Yes, absolutely. The body is a tool, and sex is a form of manual labor. With viagra, they don't even need to enjoy what they're doing, especially if they're a bottom. No one would suggest that because a person is a professional manual laborer that digs trenches or does construction work is doing it because they love it, even though it's totally possible they do, and I feel that sex work is the same. They are using their body in return for money. It's only our modern stupid insistance on labels and making sex some sort of special category of physical activity that we have changed that thinking.
Latest posts made by Valicore
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RE: Straight guys in gay porn; are the really straight?
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RE: What is the biggest quality you look for in a president
Political savvy - I think it's cute that people think a total outsider can come in and successfully work the system, but in reality a President needs to have an intricate knowledge of the way the government works.
Breadth of experience, both inside and outside of the country. Someone who has spent their entire life living in only one way and who is not familiar with the rest of the world isn't going to know how to interact with world leaders.
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RE: A worrying trend from the perspective of a clinical psychologist
"No fats, no fems, (no Asians)" - this is the moniker of the modern Grindr user and of many people in the Gay community. We're not talking this not being sexually attractive to people, we're talking about the fact that many groups, fats, fems, etc, are excluded from the larger gay community and are HATED by many in the gay community, and are bullied just the way gays are bullied by homophobes. It's the same with agism in the gay community. I don't think there is any other community I'm familiar with that demonizes aging more than the gay community. Personally, I think it's very sad, and just goes to show that the LGBT community is composed of humans, are requires a lot of work - we've been working so hard on what those OUTSIDE the community think of us, and gaining equal rights, etc etc, that we have to a certain extent ignored the development of civility and acceptance INSIDE our community.
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RE: What is your opinion on Hillary Clinton?
@beep:
As to Hillary, she beats out every Republican in the field. Which is saying something horrible about Republicans. Bernie is my pick and I actually do think he has a chance (I once thought some unknown black politician from Chicago had a chance too. Well.). So I'm going with Bernie and it really is because Elizabeth Warren refused to run. She was my first pick.
Exactly, sadly having Clinton as a front-runner says nothing about the Democratic party and everything about the Republicans. Hell, I'm jaded enough to think the insanity of the Republican Party is just a conspiracy to make us accept that Hillary's views are actually progressive.
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RE: How to explain being gay to kids?
Some boys like boys and some girls like girls and some boys like girls and some girls like boys.
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RE: How old were you when you find that you gay ??
I can remember thinking a guy was really really hot when I was in the first grade. I literally have never not known I liked guys.
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RE: Two bottoms in a relationship
If they're both total bottoms? It's probably not going to work, what are they going to do, rub their asses together? I guess they could use toys on one another and give handjobs to one another, but if they want real dick….