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@Spintendo:

@Amazonios:

I would like you to tell me your best mouth-shutting arguments regarding its normality.

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http://dx.doi.org/10.1086/668167

Hey y'all,

I have been involved lately in a debate about homosexuality. Given the shared knowledge in Psychology, Social Sciences and Biology, I would like you to tell me your best mouth-shutting arguments regarding its normality. I'm just so annoyed seeing people repeat the same stuff about how wrong it is.

I will give you some typical statements, tell me your arguments.

"A gay man is not man."
"Homosexuality is a choice, you are not born with it."
"Bible says bla bla bla"
"It's immoral"
"Homosexuality is as perverted as pedophilia"
"Homosexuality means degeneracy. Gays are not a valuable element to the society."

I have an answer to every one of them, but sometimes I feel that I am becoming personally involved, offended, and at times I end up using the same arguments all over again, leading me to unproductive thinking, because of my emotions causing a rationality black-out.

I am 90% sure that we will get similar takes to our answers, I just want to see how the 10% would combat these irrational beliefs.

Note that everyone is entitled to an opinion, but posing religion and laws (which are subject to change, historically evident) in order to justify one's distaste is so old-news. I respect every homophobic's opinion, unless they have vague statements with no scientific back-up or they are products of mere ignorance and stereotypical approach.

Hi,

given that you ask both sides of the coin, I never understood this fetish, really. Three days ago I had sex with a guy and he started licking my feet. I never get aroused by that, I'm just indifferent. I prefer to lick fingers than toes. So yeah, in my case, I never seek to lick someone's feet or get mine licked. I have a hair fetish though.

@sark47:

I'm a total top because I can't bottom, despite trying many many times. I don't find this very real at all.

Clearly, you read what's most convenient to you. Quoting from the main post:

Disclaimer: Please, don't go like "that's not true, I am role X and I don't do that", I am not suggesting that these profiles apply to everyone, mainly why I excessively used neutral adverbs, such as "sometimes/commonly/typically/usually", etc.

@mattb36469:

I think that is a good generalization, naturally not all guys will fit into that.  I am more bottom and think you described me really well. Appart from the being accepted thing, however I think those sections are mostly a cultural thing that we don't seem to get in the UK.

Culture. Very interesting, I thought about it before writing this, but I have yet to experience more cultures. See, I live in Italy now and it's pretty much just like Greece, therefore I've still not witnessed something "different". Thanks for your comment - refreshing approach

@raphjd:

A friend of mine used refer to himself as "butch in the sheets and queen in the streets".   His boyfriend confirmed it.

Seeing them, you'd swear their relationship in th bedroom was the other way around.

Yeah, I have had similar acquaintances. That was weird, when something goes off the norm (and by norm I mean cognitive schemas of life scenarios).  :laugh:

@sebixdj:

Oh shit.. that is big. I understand you even that is not the right thing to do. You should end that relationship because it is not cool to lie. In that case you are lying not only to her but to yourself too and it will just make things worst. Better be single.  :hug:

It's not lying really, it's just not telling her what the bigger picture is. She didn't ask me after all. I know, I make up excuses

Ok, quite frankly, I did not read the books or even ventured to. I tend to avoid tv shows, movies or books that are like a big deal and victimize everyone by addicting them to the respective product, but I did not regret watching it. It's by far the best production I've seen so far, every single detail in the scenes is well-put together and the director along with the producer know what they are doing.

I would not advise you not to start with the books, I can't have an opinion on that when I haven't read them, but I'd say just go with the flock now and just watch the series. If you plan to still read the books after that (I don't, for instance) you may find awkward moments when certain things in the book did not happen or were not delineated in the same way through the books.

@sebixdj:

Hey guys.. I have a strange situation. Maybe is my fault, maybe I just found only bad people but lately I don't like gay guys at all.. I am gay 100% In the past years I've dated only straight or bi-curious / first timer guys and I swear, sex with one of them is amazing. Sex with a gay guy is so boring, calculated and flat. Besides, it seems all the gays are so feminine in my city which is a huge turn off. I feel lonely and I would like to have a long term relationship but I don't like the sex part all. 

