A person who hates
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The person I often rant about complains that everyone hates this person.
But, that person is constantly saying how much he/she hates everything including themself.
If someone hates THEMSELVES, how is it possible to not hate them also?
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You and I have discussed this person many times and they are so self-loathing that they make it impossible for anyone to like them.
It's a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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@raphjd yes, but instead of improving, it seems to be getting worse. Lately, this person seems to be hating everyone and everything instead of just itself. This person's roommate has always been positive about everything. It tears me apart that he has to endure that daily dose of living with someone so full of hate.
It has taught ME to stop being so negative. We must accentuate the positive - such as cute twinks fucking with big smiles on their faces and panting. This goes back to why I don't like videos where the performers are being humiliated or physically abused. Consensual playful submission is one thing, FORCED submission is quite another.
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This person is self-loathing, so others don't want to be around them. That in turn makes others like them even less, which makes them even more self-loathing, rinse and repeat.
They either can't or won't see that they are the problem, not the rest of the world.
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@raphjd said in A person who hates:
They either can't or won't see that they are the problem,
Or, perhaps to put a fine edge on it, they have a problem and need help with it. I presume that suggestions to get help have been rebuffed, so some guided intervention is probably in order.
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@raphjd the person sees a psychiatrist, but from my observations, the psychiatrist has made the situation WORSE. I wonder what happens when the person is no longer covered by parents' health insurance. The law is that children can no longer be on parents' policy once they turn 26 years old.
I have also read that the gender therapy medications which are supposed to help with gender dysphoria (hating their own gender), it has been established that these medications actually make it worse.
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@lololulu19 which medications..... anti-depressants? the ones that mass-shooters always seem to be on?
There have been anecdotes - fought tooth & mail by Medical-Trans lobby - where anti-psychotic meds cut Gender Dysphoria.
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@blablarg18 I think this trans uses whatever is attainable. Has prescriptions for hormone therapy and anti-depressants which are essentially a chemical lobotomy that renders one sterile and unable to get an orgasm. I'm sure using marijuana whenever available. Has a minimum wage job - so can't feed his/her addictions - which leads to even more depression, anxiety, instability, mood swings, and hate.
It is chilling to have the same person posting images of muppets and cartoons meant for pre-teens, and then have that person posting how they contemplate suic every week, and want's her/his cousin to die because they had a gay relationship from the ages of 3 to 17 while this person insisted she/he is female. Imagine being trapped in an apartment lease with a monster like that whom you barely knew before signing the lease? -
@lololulu: I think it's time to end this thread, and all others that you have regarding this other person. There are professionals who can help you deal with this, such as the suicide hotlines I've identified in other threads--988 in US/Canada; 0800 689 5652 in the UK. They can also refer you resources to deal with your own issues.
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@eobox91103 well, that is why I posted it in "Chit Chat"
I will cease this thread unless something else significant happens.
The issue seems to be that I don't understand why XY people hate themselves so much that they try to change into a female. I don't think THEY understand it either! This person is extremely unstable.
