Well, given my lack of experience, I would say NEITHER :afr: I've never topped, as I'm not the "take charge" type. And the few times I have bottomed, I absolutely hated it. Was never turned on one bit. So that leaves me in the clear as to what I really am.
For some reason, I've really taken a liking to Filipinos & Puerto Ricans. There is something really exotic about them that just drives me insanely wild and I can't keep my eyes off them.
I honestly don't see why it's such a big deal. As long as there is no intention of meeting up with others, and you don't put more importance on it over your relationship, then by no means should he feel remotely threatened. All you're doing is online exhibitionism, and interacting with others just because, nothing more, nothing less. If this is something you enjoy and feel comfortable with, then by no means should you ever sacrifice what makes you happy, for just to satisfy anyone else, even if they are your bf/partner. With that said, I do think a conversation should be had, between the two of you, and get things sorted out, before anything else.
Right now, my porn stash is approximately 2.15TB, with 8,157 videos in 340 folders! This is all on a 4TB external drive, soon to be moved to one of the MASSIVE 10TB hard drives. My entire collection includes the likes of BiLatinMen, Boy Crush, Breed It Raw, Broke Straight Boys, CockyBoys, ColbyKnox, Dark Alley, Eric Videos, Falcon, Raging Stallion, Hot House, Fraternity X, Sketchy Sex, Guys in Sweatpants, Harlem Hookups, Helix Studios, Military Classified, Active Duty, ChaosMen, Cobra Video, College Dudes, Corbin Fisher, Defiant Productions, Drake Rock, Jet Set Men, LatinBoyz, Lucas Entertainment, Machofucker, Men at Play, Men.com, Menoboy, Next Door, Peter Fever, Randy Blue, Southern Strokes, Studfist, SX Video, Austin Zane, Bel Ami, Brent Everett XXX, Cadinot, Club Jeremy Hall, EBoys, GayRoom, Icon Male, Lucio Saints, OTB Video, Riley Priceless, Titan Men, Twinkscape, UK Hot Jocks, You Love Jack, Raw Strokes, Sean Cody, Tim Tales, XTube, Pornhub, Tumblr, and Treasure Island Media . Included, are 39 "Private" shows, and 1,438 "Live" shows. Let all of this sink in a bit, lol. Love to hear you guys' feedback 
I can be brutally honest about this, right now, Windows 10 says that my porn folder is approximately 2.06TB, which equates to 8,033 videos!!! I'm kinda obsessed with collecting the hottest porn from all over! 5,283 of those videos come from tube sites like XTube, Tumblr, and MyVidster. I thought about uploading some of my goodies, but I'm a little hesitant on sharing some of the hot stuff I've found, only cause I'd like to keep it to myself. May change my mind one of these days. We'll see.
For me, it would have to be a tie between Latter Days and Edge of Seventeen
I'd love to see Noah's Arc again. It was one of the highest rated shows on LOGO, and for some idiotic reason, they pulled the plug on the show after season 2. The movie kinda made up for that, but I feel there was still more to explore, especially with the supporting characters.
A reboot of QAF (Queer as Folk) would be interesting. Even though the characters would be older (and hopefully wiser), I think it would be good to see the show in a more modern-day setting, tackling current issues, and displaying some diversity (for once) within the cast.
Would be great if not pics, users could get maybe a small 30 sec. or 1 min. video preview of what they're getting. If only there were a way to do that.
I think the ".avi" and ".wmv" formats are better for the majority of users who choose to download clips and movies. These are formats that people are most familiar with, and they're smaller in size, compared to putting them in DVD format. However, there's nothing wrong with uploading in DVD format, because sometimes, it's great to see a hot video in high resolution/high-def. As you said, DVDs are only worth uploading for those you know are going to seed back and give thanks. I always give thanks no matter how good or bad the file is, and I have over 600 torrent comments to prove it.
AVI and WMV files are easier as most downloaders won't have space for a DVD file that's 3 or 4 + GB in size. However, continue to do what you feel is best, and keep up the great work!!! 
