Topics created by charlesperr

@pols1337:

Hi, you're looking for romance on Grindr?

I hope you know that during those 4 years while you were texting the love of your life, he was probably getting cornholed by every random Grindr  hottie he could message.

I know this sounds blunt, but if you want a normal relationship, then take a step back and first identify the avenues where people might actually be looking for serious and real relationships.  I'm not saying you can't find love on Grindr, but I am saying it is your fault for pinning all your hopes on a Grindr hookup.

Can you recommend alternative platforms? Tinder and Hinge and Chappy are the worst…. chat chat chat and never ever meet. At least with GR I get some physical interaction lol.

Sounds complicated, you're gonna have to keep trying so, good luck and get stylish. That won't fail  :cool2:

Sorry to bump this up but it seems like I'm missing out on a tonne of gay life.
I was speaking to a few guys on Grindr who are all in BCN this weekend an I had no clue there was a festival.
Is there somewhere I can be updated and plan holidays accordingly?
Are there places in London I can go and meet fit guys or Grindr is the best thing?
I don't have many gay friends (and 0 in London) so I am pretty clueless about anything outside of Grindr so please excuse my ignorance.
If there is a better forum for asking these questions please let me know.

@musclejizz:

More likely than not, it's been exaggerated. Perhaps they measure the balls too, use that length to "market" the guys online, and aren't clear in the descriptions for guys like us.

I've banged a few pornstars….
The 'length' advertised on porn is definitely cock + balls and 'from the side'.
The 'insertable length' is the bone pressed length. If you look at fleshjack dildo's they are all mostly 5.5-7' insertable.

@andergarcia:

I met my current partner in grindr two years ago and still together  🙂

I had met some others before and most of them were cool, but some others were a bit weirdos: one of them just wanted to fuck (no matter he included in his profile "looking for a relationship"), another one wanted to have a very serious relationshing (after having talked for only 3 hours)…

Yeah. I don't think GR is a bad app. Just the guys make excuses sometimes…
But if you click you click. Don't get why using an app or otherwise matters.

I saw many pornstar place the ruler under the cock (where they can go much behind the pubic bone) or "hiding" the first digit under their thumb, so they can start from 1" instead of 0, some other are never publicly measured.
Many of them are also paired with smaller guys and we also have to remember that a lean framed guy or a short guy (5'5") with a 6,5" cock could seem hung and a 6'3" with a big cock just normal… even in that case we don't know their real measure.
And then there are overweight people (like me, but I'm trying to lose my fat) that have obviuosly fat even in the pelvis... i have at leat 1" on cock hidden by that at the moment... some other have a curved dick (yup... me again...) so it's hard to know how to measure it (tryng to correct the curve or following it), and some other have an oval cock instead of round, so if you see them from the front it seems a beer can, but from the side a pencil... some are showers and hang down at the same size they have erect other are growers (me) and when in underwear seems non-existant (so if you haven't had sex with someone but only saw in lockerrooms you can't say if they are bigger or not)...

There are indeed hung pornstar, but many of them are just well framed in the camera (perspective can do miracles)...

Unfortunately our eye is very bad at comparing and if your mind is convinced that you are small your eyes will tend to understimate.
The only way is standing right to your favourite porn star and realise if you are better or worse, but I don't think is something so easy...

Nope, no one. 😞

It seems like you don't have any gay friends? I mean really friends, not friends for benefit type.

I have had boyfriends from online dating site, and from friends of friends. It really helps, having gay friends, since you can share your emotions as well with fellow gays. Ever since I have my own group of gay friends couple years ago, I cannot really be myself with my straight friends (still haven't come out), but with gays, it's enjoyable, pressureless, and fun too.

If u want sex, find a ONS or friends for benefit. I don't think you should have a BF just for fun and not for relationship (unless you guys have agreed to it).

To be honest looking at your criterias I think you have a pretty high standard for average gay males to be able to hook up with you.

Thanks - I'll tell him to read this. And I just PM'd you.