Posts made by boyishguy

uhh that sounds like a terrible idea. There are so many problems that could arise from this, a minor infection would be a minor consequence.

This is the second time I've been on truvada, last time was so i was safe during a holiday, this time its ongoing now for 6 weeks, no side effects on both occasions.

Most common things to look out for are kidney and liver problems, so get your blood work done before and after you start taking it to monitor its effects. Also any short term side effects usually subside after a week or two, but if they don't then you should stop taking it and consult your doctor.

I'm on prep now, but when i first came out my first fuck buddy told me he was positive before we did anything. It was his disclaimer and he was open and honest about everything. He's now one of my best gay friends, we talk about everything openly.

TBH positive or negative I always use condoms. I've only had three exceptions, when i was in a closed relationship or with two people i whole heartedly trust but was on prep just to be safe anyway.

If any of you guys are having unprotected sex, if its available to you please get on prep. HIV is no light matter with life long consequences.

I came out of the closet start of last year, and was in a similar situation. Not knowing anybody it was difficult to get out there and have any experiences. I started going on the less seedy dating apps like tinder. I think guys tend to put in a little more effort to get to know you on the dating apps because when you use something like grindr 90% of the crowd are just looking for no strings attached sex (sometimes even if their profile says otherwise). With that said i have made friends on grindr and jack'd because i was open and prefaced the conversation with my intentions. Guys who don't actually want to create friendships will drop off after a few days of only online chatting with no face to face. Usually if the conversation flows naturally im happy to meet them after a week or two, assuming you've had no red flags or feel uncomfortable about them.

I was lucky enough to make a good friend at the gym and him and his boyfriend showed me the ropes and introduced me to some nice friends and helped introduce me to the scene. I'm not deep in the scene and will never be, but i've had a good taste of what its like and know its not for me. With that said i've made some great friends which i will continue keeping in contact with even after i stop partying and settle down with a boyfriend.

My advise is to just meet people, make friends who may or may not be in the scene. Use the apps if thats what you need, once you have enough friends you'll have a network and know at least a few people who will help introduce you to the scene and show you the ropes of saunas and spas if that's whats you want.

I love love love hot showers, its the best in winter but i take them in summer too. Since I shower before bed the only problem is allowing enough time to cool down enough to be able to sleep comfortably.

Muscle pain after your go at the gym is normal, you'd be using all these muscles that you aren't used to using.

I find that foam rolling tends to help my recovery, as does ensuring I eat enough protein in my diet, drink lots of water and the main ingredient: plenty of sleep.