If I get to that point, I am going to just keep it shaved and let it go, and start getting into different hats or if I'm really pressed about it, I am going to save up the money and get a hair transplant operation. I'm not going to do the hair kits you buy off the shelf because you'd have to continue applying that crap forever..I will only consider permanent options - go completely bald or hair transplant operation. JMO Good luck.

laser hair removal? Electrolisis?

I haven't had a haircut in about 5 years, but that's because I have locs.  ;D

Anal bleaching is one option. You can also try skin creams that even out skin complexions. But the skin creams option takes months to years to show up, and you have to be consistent with using it. You can't stop and start over or forget to apply it. You have to wash every day and apply the product. Also, you can try drinking lots of water along with using the skin fade creams. You can also try using body oils, rather than ointments or lotions that clog the skin pores. Sweat stains darken the skin also, so you might want to apply powder to areas of your body where you tend to become moist or sweat a lot. Just a few options. Make sure if you get penetrated or play with dildos, that you use a significant amount of lubrication because the constant rubbing of that area can cause the skin to darken also. The reason I know that is because, I made the mistake of washing my face too hard trying to wash off my oily skin ( i have complexed skin) and the rough rubbing darkened an area on my temple and forehead–-I had to apply a medicated ointment of hydrocortisone to the area for months before it actually lightened up and STILL TO THIS DAY if I don't apply it or don't wash my face twice a day, the dark area shows back up; it's all about maintaining it. So you might want to ask your physician to prescribe you some cortisone ointment? Hydrocortisone is like a skin steroid, anti-itch and anti-fungal product with works with different skin issues. There is also Cosmetic Surgery as an option? Just seek the advice of a medical professional in whatever you do, because your skin is the only skin you get!

Weight is mostly determined by diet and outside factors such as stress, anxiety, etc. Not weight-training. I would suggest changing your diet and remove any stressers in your life that contribute to your overall happiness. It could be certain people, circumstances, etc. Also, when you change your diet, you'll begin to feel better naturally and have more energy. With the new found energy, you'll probably want to do more or become more active - this is a good thing. Use that energy to get involved with activities or projects that inspire you, rather than engaging in something that will discourage you or make you feel stressed out. I tried going back to the gym, and had no motivation to return. And then I started feeling bad about not returning, that it became "something I had to get done." When going to the gym turns into something else I put on my plate to accomplish, it stressed me out more and more. Stick to what YOU can do, that's easy for you. Instead of trying to go to the gym, I started with changing certain foods from my routine. I stopped drinking sugary, colored drinks and sodas. I'm now only drinking water or Ginger Ale, or coffee. I'm to the point where "Sprite" turns my stomach and I haven't had an orange or red or purple soda or fountain drink in over 15 years. I also increased my veggie intake. I love Kale and Spinach and Cauliflower mostly. I only do broccoli when I need to flush my system, otherwise too much of it isn't good for me. I also love beans and rice, mostly brown rice. I still put a lot of shredded cheese and dressing on salads though. lol. I used to love fried chicken, but the grease turns my stomach now, so I do baked or grilled chicken now. Still love fish though!

No, I don't shave my balls. I did before, and I'll never do it again. I only trim my pubes with a trimmer. I don't apply razor blades to any other areas on my body except my face.

Try using nipple clamps. The clamps pinch down on your nipples, leave them on for however long you can stand it, then remove them. When you remove the clamps, gently or aggressive tease your own nipples, they should be good and highly sensitive by then. Or, rub ice cubes over them. The extreme cold of the cubes, stimulates them for some people.

It depends, if his body hair keeps me from wanting to be intimate with him, but I really like him - I'd ask him to shave. Body hair can grow back with time, it's not like I'd be asking him to remove a limb or something. But I like body hair on certain men, in certain areas of the body. I don't mind a guy with hairy legs, hairy ass, or arms. The areas I'm particular about are the chest/stomach area and the shoulders and back. I see nothing attractive about a hairy back or shoulders. I wouldn't be interested in a guy with all of that going on regardless of what his body type is. Hair to that extent, is unsightly to me. Chest hair can be quite attractive to me, but only on a toned or muscular chest. Not impressed with "happy trails" or extreme ware-wolves types. I dated a guy whose physical shape wasn't the best - but i genuinely enjoyed his company and personality. We had sex, but most of the time it was initiated by him, because I wasn't physically attracted to him. He wasn't hairy though. Physical attraction for me is important, because without it i'd feel like I'd be wasting both my time and the other person. So it's important to find someone who loves you for you, and you don't have to change anything about yourself just to please them. BUT…small sacrifices are also a good thing to consider, if you truly want to be with that person. JMO

There's absolutely NOTHING WRONG with a guy having a hairy butt hole! KEEP IT HAIRY, LEAVE IT ALONE. A lot of guys prefer it that way, especially if that's mainly the only area on your private pars with the most hair!

I'm a boxer-briefs guy, which rather suits my long legs.  For whatever reason, I don't care for tighty-whities on me, or other guys.

I like the idea of provocative girly undies on guys who don't manscape, but perhaps I've ventured too far into the land of oversharing, lol…   👼   >:D   👼

In private. Never specifically thought about shaving in public and decided not to do it but it's just more convenient at home. The only time I find myself in a locker room is when I go to the gym and usually I go there to work out and get out. Thinking about it now, if I noticed someone else shaving in a locker room, I wouldn't think anything of it. I think it's fine, do you. How do other people feel?

Why shouldn't it be? If it makes you feel more comfortable in your skin, do it

Disclaimer (just because you had it in the title), I have never bottomed in my life but here's how I feel about guys in general regardless of sexual position:

I'm generally attracted to guys with facial hair if they are able to grow it. Neat and trim is usually best but some guys look great clean shaven, and others look great with longer beards. It depends on the guy really. I can easily and quite immediately decide if I prefer a beard on a certain person or not if I saw two photos of them.

LRP Pigment Control Serum，it'll peel itself….....

razor shave with conditioner to avoid irritation

I trim once a month, but do a close shave if I'm meeting up with guys that like to spend more time back there. I'd recommend trying using conditioner on your sensitive bits, then shaving with a decent razor.

Get the real one. Life is too short. :cool2: