mine, but falls in a lower hierarchy, only "non-fetish" sex scenes from international guys enter in this file, i classify by country)... Everything else that occupies most of it and do not involve any fetish (scenes from Corbin Fisher, etc...) i classify by company.

So its like:  actor > fetish > company

Sometimes i think about doing an thread about my perfection of the art of classifying gay porn haha, if some of you guys are interested just let me know.

This gives me some crazy post-modern insights. Sex has became so available with porn that now people like me see it as stamps or coins.

Hi,
I constantly think how i want to have children in the future with my partner, but it's still a difficult decision for me because i would not like to raise a children purely on egotistic desires. I want this kid to grow up and develop itself without major troubles caused by his or her family structure. The female figure seems still to me very important for raising a child, i don't think i would like to get my relatives involved, and maybe think to have a nanny that would take care of the home and be this figure.

I would like to know from you guys, specially if you have children without having a prior wife or female partner, if you find difficult to offer this side of parenting to them or if they show signals that they lack the figure of the mother. I believe a child may feel urge to search for his mom even if its adopted by a heterossexual couple.

Opinions anyone?

would totally fuck you

Generally i don't like to taste a cock. Like… I don't like it. But if the guy cleaned himself well, i can suck it with no problems.
So, i prefer to be sucked. Definetively.

Hi, I'm curious about how you guys who make c2c feel about it.
I jerk off with guys on cam like, since 2012, and now i have experience enough to discover fakes and etc.

But something always made me mad after a cumming at cam. Did you guys normally get worried afer cam with a guy that you've met at chaturbate, camtogays or omegle? Like omg, if he recorded me?
I don't know if it is a paranoia of mine. I usually trust in guys that i cam often, but when a new guy appears, principally that moment after you jerked he blocks you.

I wanna hear a bit of your stories. Some guy of the forum found a video of himself jerking on internet, and how to avoid such things. How you guys deal with that in c2c stuff?

I always had an attraction for older guys, like 30 - 45. I'm not into older than that, and i prefer the athletic ones, not much in macho style, just handsome older guys.

I had my first time with a bear (the destiny), he is not athletic, but with a strong manly body, not fat but not thin. He was a "Normal" guy, but well built. I just went into heavens when i was fucked by him. 29 years old and i have 19, 10 years of difference are great. He is so experienced, and i had any. He knew how to touch me , make me horny. Unfortunately, i just fucked him one time, because he lived in another city.

I can say to you that i loved to stay with an hot older guy, and realized that i wanna to enjoy still when i'm a "twink". Because one of the best experiences a guy can have in his sex life is to have sex with an nice older guy, with experience. The gap of 10-15 years seems nice to me. I expect to have sex with another older guys.

I think it's great!!!
But i should do a PS: I'm not sure about an long-term relationship, because, he'll get older than you sooner, and that isn't so nice (my opinion), i think that you'll reach a strange point .

So, enjoy older guys for not so long periods. Imagine them as teachers, you'll get experience and sensations with them, but not have classes with the same teacher forever. I just reccomend you that.

Hi, I'm new in this forum, and I want to share with you something that is killing me this days.

I like men, but i don't want to.

I'm 19 and i had my first time couple weeks ago. Since then i feel confused, but now i believe that a first time generally sucks. I was virgin since then, not only because i didn't liked the idea to have sex with a guy, but also because i didn't felt so excited with girls and in my city, homossexuals are trated as garbage.

I never was an affeminate guy, i'm normal, and i had lots of straight friends, but no like them, i never was so intrested with fuck a girl and being an alpha male. I was quite indifferent about that, so i preferred to stay at home and just watch my gay porn.

But i like and don't like it. I felt guilty with myself, because i know my desire for guys is just sexual. In the other hand, I don't have a strong sexual desire for girls, but i still have. I decided to test myself, and i discovered that i could cum for a straight porn video, or an lesbian one. The difference is that with that kind of movie, i take longer to get horny, and with a gay one i went almost instantly.

So, as i said. I was virgin, and both things were just theory. When i travelled to another city alone i decided to find a guy at gindr. He was so nice, and not affeminated. I felt weird, i was just like him, discrete and i was kinda surprised when he said to me "the most part of gays aren't affeminated".
He took my virginity (if someone wants to know more, just tell). I felt so realized, and happy. I had a great time, but after the happiness vanished. I went back to my city, and unfortunately i kinda liked him. He already fucked a lot of guys, and our sex was just one more on the list for him (but he isn't any jerk, he is nice and tender too), but for me it was kinda unique.

I still never had sex with a girl. And i'm so confused because i'm not sure if i'm bissexual or if i'm just a gay trying to have the excuse "i like girls too".

I'm not sure if my attraction for girls is legitimate, but i know that i don't imagine myself being an open gay. I would love to have a wife, and children. It's a dream for me, and i never liked the idea or felt any desire in stay in a relationship with a man.

I just wanna know. Living as a "Public" straight can be something that a guy that is bissexual or gay can deal with? It brings any major problems, or a guy just can have a wife and like another guys in a secret way.
I feel excited about girls, in a sexual way, but not as i feel about guys. I'm bissexual? And its difficult to be an open bissexual? I don't have any idea.

At least, can i live a life being discrete, "straight" for others and gay just in bed, or a guy in the same situation can't hold this image for much longer?

I need advices, and i liked to hear some stories too.

Dude, don't worry… I'm 19 too, and i can say to you that everyone have their time.
I was devasted when i'm 18, because i was virgin, and i felt horrible, because all my friends (straight, and i'm still today discrete) had girlfriends or a active sex life.

I was shy too and i lived in a small city. One day, I traveled to pass a week in another city in a friends house. He went to work all day long, so i decided to walk around and meet people.
I met an older guy (he is 32), a very nice person, via chat. I said to him that i'm intrested in sex, and he asked me to went into his house.
I was terrified, i was like: omg he'll kidnap and kill me. But when i met him personally, it wasn't so bad.
I had an awesome sex, omg... I went into heavens. I realised that fuck loose virginity early or after. I was ready for it, the sex doesn't happen with one person, you know that you're prepared when you have the right time and the right person, or any person inclined to it.

You feel ready and he or she wants? go for it

I don't know well yet.
I liked to have sex with a guy, but as i never fucked a girl, I'm not sure about my sexuality.

Before my first time i always liked the idea to suck a cock, but when i did it, i didn't liked the taste, i hated it. I don't know if it is because of my partner cock, but i didn't liked much.
I had a lot of ideas about how i should feel in some situations, or if i'm top or bottom… When i had my first time, everything changed.

I don't have any.
In general, you can't trust most of videos on internet of "dad and son". And, in general the "possibly real" ones feature not hot dads in general. But I know about a video of real dad and son, i'm not sure it's from College Physicals, but you can find it on xvideos.
Real Father and Son jearking together - thats the name of the video
I think they have 2 videos featuring real dad and sons, but all are softcore. They just jerk off each other.