How did you lose your virginity?
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Was it with a boyfriend? A FWB? Or a casual hookup?
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It was with a hookup.
Looking back at it, I really wish it had been a more special moment with someone that I really cared about.
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I was 14. It was with a neighbor boy the same age. We were doing as boys that age do and then one day took it a step farther. We did it through High School then we went different directions to college.
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Actually, I wish that society as a whole would move away from this notion that virginity is something that is "lost." As long as it's consensual, rather than losing, you are sharing your sexual self for the first time with a partner.
The concept of losing virginity (usually negative for a girl, usually positive for a boy) is an entrenched linguistic and cultural concept in so many parts of the globe, with organized religion playing a key role.
So, I didn't lose my virginity at all – I know exactly where I put it... :afr: :cheesy2: :afr:
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Actually, I wish that society as a whole would move away from this notion that virginity is something that is "lost." As long as it's consensual, rather than losing, you are sharing your sexual self for the first time with a partner.
The concept of losing virginity (usually negative for a girl, usually positive for a boy) is an entrenched linguistic and cultural concept in so many parts of the globe, with organized religion playing a key role.
So, I didn't lose my virginity at all – I know exactly where I put it... :afr: :cheesy2: :afr:
Linguistics and gay sex, I'm in heaven right now!
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A hot escort, who returned the money as he enjoyed it lol.
Worth it. No regrets. -
It was when I was in the seminary (or is that semen-ary?), and with another student. He was a friend…not a hookup, but not romantic either. When I left that vocation, I was worried that I wouldn't find other nice young men to play with.
It turned out, though, there were quite a few out there ;D
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It was with my ex boyfriend. We cared about each other so I'm glad I did it with him!
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hmmm, it was in 2001 I was around 17 and I had a relationship with a married 44 man. Since I was living with my parents and he was with his family we went to a hotel nearby. It was nice, everything was so natural and I felt realy cozy and special. Looking back at it, I am glad that this was my first time. He was respectful, gentle and caring and doing the right steps trying not to hurt me (at least not too much)
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With a neighbor, when we were younger and we were playing computer games at his place. It was my first gay experience and I remember it with a smile on my face
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The concept of losing virginity (usually negative for a girl, usually positive for a boy) is an entrenched linguistic and cultural concept in so many parts of the globe, with organized religion playing a key role.
So, I didn't lose my virginity at all – I know exactly where I put it... :afr: :cheesy2: :afr:
I did not expect a nuanced answer like that. May I add: The concept of virginity is hard to apply to today's standards, especially to gay men, so I'd go as far as to say, that I might have given parts of my virginity to several people over time xD
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I did not expect a nuanced answer like that. May I add: The concept of virginity is hard to apply to today's standards, especially to gay men, so I'd go as far as to say, that I might have given parts of my virginity to several people over time xD
Oh, a little flattery and I'm inclined to join you in being Slutty, Dave. Check under the hood – perhaps there's a few virgin (or slightly used) parts you still need to set free. :cheesy2:
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A neighbor boy 5 years elder to me raped me, when I was 10 years old.
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If we're talking about penetration it was with a hook-up that developed into a fuck buddy sort of situation.
It was mediocre if only for the fact that I was not really interested in sex back then, too addicted to porn…
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My virginity was taken by two "straight" identified guys who caught me at the park near our house. To be honest, I had heard there were gay men that went down there. I had no idea what cruising was, and I was curious. It is a small town so there weren't opportunities to meet gay people my own age. I was 14 at the time.I was jumped and pulled into a pump house along the rive and raped and beaten.
Horrible first time story.
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I hope you reported that rape… they should have been taken to jail because of what they did to you. -
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I hope you reported that rape… they should have been taken to jail because of what they did to you.
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Well I did not report to anyone, I was too young to understand it. He was a friend and he did brainwash me. He continued to use for some years before he moved on to a different city for further education. So many years later I realized I never wanted that it forcefully brainwashed to me, when I realized this I really wanted to move on and focus on my own life and career. -
I hope you have overcome that terrible moment in your life and been able to move on…
Good luck!:-[
I hope you reported that rape… they should have been taken to jail because of what they did to you.
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Well I did not report to anyone, I was too young to understand it. He was a friend and he did brainwash me. He continued to use for some years before he moved on to a different city for further education. So many years later I realized I never wanted that it forcefully brainwashed to me, when I realized this I really wanted to move on and focus on my own life and career. -
Yes I have moved on from that. :cheers: Have a nice day!
I hope you have overcome that terrible moment in your life and been able to move on…
Good luck!:-[
I hope you reported that rape… they should have been taken to jail because of what they did to you.
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Well I did not report to anyone, I was too young to understand it. He was a friend and he did brainwash me. He continued to use for some years before he moved on to a different city for further education. So many years later I realized I never wanted that it forcefully brainwashed to me, when I realized this I really wanted to move on and focus on my own life and career. -
Glad you did
