It is all about calories in vs calories out.

Working out helps, but what helps most is eating less.

The main thing is you have to really push yourself, over a long period to see results.

What can really help is writing down what you eat in a program like chronometer. Every single day. You do not need to put in everything low calorie tho, like carrots and tomatoes is just so low calories it does not matter.

If you do this you will get an idea of what it takes, and get a framework to push yourself. For example if you need to eat less than 2000 a day to lose weight, then you can write down what you eat til you hit 1990, then just stop eating for the rest of the day.

If you get to 1990 before dinner, then you have a problem

@bear1515 said in Older/Mature gay couples or storylines on tv?:

@kirbyshiny You've probably heard, but episode 3 of The Last of Us threats about that, it's a quite a wholesome episode considering. Not a whole show, but still.

Yep, the last of us episode 3 is a good example of a very well written and executed older men love story.

Another great one, I think is the various relationships Pray Tell go through in Pose. Particularly with Ricky and Costas.

Pray tell is a very good character, his struggle with being unable to become romantically invested in his boyfriends, as every one has become a victim of the virus is pretty rough.

It is not a big part of the show tho.

Aaron from Walking dead has a thing with his boyfriend for a while, It is ok, but nothing amazing.

I also think Lito and Hernando in Sense8 is pretty good, but they are more like 30s something.

Kenzo for the good smell

Or the cheapest non smelling I can find.

I would love this also

Spontanous, it's never really a problem tbh

In the forest, but outside the tent :)))  just the raw woods xD

Okay so apparently am I destinied to just not getting what I want.

I have always been really submissive, I loved being bossed around and fucked hard.

Anypoop, lately Iv'e only met submissive guys for some reason, So I just dominate them and fuck them wild and they love it. I basically do what I would love someone to do to me.
It's fun to be dominant and wild aswell, but at the bottom of my heart I am no leader.  Versatile is the shit  :love: But there seems to be a drought in passionate top guys who are also cute and not total egos.

So I asked the passive submissive guys Iv'e met if they wanted to fuck me.  I missed it!  Iv'e also hinted a lot to me liking a wild dominance session. Which one guy responded positivly to:

But… he gets it in, not a big cock, but I like it. starts carefull,  "yeah I'm ok"  Just start already!
Then he fucking COMES! after like... 7 thrusts. wtf.  even with a condom on!  It was like a 30 second sessions where half of it was just finding the right position, asking me stupid questions, and putting the dick inside

And this happened THRICE, with three different persons!

Wtf is wrong with people, don't they know how to have sex? It's such a turn off seeins a guy come before he even started.  I mean those were the WARM UP thrusts.

Now this guy, I love when he eats my neck so I hint at him doing that while I wank, but he is so distant, keeps looking another way, he is not intimate, I have to push him against me and arrange him. And Im getting soft, and hes like "I think you are shy!" and in my head I'm like "no you just suck at sex" but I say "nah...  you just a bit far away"  So I have to close my eyes and think of someone else.  And he keeps saying things outside of sex, like that there is a road nearby (so what, you didnt think of that when you were hard!) . After Im done I feel so used...  It was really really bad.

Now the other guy which is the main focus of this story:

he is 20years, 5y younger then me, he is a really good bot and a kisser, he can just take everything, biting hard even.  and I like him a lot outside of sex, he just cute and I care about him.

I asked him to fuck me  (after I gave him his first ever anal orgasm AND edging orgasm)  So he basically came twice already (I came once in his ass) but it was an hour later and we got horny again so I wanted to see how he would be.  But fucking same shit happens.
How sensitive IS his dick????!
Now after he gets embarressed and cute, and he's all like "you are so good in bed you make me come so much, and I'm all noob"

So I can't really scold him.
And I'm in love with him.
But I want to get fucked, is that so much to ask for?

Wtf do I do? Just make him practice? I thought making him come first would make him last longer...

What exactly seems to be the problem?

Find out what he likes, and do those things. Be more active, lots of passive boring guys out there.

What? months?

I would get paranoid after 2 days xD

You just have to say it out loud and directly.

@taqaa:

I feel like smaller dicks can seem harder to take, sometimes.  There's that part of the anus that bigger dicks reach and pass through which feels great, but if smaller dicks are just touching it, it feels a little awkward?  I don't know how to explain it all that well, but I prefer at least 7"

Yeah I feel ya, but I actually don't have that problem