Have you ever used someone strictly for sex and then left after you're done with
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Have you ever used someone strictly for sex and then left after you're done with him?
Or have you spotted someone and said to yourself I need to get in his pants just once, after accomplished you done with him.
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I would't say I "used" anybody, but yes I had several casual flings with people no strings attached. I prefer to stay for a couple of minutes before going, I usualy stay for a cigarette and then I go home
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Casual hookup? Of course. Sometimes life gets complicated. Sometimes you miss intimacy but don't have the time or energy to pursue a relationship. Sometimes you're just horny as hell.
Make your intentions clear, be respectful, protect yourself, and don't overthink it.
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Yeah. Primarily that's how my same-sex encounters go. Get it going on Grindr, meet up, pump and dump and split.
Was never interested in dating men.
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yeah..
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Make your intentions clear, be respectful, protect yourself, and don't overthink it.
This is the key: Make sure both guys have the same understanding. I've had a lot of "one time recreations," but a few of them have gone wrong when the other guy thought it would be the start of something ongoing. I regret not having made things more understood.
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Well that is a "no strings attached" hookup. Pretty common, and not something to look down on when both participants know this is the goal.
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No
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this is most of my sex. But, its with the same people. The relationship we have is only sexually based. Which I think is fine - as long as everyone involved agrees and is cool with it.
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I came out at the end of the 70s. I used bath houses and backroom bars on a frequent basis.
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Yeah, especially with people whom I meet from Grindr.