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Another Option might be to talk to him and get him to talk to his doctor.  Perhaps he is having a negative reaction to the blood pressure meds and that is causing his lack of libido.  There might be an alternative to the medication he can take that won't have the same side effect…. Then your both happy again.

If your 18 and all your trying to do is get rid of a bit of stomach fat you really could do it just by working out some at a gym.  Go three times a week and do a weight style system followed by a cardio workout of some kind.  That means lift weights for a bit.. 30 to 40 minutes is plenty… then go run on a treadmill for 30 to 40 minutes.  Do this three times a week and you'll be fit as a fiddle in a few months.

I don't produce much… its really based on the person I guess... I've played with a couple guys who could just about using it as lube... I might produce a drop or two if i'm CRAZY turned on... but its not a issue.  Nothing wrong with not producing pre-cum.

Does the very close friend know your gay?  If so… I'd sit down with him and have a heart to heart discussion.  You also need to keep in mind what mind happen if the Girlfriend finds out.  I'd hate for her to break up with him and he then blame you for it.  Its a choice that could destroy a friendship.  Be very careful.

Hey guys.  I've got 2 free copies of Risk of Rain if anyone wants a copy.  These are redeemable on steam only.  Hit me up on here and I can PM you a key.  Let me know and maybe we can play a few games together.

Recently turned 26 and always looking for someone to have some fun with.  Would prefer an FWB Style relationship.  Hit me up on the off chance that someone from my area uses this site.  Thanks guys!

Both duh!?  69 FTW!

I'm definitely a member of the PC Gaming Master Race lol.  I own a 360 but I rarely play it anymore.  I agree with the above sentiments that Console game prices are just to outrageous.  Steam has really revolutionized the whole game purchasing experience.  I use Dealzon as well to track where the mega deals are.  If your not one of those "Absolutely gotta have it on Day 1" guys… steam generally offers 20 to 75% off after a month or two.  GMG (Google it) GOG and gamersgate are all great resources for gamers on PC as well.  You have access to a MASSIVE modding community who more often than not make games that much better after only a few months.  If you want the ability to play What you want and in the way you want when you want to play it... PC gaming is the way to go.  And anymore with sites like Newegg and Tigerdirect you can build your own gaming PC for a fraction of the cost to get a good one from a major retailer.  If you need assistance with anything along those lines feel free to ask.

@ben351500:

Sorry, but I have to disagree with what is being posted here. Time for a reality check. If one of my friends was in this situation, this is what I'd tell him:

Your friend sounds to me like a user: he wants his cake and to eat it too. It sounds to me like he wants a wife, but without the strings that come with marriage, but all the benefits. And for him to have YOU as his wife is safe and allows him to date/fuck around: he's not gonna have sex with you, so he doesn't need to worry about that side of things. AND he gets someone to help him raise his kid. Have you become the full-time babysitter yet? It's coming. And he gets to approve of whomever you date - do you get a similar privilege? Sounds controlling to me. And the fact that he thinks it's fun that you have the nude and sex pics only tells me that he likes to be the center of attention.

Look, he may not be doing this intentionally or maliciously, but on some level he knows he's got you in his pocket, so to speak. But YOU know, deep down; otherwise you wouldn't have started this thread. YOU know that this relationship isn't healthy. YOU know he's using your crush on him for his own advantage. YOU know these things.

Look, I don't mean to harsh on you; we've all gotten involved in unhealthy relationships. But honestly, a good relationship is one between partners. Does this sound like a partnership? From what you've written, it doesn't to me. Plus, if you really, truly, deeply, love him, can you handle him seeing/fucking/loving others, orientation aside? Jealously will come, my friend, and the green monster doesn't go away, it only grows. If this were a straight relationship, I would say this is borderline emotionally abusive. Actually, the genders and orientations involved are unimportant: this IS a borderline emotionally abusive relationship.

So this is what I would tell my friend: Think of yourself and your own well being first. Sometimes a little bit of measured, reasonable, self centeredness (sp?) can be a good thing. Leave this situation before you get in deeper. This will not end well.

I'm sorry, but this situation needed some straight, blunt talk.

Good luck. Stay strong.

THIS!  This sounds exactly like what he is doing to me.  When I was growing up… I had a very interesting experience with a friend.  I was probably 17 at the time... he had slept over.  I woke up to him at the foot of my bed under the covers... rubbing himself against my feet.  Turns out he had a foot fetish... but regardless.  I let him go for nearly an hour... surreptitiously encouraging him with my "Random" feet movements.  After a while... I threw the cover off and looked at him and said... "What would you do right now... if I was pissed."  Needless to say he had the whole deer in a headlight look.  I forced a conversation and we talked it out.  This wound up leading into me basically teaching him what he liked over several years.  It was a totally one sided physical relationship but we became so much better friends because of it.  (I never got anything physical from him at all).  To this day he is still my best friend and we are actually looking into getting a place together, as the economy in my area simply makes it hard to afford a place alone.  He's as straight as an arrow but seems to have little luck with the ladies, despite what I think of as him being good looking.  Basically the moral to my story is this aspect of that relationship drew us closer together.  He and I are open with one another about pretty much everything and even though the physical aspect of it is all done we are better friends because of it.  Your "Friend" seems like he wants to use you.  He was to control your life as much as he thinks he can get away with and yes likely use you as a live-at-home babysitter.  Just my two cents on it... hopefully you figure it all out.

My first time… I fell for the guy hard.  It was fantastic (I topped him) and lasted almost an hour to his delight.  He was a year or two younger than me... but had a bit more experience than me.  I enjoyed a glorious 3 months with him before he wound up moving away.  I still miss him to this day and am always looking for what I had with him.  It also confirmed in my mind that I was really gay and that has helped me lead a better life since.

I could also have something to do with the program you used to download the videos.  I generally use Netvideo Hunter on Firefox.  It seems to find the actual source files and let's be download them.  90% of the time I seem to get .mp4 files.  This could also have to do with the sites I'm downloading from… but generally if it won't play on MPC or FLV your video files are probably junk.

I used to think I was a total top… and I still love plowing a nice tight ass... But lately it seems like I'm getting more and more into bottoming for the right sized guy too.  If I'm dating a guy and we move that route I'm willing to do both as long as he isn't doing a Horse Impression.  I prefer NOT being split open!

I generally prefer a nice smooth asshole.  I won't rim a guy if he's completely rat-nested and it makes it painful sometimes with a longer session if he's got a lot of hair around his hole.  Friction starts to build up after a while and it can be kind of scratchy.  That being said… I'll play with a guy who has hair... but I likely won't rim him if he's furry.

My biggest fetish is probably a nice deep creampie… expecially when you can tell the top is creaming the bottom up really good.  I love to see it leaking out or definitely someone else plowing the sloppy hole afterwards.