Need Some Advice! I Am In A Tough Position!
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I am a nurse and i put an ad for giving nursing care to indoor patients (not in a hospital) so i can gain a little extra incoming.
I am now employed by a man to take care of his bed ridden grandmother.
The problem is that the guy is very attractive to me and he managed to wake emotions that i have buried a long time. I think, he is gay.
I think that day by the day, i a falling for him and i do not know what to do here!
Should i confess to him that i really like him at the risk of losing my job? -
Be professional and keep it to yourself!
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**My friend, you are there to do a job and are getting paid to do so. Your most important thing for you to do when you are there at his (her) home is to take care of his grandmother. She seems to be very important to him, that he asked you to help take care of her. Do your job and stay professional when you are there taking care of her. Just be professional, if you really need the extra income just do your job. **
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Be professional. seek someone else to put your feelings towards.
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Agree with everyone. Not worth risking your job over.
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What's that old chestnut they always say?
"A job in hand is better than a hand job."
Wait, I don't think anyone actually says that but it sounds like it applies here. In case it catches on as a saying I'll take my royalty cheques now please, all I got is a hand job.
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Wait until your job with this man is over.
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I think you just crushed with that guy!
At this moment, as other guys said, keep your work and do it professionally!
Time goes by, you can see he will be really into you or not!
That will be the time for you to say something! -
Thank you all for your advice!
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WELL! LET TIME TAKE ITS COURSE
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For the British among us, this sounds like a Dear Deidre….however op keep it professional.
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I agree with the other posters, keep it professional and do your job. If you want extra money and sex, try working the streets >:D
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in my opinion, it wouldn't be very unprofessional to try and get closer to the guy… he is not your patient, his grandmother is, so I don't see a big problem here. Yes, you might end up without a job if he doesn't like you back, but overall, I wouldn't say it would be unprofessional on your part.
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Wait…. wasn't that an episode of TrueBlood?
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in my opinion, it wouldn't be very unprofessional to try and get closer to the guy… he is not your patient, his grandmother is, so I don't see a big problem here. Yes, you might end up without a job if he doesn't like you back, but overall, I wouldn't say it would be unprofessional on your part.
If you're doing work for someone's family then it seems appropriate to act professionally so long as you are working.
As well, if you're in a situation where someone is needing a nurse, there's probably plenty of intense emotions floating around and that just seems like a minefield not worth walking in. There's a remote chance it could go well, but personally I could imagine plenty more ways it could result in someone being absolutely disgusted.
