Posts made by Barbarous

Anyone got Magnus & Saul reunite from NYSM yet? - love to see Magnus getting excited by Saul's dick…

"Even in England which has "freedom of the press" there is an exception.. the press are forbidden from attacking the Queen (and  to some degree the other Royals).  To do so is a crime."

I take it from this phrase you are referring to the laws of England & Wales rather than the individual country of England? There is no separate judicial system purely for England. The United Kingdom is made up of 4 separate countries, namely England, Scotland, Wales & Northern Ireland. Scotland & N.I. have separate legal systems from England & Wales, however none of the 4 countries have any laws against the press reporting anything about the Royal family as would be patently obvious if you tried visiting UK & read any of the tabloid press. Please get your "facts" right & stop spreading fake news.

Love Florence & the machine. Powerful vocals, ethereal lyrics & a dark, almost macabre feel. Lungs is a great album.
But what they did with Candi Staton's "you've got the love" was inspired - I loved the track before this reworking. They took a 1990's classic, put it through the wringer & reinvented it as an icon of the new century.

Bronson Gates or Ray Stone.
Would love to see those two together, natural, raw, easy going masculinity at its best

I really like meat. I also occasionally enjoy eating fish. Once in a while, just for a change, I like to eat macaroni cheese or a tarka dhall.
Does that make me a vegetarian?

Why slot anyone into a category, we are all what we are. Enjoy your life & stop worrying about what others do or don't like.
There's a whole buffet table out there…. if there's something you don't fancy then leave it for someone else, its not on the table to annoy you, just to give others the choice.

Jazzmale, I have to agree with everyone else - but I don't think there is even a case for issuing an ultimatum to Lee. Set yourself up with somewhere to stay & then tell him you're off. With the multiple daily phonecalls going on between  L & W, they are obviously extremely close. The bedroom thing also tells me you are not his number 1. Ultimatum to Lee will just cause resentment between you and the pair of them & possibly drive their relationship underground. You are always going to be suspicious of that.
Do yourself a favour & move on, it will be hard for a while but someday I'm sure you will find someone that deserves you & treats you as an equal, not a retained servant
All the best mate..

Damn shame if Opmike has stopped, always hoped he was just taking a break.

that's why some enterprising soul invented the double-headed dildo! (hope he/she patented it!)

I was always interested in seeing naked men, though as a kid back in the 1970's it wasn't so easy to do… No internet & porn was very hard to get hold of! My first wet dream was when i was 11 & that was about a man, I woke up all sticky, thinking "that's not supposed to be what happens!" I tried to fight my sexuality all through my teens & at university trying to convince myself it was "just a phase I was going through" and keeping myself firmly in the closet (though I did suck cock for the first time when I was 19 - & I loved it).
I'm a bear, always have been even before the term was coined, & the role models for gays we had in those days in UK were Mr Humphries from "Are you being served",  Larry Grayson & Kenneth Williams. I didn't want to be camp or effeminate like them but I knew I preferred men to women.
Eventually when I was 24 after a long struggle with myself I gave in & admitted to myself I was gay, started going to Saunas & bars & discovered that gay comes in all flavours!
I met my hubby when I was 28, came out to my family & friends. That was 24 years ago

I agree with almost everything already said, however the only thing i would add is that you really need to find a new (or additional) partner/FBs whatever you want to call him/them. This guy is getting everything he wants from the current relationship…. it seems you want more. 
He's not comfortable moving on to a deeper stage in your friendship, so you need to let him pursue his life & move on with yours. If you don't, you will always be second choice to his declared preference. If you do, he may discover that he actually does have strong feelings for you. You can still be friends, you can still play with each other, but what you are looking for is emotional/romantic attachment. He's telling you that he's not up for that so you need to go find it for yourself.
Either way, as it stands I can only see hurt & jealousy for you in the future if you don't try & find a relationship with some form of equality. There's plenty nice guys out there, go find one!

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