Posts made by dzirlo

considering foreign policy, what's the difference really? usa never ceased to make artificial wars, from vietnam till today. no matter bush, or  obama, the nobel prize for peace laureate.
american foreign policy is neocolonial, acting like a world police just to turn around more money from the military machine.
can you quasyliberals and humanists look in the mirror and say that a proven warmongering harpy from hell that hillary is would be a better choice than someone who at least did not prove himself to be that bad and doesn't have blood on his hands?
do you really believe she sincerely cares for people and human rights when is constantly lobbying for more wars globally?
i'm just glad that she lost because she already showed her real face.
i just can't believe how shallow gay people are to be bought by a few nice words from a proven mass murderer just cause she knows how to sweet talk and can pay gaga and beyonce airheads for support.
just remember that few years ago she was against gay marriage but when the climate in accepting lgbt changed, she jump on a bandwagon.
give me tumps sexism and vulgarity everyday over a sweet talking psychopath.

i like everything, but more of a foreplay player than into anal, but still love anal so much 

so, some people are more into foreplay than sex, a some not into anything than foreplay. is all.  :love:

@jazzmale29:

Yes I have. It was a very short relationship, thank God we had not moved in together. Sex in a relationship is good and healthy but this guy was a "sex-aholic".  Apparently he wanted a monogamous relationship where I was to be faithful and he could do what he wanted, but to my understanding it was to be a monogamous relationship. I used to spend Sunday afternoons with him at his home. Every Sunday at about 5PM he started hinting how tired he was, that he had to get up early for work…blah, blah, blah. So I would let him have his space and go home.
I usually called him when I got home and sometimes never got an answer.  We spent the weekend at his home about 4 months into the relationship and I was helping him clean house. I offered to do his laundry. I was sorting clothes and noticed many pairs of his underwear with cum stains in his crotch, I said nothing but began to wonder. I mean it wasn't like a drip or so...it was major staining. I went on about my business. We would see each other about 5 times a week, spending the night at each others homes. Sometimes while he was at my home he would get phone calls and step out of the room " oh it was my boss" or "oh it was my best friend having a crisis". Once he even had to leave because he had a gut feeling something was wrong at his house.  I started to become suspicious. One Sunday when he pulled the "I am fading and getting tired/work early crap" I thought okay, I am going to park down the block for about an hour and see if he leaves. Low and behold about 15 minutes after I left I see him pull out of his driveway. I follow him at a distance. He ended up at an adult bookstore. I waited till he went in and till he came out 2 hours later. I was fucking furious. No wonder he never wanted sex on Sundays.
When he got to his car, I walked up and confronted him. He turned a shade of white I had never seen before. All I said was" caught ya" and walked off. I ended the relationship the next day and went to the doctor immediately. He gave me an STD.  I then went on craigslist and wrote an ad in the "men seeking men" section, saying that if you have been with this man you need to go get checked. I got over 100 responses saying they had either sucked his dick or had been fucked by him. I contacted the TX department of health as well. Come to find out he had been going to the bookstores, bath houses and posting ads on craigslist. He needed to have legal action against him for spreading this STD to so many people. I let it go and decided to move on. But you talk about a sex addict...I don't think any partner could have ever satisfied his needs. So yes, I ended a relationship because my boyfriend cheated on me. GUYS BE CAREFUL SOMETIMES YOU REALLY NEVER KNOW WHO YOU ARE DEALING WITH!

sweet jesus.

may i ask what kind of std is that, if you can sue someone over it?

@hotscott:

Sure I have a comment.  Fuck that guy right in the pussy.  Or was it grab him right in the pussy.

why such a foul language?

after all, they say, in democracy, people get the government they deserve.  :hug2:

No comments on your newly elected president??

