@pkfegroup:

Here's the thing.  The best pieces of advice that I can give you are:

First - You can't change his family or how he feels about his family.  If his mom wants to get back in touch, then she knows how to dial a phone or write a letter/email/whatever.  If she is doing it through his sister/her daughter, then she isn't really ready.  It is a good sign that she's evolving on the issue.  And your bf will do what he needs to do for his own sanity.

Second - You can sit down and tell your bf how you feel.  (a) that you are mindful that you lost your dad and it had an emotional impact on you; and (b) you support him in whatever he decides is best; and you won't bring it up again or nag him.

She doesn't have his number since they haven't spoken in so long, nor an address of any sort.

Well my ex had a foot fetish, but he was always too nervous to do anything with it, I always told him to do what he wanted. Very rarely would he kiss my foot or my toes, but he seemed to love it when he did.

I am the top in the relationship, but I love to use toys on my partner. He has two toys…both are just plain old dildos one being about 7.5 inches long 5 inches around and the other being about 10 inches long and 7 inches long. He hasn't let me use the big one on him yet because he thinks I will go too rough lol.

I wouldn't say I nag him, I have only brought it up a couple of times and all I told him to do was to think about it. Don't just throw the thought away, make sure that you are okay with how things are.

I consider myself gay. In my early teen years 14-17 I considered myself straight until I started to get different feelings and urges that I had never had before.

I am 20 and I don't really care what age my partner is. I have had 5 sexual partners, 3 being between the ages of 33 and 35, and the other two being 21 and 24. My boyfriend is 35 and I do feel that my parents would rather me be dating someone my own age, but it has no affect on me especially because he is just so damn cute!

Now I do think that there is a limit, I don't think I could go past 40 for a relationship, but for just a sexual interaction I definitely could.

Couple of things; don't let him do things that you don't like and same to him. Also, if his cum is making you nauseated then it could be because of his diet. Tell him to eat more fruit, drink more juice, and that could help.

A couple of things that I caught were:

One, him pressuring you when you aren't cumming is not a good thing. Just because you last a while longer doesn't mean that there is an issue. That pressure just makes it more difficult, at least for me it is.

Also, just because you aren't having fun with the things you have done does not mean it will not get better. The first time is always awkward and confusing especially in your case being somewhat older. You have seen all this porn that makes things look so simple, when it actually isn't. You need to take time and talk with your partner. Find what turns him on and what turns you on and sometimes, for example me, what turns him on turns you on meaning when your partner is turned on it turns you on. Just try new things until you find what you like. Good luck.

Most of the Stockydudes videos are good as well as Chubsite

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