Oh sweet lord, for a moment, I was like "When did I write this?". Okay, what you're saying there basically sums up my issues in the past.. four months.
I am also in a really small city, away from my home country (not too far, like one nation away ;D) and I was hoping that I wouldn't care about people here being jugdmental with gays. Frankly, I don't really care what the rest think, but as a student here, I also have to cope with potential rumors about me being gay. Since co-students are people I could work with, in the future, I'd rather delay or even sacrifice my sex life for that. The main reason however was that I couldn't really find a guy here that turned me on, most of them live an hour away, in other, bigger cities and I don't really like travelling to see my partner (nor do I believe that I am patient enough to make it work).

After 4 months of introspection and doubting (as in almost hating) myself for being gay, I had mixed feelings and I told myself that I will not have sex again, until I am totally fine with my sexuality. So there was a girl we've been spending some with and I found out that she was asking if I am gay and this really saddened me. I am not feminine, she just inferred I am gay due to my alternative style (skinny jeans and matching t-shirts with shoes) and due to the fact that I apply hair products ("in a frequency unlike any other guy I've seen so far" - these are her own words).

I wanted to stop the rumor (don't know who she talked to, except the girl who told me about it) and there was another another girl who came in town. After some 'quality' time, she's now my girlfriend. I feel I am being unfair and selfish, but I honestly wanted to control the rumors and shut mouths, in case others talked about me too. So yeah, right now I am suppressing myself, we are having sex normally, but nothing's like a man. Some would say that deep inside I am bi and I don't recognize it or that I am experiencing a persistent denial, but no, I am a gay man and I know this for sure. I care about her and stuff, but it just… doesn't feel right.

Funnily enough, I tended to advise people in the past to avoid non-predictable incidents like this and I can't apply it on myself. But yeah, mainly it's about me having a relationship (no matter the fact that it doesn't feel right) and controlling the damage.

To sum up, I really know what you mean. I started questioning whether I actually liked other gay men for 4 months (and more, to be fair), mainly because I couldn't find an interesting gay person in this city or the ones I was aiming for were either straight men or not convertible (if you know what I mean :)).

Don't make the mistake I did - cause if I can't take it anymore, I don't know what's gonna be more unfair, the fact that I am not comfortable in my own skin or the fact that my girlfriend's gonna get heartbroken.

@testingstuff, he clearly stated it gives him nausea, thus he already 'knows' what he's missing.

@buonaroti, I have the exact same issue with you. The glans hurts and I find the feeling annoying so I ask them to stop as well, which is bad, given that blowjob is something they've been thinking about and I hate it that I can't give them the pleasure. I also need my foreskin to be able to enjoy it. I am not sure what to do either, I think we need to force it on ourselves until we become less sensitive - my assumption (for me at least) is that I have monthly periods of sex abstinence and this is why I get so sensitive. I believe when you accidentally get out of his anus, you have a hard time putting it back in as well, if your foreskin is 'down', right?
I'd like to see others' opinion on the matter.

Hey,

I've made a small compilation of video files that I found on professional porn and XTube videos.

The video is about a son who finds himself pretty horny and tells his dad. After that, he brims his dad's imagination with sexual fantasies and he asks Jake (his son) to fuck him. They start doing it every day and this is basically the reason behind the title: it becomes an obsession.

Known issues:
• I tried to find the best models possible to match the videos together. Some may succeed, others may not.
• The video contains hardcoded subtitles, but it's only an enhancement to the story.
• There are two logos of gayporn industries in certain scenes, while others have been removed. I didn't remove the logos to every one of them, because you would miss some nice parts of the frames.
• The dad talks too much: mostly wanted to convey his excitement.
• There are not many faces involved, so that it could be more easily applied to your own dad & son fantasy; this is why speech is used so much, to balance it. Additionally, faces were removed, because the model-matching would be nearly impossible.
• The scenes do not have their original sound, there's some reggaeton music on the background, which I find it to be a turn-on (and sometimes it rhymes with the sex movements of the subjects). You can mute your sound, in case you find it weird.

