I've always thought it depends a lot on the person's emotional maturity, but I can hardly conceive it happening before being 13-14 years old. For me the keys are:
1- Do it with someone who you trust/feel a connection with. It's pointless to do it if you don't feel confortable around the other person. I'd say it's better if it's someone your age, especially while being a teen.
2- Try to be as best informed as you can (i.e know about how protection methods work, which ones to use, proper hygiene, the importance of lube and playtime…)
3- Communicate how you feel to the other person, do not keep your fears to yourself
3- Do not rush it, especially if you're dating someone that pressures you to have sex when you still feel scared about it.
Latest posts made by asdfrewqw
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RE: Adequate age for sex
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It's 2018, is still the wage gap a thing?
I mean, it has already been debunked several times. The "wage gap" is the fallacious assumption that comes from comparing the average salary of women and men and then deducting it si due to women being payed X% less for the exact same job. However, when looking at number of hours worked per week, type of job, number of extra/nighttime hours, etc. it nails down to just 1-4%, with sometimes women having higher wage, even. However, I still see this argument being used by feminists and politicians.
So my question is: do average people like you and me (i.e non-famous and not political activists) believe that women are in fact payed less than men for the same job or not?
P.S: If I were in charge of HR in a company, I'd try to spend as little in staff as possible (thus only hiring women, since they do the work just as good as men do), wouldn't I?
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RE: PURE for men?
I know how the whole product placement industry works, but this product being advertised by a "celebrity" does not make it immediately useless. I really don't like how enemas feel and i'm trying to see if there's any alternative
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PURE for men?
So I've heard about this product for a while now. It's some kind of fiber supplement so that you're always clean "down there". I know Davey Wavey talked about it in a sponsored video. Anyone has already tried it and wouldn't mind to share their experience (friends' experiences count too)?
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RE: First person you came out to in your family?
It was my mum and I remember saying I'm sorry I wont give any grandchildren. She was fine with it and she already knew anyway.
she knew already?!
I'd say any parent who has seen their child grow up knows already.
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RE: Sex Toy Reccomendations (Anal)
I have a vibrating prostate stimulator and I think it's overrated. It feels amazing, but the vibrating part does not add a lot 4 me. Tbh my personal favourite is my homemade fleshlight. Roll a glove in a towel, put some hair ties around it n you're good 2 go.
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RE: Anal Toy
Not sure which one it is,, but if it is anything like this one it's called "anal beads"