Have you ever used someone strictly for sex and then left after you're done with

[harryme]

Have you ever used someone strictly for sex and then left after you're done with him?

Or have you spotted someone and said to yourself I need to get in his pants just once, after accomplished you done with him.

[nikolaos84]

I would't say I "used" anybody, but yes I had several casual flings with people no strings attached. I prefer to stay for a couple of minutes before going, I usualy stay for a cigarette and then I go home

[furfiend]

Casual hookup?  Of course.  Sometimes life gets complicated.  Sometimes you miss intimacy but don't have the time or energy to pursue a relationship.  Sometimes you're just horny as hell.

Make your intentions clear, be respectful, protect yourself, and don't overthink it.

[darkdelight]

Yeah. Primarily that's how my same-sex encounters go. Get it going on Grindr, meet up, pump and dump and split.

Was never interested in dating men.

[alveer]

yeah..

[eobox91103]

@furfiend:

Make your intentions clear, be respectful, protect yourself, and don't overthink it.

This is the key:  Make sure both guys have the same understanding.  I've had a lot of "one time recreations," but a few of them have gone wrong when the other guy thought it would be the start of something ongoing.  I regret not having made things more understood.

[Cub2263]

Well that is a "no strings attached" hookup. Pretty common, and not something to look down on when both participants know this is the goal.

[coolparty123]

No

[wonderkin]

this is most of my sex. But, its with the same people. The relationship we have is only sexually based. Which I think is fine - as long as everyone involved agrees and is cool with it.

[JohnAllenson]

I came out at the end of the 70s.  I used bath houses and backroom bars on a frequent basis.

[jk06]

Yeah, especially with people whom I meet from Grindr.