I use firefox and there's a plugin called "DownloadHelper". This is as easy as it gets when downloading flash files. Once the plugin is download, just configure which type of files it should detect, and the download folder.
Without a doubt, MARIO LOPEZ!!!!! It was crystal clear after seeing a shot of his bare ass on Nip/Tuck, he should be turned a straight man turned gay. Who wouldn't wanna dive right into an ass like his?? 
I heard about this story on AOL, and I thought this was it, the cure has been found, but of course, there isn't enough evidence yet to prove this as the first ever cure for AIDS. I hope that more research and testing is done on this method, so we can find out for sure whether or not this is really the cure doctors and scientists have been looking for, for so long. As deadly as AIDS has become, the entire LGBT community should pay close attention to this story, as it seriously affects us all in some way.
I've seen hundreds of movies and only a few of them were hot enough to keep in my collection.
(Not in Order)
1. Twinks' Box
2. Twinks' Box 2
3. FuckClub Gangbang
4. Grunts - Misconduct
5. Grunts - The New Recruits
6. Verboten
7. Seed My Hole 2
8. British Underwear Party
9. Enchanted Forest
10. Big, Bigger, Biggest Pt. 2
Mine is about 8Mbps/1Mbps, and I didn't know it until I found out my internet provider upgraded my speed. Thanks to them, I've been able to upload more and boost my ratio
I understand where everyone's coming from on this, but I think the point that's being missed is that GLBT individuals/couples should not have to resort to getting a marriage license in order to be treated fairly and given the same perks and benefits as straight people. Besides, even if 2 gay people do get married, it does not mean society will change it's harsh attitudes or stop plotting to make life worse for the GLBT community. Don't get me wrong, marriage is a great thing and if you decide on it, I wish you best of luck. My only point is that we should be fighting for equality without having to resort to marriage as a means of gaining equality.
I wanted to know if any of you guys out there take gay marriage serious? I'm gay myself, but I think I don't need marriage to prove my love and commitment to another guy. If I had a partner and we both knew that we were spending the rest of our lives together, why go through the trouble of getting a marriage license or having a ceremony? What's your opinion on this?
I'm curious to know what you guys out there use when you jerk off. I love using silicone lubes cause they're soft, silky, and feel really great on me. Plus, they last long and you don't have to use as much.
My personal favorites: Frixion Silicone Lubricant, Gun Oil, and Wet Platinum
What do you like?
The idea of this turns me on, especially after watching Gag the Fag 4. There's something about the intensity of throat fking that makes it seem just as hot as fking a guy in his a**, if not better.
Guys, I'm only 24, but I only jerk off maybe 2-3 times a week. As great as it feels, I don't have that urge to constantly do it. On a day I choose to masturbate, I don't do it more than 1 time, because for me that's satisfying enough. Jerking off feels a whole lot better when I go a few days between doing it.
Great question guys!!
I don't like seeing guys that are way too muscular, almost bodybuilder type. Like Matt Rush, he used to be really hot until he overdid the bodybuilding thing. It made him look bad.
Scat (Anyone that finds that hot should seek serious therapy. )
Females (Even if they're just playing a part in a gay porn movie, it still kinda throws me off)
Cum Farts (This usually happens when a guy is about to felch cum from his ass. I like that part, but I don't like the "farting". That is disgusting and a MAJOR turn-OFF.)
Guys Putting on a "Straight Act" (First of all, I don't buy that some or most of those guys from the popular online sites are straight as they claim. They're not straight when they like fucking or sucking off another guy and coming back to the studios to do more. Why can't some of these guys just "fess" up to being bisexual or gay and stop making themselves look bad. Some of those guys make it seem like being different is so bad, that they're too scared to be themselves.
The Overly OBESE (I have nothing against those guys, but the idea of watching them jerk off or have sex with someone of the same size is a big turn off)
Sounding (I never realized how odd it looks sticking something inside your penis. It just doesn't look right. How many of you are turned on by that?)
Last but not least, VIOLENCE (Violence is meant for Hollywood. Not Porn!!)