Forgive me for the large filesize, but I wanted to retain its quality. Next time I will upload a lighter version. The video lasts about 15 minutes and 20ish seconds.

Disclaimer: If you think you will be offended by what the video displays, I advise you not to download it. Most likely, it's pure sex, but the story may disgust people who are not into daddies & sons. I initially wanted to neutralize this, by making the father a step-father, but I decided against it.

I would like you to share your opinions, suggestions for improvement and anything else. If you think you have better videos that match this action with similar models, please, let me know. My primary goal was too find hairy bodies for the dad part.

Here is the download link: https://www.gaytorrent.ru/details.php?id=2f9352a6c2b2b04d9521c105cd7396806d12c2249def929c

Rovereto, Italy, but only temporarily.

@cannonmc:

I can't help feeling that you may be taking the test just a little too seriously… 

No no, it was fun and stuff. It's just not valid, that's all
I'm a wanna-be scientist, I can't help it 

66% - A tad inexperienced. The result is not realistic; it asks you if you have practiced certain stuff and yes, that makes you inexperienced, if you haven't, but what if you don't have fetishes like these? No thanks, pretty fake (and no, I am not butt-hurt from the result :P).

Also, SPOILERS:

Been tied up vs. Tied up can only be for bottom and top respectively? I was tied up when I was top!

I don't know, it feels like you either have to go through a lot of stuff or never be 'experienced' enough for the standards of this quiz. "Been the photographer or subject of a nude photo/video shoot" - No, why do I have to?

@chubchaser:

I did for a little while, but most of the guys just want to see my dick…

Then show them your butt! Just kidding, I know what you mean and yeah, it's sad. But genital areas are always a turn-on.

Dear chubchaser,

thank you for your input. This can derive from the fluid self-image; people tend to acquire behavioral characteristics and instincts from their partners. This of course does not necessarily mean that he got influenced by you, it could also be his "way".

Cheers!

Hey y'all,

I wanna share my point of view regarding roles and their predictability regarding certain features. This comes from my experience through online dating sites, such as PlanetRomeo.

So, according to certain classifications on that site, there are Bottom only, More bottom, Versatile, More top, Top only.

What I gathered for:

• Bottom only: Most commonly – too feminine (don't mean to offend, I am solely using terms that will be easily understood regarding what I am trying to convey). Additionally, most of the people who use this specific role on their profile have attachment issues, as in, they get really easily attached and demanding. Being careless even for a bit generates instant disappointment to them. Working this out would usually require a lot of patience, if you are not sharing their personality traits (meaning, you are not easily emotionally attached). The thing with this role-category on dating sites is that they expose their butt, most likely. This is normal, you'd say, but it is also associated with high sexual impetus, giving the impression (true or false) that they have been with a lot of guys in the past, thus, causing avoidance. This role is also common between ages of 18-21. I assume that it has to do with fear of not being able to perform, a characteristic that stems from a shattered or not solid self-image.

• More bottom: A bit more "down-to-earth" type of personality. More bottom would be selected by someone who is actually enjoying having passive sex and includes the possibility of topping in rare cases. This type of guys tend to categorize other guys into "too muscular" or "too feminine". If they are too feminine, the chances of getting laid with them decrease. If they are classified as "too muscular", they will stick to their bottom role. More bottom typically works with what the other person exudes, what kind of a vibe they send. Depending on that, they decide accordingly. Moreover, they are conceived as people with accepted sexuality and therefore are avoided (not as much as Bottom only-type), because it is believed that they usually belong to gay circles and are therefore reluctant. The guys that avoid them have either not accepted their sexuality (most of them posing as Bisexuals) or they simply do not approve that lifestyle.

• Versatile: Probably the most successful role. Versatile usually range between 25 - 33. They are perceived as the "cool" types of guy that will not have a problem with either role. Consequently, they also inspire a feeling of an out-going person, socially acceptable in most areas and a potentially good friend. This is the stage where the bisexual orientation comes to play. From this level up to Top only, Bisexuality is much more frequent. Regarding the social role, this type of person usually dominates the social networks with a handful of likes, favorites and other alternative ways to express your admiration to them. Cute pets are also part of the uploaded pictures, serving as an enhancement to their social impact. Common fantasy: orgy.

• More top: This may sound a bit awkward, but there are two cases here; a) they don't enjoy passive sex or b) they are too bored to keep themselves clean for anal sex, even if they know they would enjoy it. More top is usually not a realistic and definitive role, but a disguise, in case b) is true. Unlike versatile people, more top is more neutral - they tend to be less sensitive and more apathetic than the previous roles. This usually originates from wrong choices of the past (relationships that ended prematurely), causing them to bring their emotional cloud into new relationships as well. They have no ideal partner, but they tend to overuse "honesty" among other requirements on their profile descriptions. Commonly disappointed from the chaos of finding a partner and high probability of deleting their profiles and returning with another nickname; then, it's only a vicious circle. Most of those who bear these issues hardly do they realize that the problem may come from them and that they have communication problems, because they don't try more. Ironically, More Top's are very passive when it comes to finding a partner - they usually wait for others to contact them. The fact is, they attract any kind of roles, from Only Bottom to Only Top. Bisexuality is even more frequent here.

• Top only: Top only usually pose as bisexuals (be it true or not). Confused personalities, regarding their orientation, heavily affected by social stereotypes and cliches. Their biggest fear is to be called gay in a derogatory way; they don't accept the term even as a joke to them. Their regular practices include wanking with others, accepting blowjobs (rarely giving) and having anal sex in the case that they won't feel intimidated by the other person. Feminine guys are a huge turn-off for them, unless they look slutty and ready to take up their cock anytime (this is associated with their need to be confirmed, usually issues from a strict father or mother figure). They seldom look for a relationship, thinking that committing to a guy will restrain them. They sometimes have a pathological need to prevail in discussions, groups of people and they transform this even into their sexual life, considering most of their partners inferior to them. In social occasions, they tend to hit on girls as well (they score the maximum distribution of bisexuals). The average Top only is already committed to a girl/woman. Multiple "str8 looking" terms float around their descriptions.

Disclaimer: Please, don't go like "that's not true, I am role X and I don't do that", I am not suggesting that these profiles apply to everyone, mainly why I excessively used neutral adverbs, such as "sometimes/commonly/typically/usually", etc. These profiles come from my 5-year experience in sites like these and my studies in Psychology.

Feel free to share your opinion.

Personally I create a folder called "NetworkClientZT256", create two sub-folders within called "Internal" and "Technical", create two sub-folders in each of them given names such as "ConvertDataAspAPI98", so that they all look like system folders - no one's gonna and no one didn't touch them so far.
I store them all in my external hard drive (I rarely share it, because I fear that a search will bring up results, despite my attempt to hide them in sub-folders (= heck the effort I made and will turn out I wasn't as smart as I thought)). If you have a hard drive, you just hide the folder and enable the visibility of hidden folders every time you plan to leech and/or seed.

It's a bit of a problem, but since I lost all of my data from external hdd recently, I can't seed those files anymore, which is lame. So, temporarily, I have them stored in normal folders, watching out who and why is using my laptop.

Frankly I never found one. And I want one. I am an insatiable top. Pity that is. It's so bad when you have all this impetus and you can't transduce it the way you want!

@adventurer75:

Bubble butts are hot, but Bulbous heads are tastier.   :cheesy2:

I wouldn't leave that butt for anything. Sex all day long. It's built for that.  >:D