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IT Manager. As for my earnings, thats between me and my bank manager.

Both of us do it.

Our pets dictate how we decide what to do.

green, blue and white.

We started a working group to promote diversity at work.  I was voted to represent the company recently but I'm not necessarily a rep in that aspect.

I always carry a towel with me to clean after using the gym facilities.
Actually in Spain (at least in Madrid) in most of the gyms it is obligatory to carry a towel to clean things up after using the equipment.

Exactly. I go commando all the time during summer time. Wouldn't it be acceptable, then? I don't understand why it wouldn't.

@swegay:

Why shouldn't it be acceptable?

Actually, holding your breath would potentially make you even more aroused.
Why do you think some people like to be choked while having sex or masturbating?
Just think of women  ;D

I have not been married but I hope to be. I would love to have sex on that wonderful night no other feeling in the world will be able to beat that!

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@AnythingOld:

@iheartbears:

I don't think I would be with someone who flat out forbid me from watching porn.

It's a sticky situation. 'Cause you can look at it in two ways. Is he trying to control you? Does he think you'll cheat if you watch it? Or does he think he's not enough when you watch it? So many different ways…. But, like I've said earlier (I think), if I really loved the person I'm with, I naturally don't have the desire to watch porn. Unless of course, I'm not getting it enough from him, and that would be a discussion we'd need to have.

That's the point: Not watching porn is NOT about loving your partner. It's all about sex impulses, fantasies, desires…

For an exemple: we all might have a fantasy that turn us on when it's just a fantasy, but we might not be that excited to (or we simply can't) make it happen (like public spaces, beach, sex with your teacher, boss, whatever). And watching porn may bring these fantasies alive, make you experience it... something like that.
When you're on a relationship, some fantasies just don't disappear, and maybe your partner is not into that thing you wanna do... That's why I think it's a helthy thing to do when you do it ocasionaly. It's a moment for your own, your own fantasies, it also kinda feed your creativity a little bit..

The problem beggins, as mentioned before by a lot of users here, when you're not attracted that much to your partner. You find in porn the best scape to satisfy yourself and keep the relationship going. I actually don't think it's a problem by itself… to me, the problem is: does it bother you? Why do you run for porn instead of having all that sex coming true with your partner? That's something people must think of. Sometimes the person you love is not the person who drives you crazy... but how much are you ok with it? It's fine if your husband is not the best sex you ever had, but no fun at all?...

Love is the base for a great relationship, but it'snt everything. Sex is as important as love, and if there's not a match on it, maybe you should go find it with someone else.

Hope it helps 😉

Apple Music. I never cared for Spotify, and I haven't tried any others.

Net-iquette dictates that when you make these types of posts, you give your answer.

The only exception is for researchers who don't want to influence the results.

Please be careful putting any kind of liquid in your ears if you have any ear issues such as tinnitus, perforated ear drums etc. The warnings on the labels of ear drops and peroxide type products SPECFICALLY WARN about this.

I know in recent years there has been a move away from using cotton buds, including changing their name on packaging (they were once widely labelled 'ear buds') - but they would be much safer to use than ear drops in this case. As long as you are sensible and don't try to push them in too far.

43 year age difference, meeting a 59 year old when I was 16 🙂

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My pleasure, AngelK!  🙂

@AngelK:

Thank you, Andergarcia!  :hug2: