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      harryme last edited by

      Have you ever used someone strictly for sex and then left after you're done with him?

      Or have you spotted someone and said to yourself I need to get in his pants just once, after accomplished you done with him.

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        nikolaos84 last edited by

        I would't say I "used" anybody, but yes I had several casual flings with people no strings attached. I prefer to stay for a couple of minutes before going, I usualy stay for a cigarette and then I go home

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          furfiend last edited by

          Casual hookup?  Of course.  Sometimes life gets complicated.  Sometimes you miss intimacy but don't have the time or energy to pursue a relationship.  Sometimes you're just horny as hell.

          Make your intentions clear, be respectful, protect yourself, and don't overthink it.

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            darkdelight last edited by

            Yeah. Primarily that's how my same-sex encounters go. Get it going on Grindr, meet up, pump and dump and split.

            Was never interested in dating men.

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              alveer last edited by

              yeah..

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                eobox91103 last edited by

                @furfiend:

                Make your intentions clear, be respectful, protect yourself, and don't overthink it.

                This is the key:  Make sure both guys have the same understanding.  I've had a lot of "one time recreations," but a few of them have gone wrong when the other guy thought it would be the start of something ongoing.  I regret not having made things more understood.

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                  Cub2263 last edited by

                  Well that is a "no strings attached" hookup. Pretty common, and not something to look down on when both participants know this is the goal.

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                    coolparty123 last edited by

                    No

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                      wonderkin last edited by

                      this is most of my sex. But, its with the same people. The relationship we have is only sexually based. Which I think is fine - as long as everyone involved agrees and is cool with it.

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                        JohnAllenson last edited by

                        I came out at the end of the 70s.  I used bath houses and backroom bars on a frequent basis.

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                          jk06 last edited by

                          Yeah, especially with people whom I meet from Grindr.

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