Posts made by chacha

All of them online through dating websites. They were either dates that morphed into friendships or fuck buddies that became friends.

Everyone is different. Personally, missionary is my favorite position as a top and bottom.

Just wondering about how people are handling their open relationships. Do you feel it's a let down that you didn't find someone that is a better match? (and therefore wouldn't have to get into an open relationship to begin with)?

I heard it's possible but is it actually legal in America?

Not one! And our family is huge - many aunts and uncles from both sides.
No one from my high school grade was gay either and no one from any job i've ever had.

I was the only gay in the village

The public shaming of this woman needs to stop. Once I saw her speak on NBC i felt she was a little "off". People should just leave her alone.
I admit the story is interesting…

The stock market went up like 100% throughout Obama's tenure and no one says a word.

Probably 150 (i'm in my 30s). All all safe, except for two boyfriends! I kinda wish I was more of a whore. But I was scared of diseases and crabs.
Many guys I know have had hundreds already. They had sex with a few new guys a week and it just adds up.

Every other topic I see here is how to get rid of unwanted hair! And just imagine what women have to go through their whole lives.

I find it unbelievable that science still hasn't figured it out. Laser, shaving, waxing etc are all temporary solutions. They take a long time and are expensive and very painful. (And no, laser is not a good, reliable, easy solution).

Just venting. I wish science would figure out a way to get rid of hair.

I'd like to download recorded webcam shows of some models I like from Cam4 and Chaturbate. Unfortunately, sites like webcam-archiver and males-cam are complete scams and don't offer anything except stealing your money.

Anyone know? Gaytorrents has some, but it's just random models. Not the ones I want.

Thanks 

Anal.
When I used to hook up, I usually would not meet guys if they told me upfront that they only wanted oral play. If I would meet someone, I wanted to do anal too.

The guy I was most in love with in my life (who ended up not wanting me) had a small penis. And having him f me was the greatest thing in the world. So it all depends.
A friend of mine has a small penis, and he specifically looked for a guy with a small one as well. That's just what he wanted and he's in a long term relationship now.

@ipso:

@chacha:

Has this ever happened to you? You date someone, fall in love, but the guy is not really your type physically? I'm in my 30s and really felt I found the perfect guy to settle with, but my sexual attraction towards him is weak. He's really hot, but just not my type.

I'm confused and don't know if I should continue or break it off. We've been together for months now and everything is great except the sex. I'm afraid to break it off and then regret my mistake.

Well the question is, what do you mean by "he is just not my type".

There is a saying that friendship is love without the erotic part. Pardon my bluntness, but… If everything is great with someone, just not the sex, then why have sex with him? In that case, you may as well live with a woman, there are many wonderful women ideal to settle with.

Then again, you stated that he is "hot". Can you detail that a little, praise him, tell us how do you find hot? Is he handsome, but fat, or does he have a sexy body with an average face? Is he older than your ideal?

And maybe you should also think of what your "type" is. Is it a very strict type, like "bald guys with a face resembling my childhood crush", or did you only mean that his looks alone does not excite you very much? If your previous boyfriends were cut out for a particular fetish, and he isn't, then maybe it is only  that your taste have changed.

I said that he's "hot" because I don't want people to think that I don't want him because he's unattractive. He happens to be a good looking guy. But he's not my type. I don't wake up every morning feeling so horny when I'm with him. I won't take a picture of him and jerk off to it.

I really like guys who are not smooth on their body, and he is very smooth. All the porn I download here are basically hairy-type guys. So I'm just wondering from people here who've had this experience - am I going down a path that will lead to a breakup? Do couples really need to be totally attracted to one another?

He is literally everything I wanted in a guy…such a sweetheart.

Has this ever happened to you? You date someone, fall in love, but the guy is not really your type physically? I'm in my 30s and really felt I found the perfect guy to settle with, but my sexual attraction towards him is weak. He's really hot, but just not my type.

I'm confused and don't know if I should continue or break it off. We've been together for months now and everything is great except the sex. I'm afraid to break it off and then regret my mistake.