Congratulations people of America!   :hug2: :love:

honey, they're not str8 

i go to restrooms where gentleman grab my cock in the urinal, but i'm not sure if it's by the decorum.

i wouldn't rush, and i'd try to be patient. i know it kills the vibe for you, but what the heck…
don't you want to see for yourself spontaneously if it's going to flower into something meaningful, without forcing anything?
i think forcing the "put a ring on it" if you see that he needs more time is just going to blur the perception of the whole thing for you too.

just chill and enjoy the moment but with an opened eye.

my tongue would approve of your hole so bad.  :police:

we regret to inform you that you're wrong.

the person below me better vote against hitlary or will be responsible for the nuclear holocaust?

i think ur still young, and have the time to work on whatever you feel like working on.

ur wrong for putting so much pressure on yourself, but ur wright for perceiving that there are some rules and regulations for the brains and for the looks.

that being said, hit the gym, which is compulsory if ur gay, unfortunately for us who don't like working out, but have to accommodate to societal standards. but, also for us never satisfied with our bodies, soon u will not want to stop.

also try to thicken ur skin a bit by putting yourself out there and confronting ur fears, it's a tool you can't go without in life. face the rejection and see for yourself that it's nothing, and that enlightenment will come with a great reward.

but above all, learn not to judge yourself, even if someone else does. everything is one step at a time.

also, hit the gym. ok bye.

trimmed on the front but a shaved ass is always nom nom.

@hhsq:

A little rant here, if I may: I hate when people (most oftenly tops) think that the bottom is not enjoying himself when his dick is limp.

why would u hate it, it could be a concern for your sexual partner.

although i like it, i too am partly worried with a new partner i don't know well that he's not enjoying if it's limp. it could be that. not  necessarily. but it could.

lol i kind of get it, i'm a top and i like both hard and limp on a bottom.

if it's hard i like it cuz he is turned on.

if it's limp, i feel like he's in my power, so hot, yet powerless. i have the same fantasy in porn. of course the reasons for the limpy could be different than my fantasy but what the heck.  :love:

spam17, u really need a hug. or a friend. or to lose virginity cuz it's killing you.

^ love this post.

but still, it's all about the agreement. polygamy is ok, if it's agreed by both (or more :P) parties.

if they both agreed to be in a committed relationship, than there is a matter of betrayed trust.

for the people seeking exclusive relationships, that can be harsh.

@horyna:

It's a difference if you say "I like your hair" or "I have never had sex with a blonde swimmer type and have always wanted to try it". Or "you have beautiful soft skin" opposed to "I like sex with twinks because their skin is so smooth".

So it all boils down to using euphemisms? U like him for his blonde hair, but you can't say it openly?

I agree about the courtesy, especially if people are not close, these are just social norms, but if ur having sex with someone,  that's another level of intimacy that can call for suspension of public speak.

As i said, sexual attraction is irrational and discriminating. I see it going the path of puritanism nowadays in a pc culture by trying to censor it.

@thegrimmy:

you got it wrong. it's degrading because it ignores everything else of that person and a person is not a porn fantasy. To talk to someone in that way because of their race is assuming and believing stereotypes that are not true and projecting your fantasy onto someone else.

typical pc square.
some will like you for your body, some for your personality, some for both, and some will like neither.
and if they like your body, they will like it for your shapes, sizes and COLORS. yes, that too.

and you think you can go around policing people for what they are allowed to like about you?
omg, he objectified me cause he likes my body, call the pc police now!!!!!!!1111 says a person moralizing about porn stereotypes - has an account on a porn site - consumes porn. precious.

all that feminist mumbo jumbo from the 50's is just puritanism 2.0.
let's ban sex, it's public enemy #1.
i thought gays at lest should be more out of the box and be able to deconstruct decades old puritan myths.

@PetShopBoys:

Um…what?

ah. the sound of being left without arguments.

well, they reduced your gender to a fetish. they like you in the first place because you're a man. does that degrade you too?
sexual attraction is discriminating. some like it thin, some like it thick, and some don't like thin or thick. political correctness as rational and sex as irrational don't go together. get over it.

gay couples i've seen who lasted were the ones that seemed to have it all. guys with above average looks, confidence, ambitions, careers etc.
it seems that you can't get anyone to stick to you if ur an average human being. and even the other average ones don't want you
i guess the criteria among gays are somewhat higher than in the str8 world.