Posts made by wizardman8

@hunkyboy:

your situation is pretty delicate i think he is pretty important for you and you wish to stay friends if it were me i would personally talk to him about my feeling i think being straightforward is pretty much the best answer cause if you dont talk to him sometimes there will be misunderstanding and maybe there is a reason for the way he treated you once you talk to him you can make the best decision. hope its helpful. :blownose:

@UncleDolan:

You didn't mention any reason for the break-up.
What happened?not snooping into your business,but I think you should consider the reason you ended your relationship.

He did say, that he didn't want me to waste my time, and that the wasn't sure about our relationship. And he has confessed that he emotionally cheated during our LDR. We've talked. But what i dont understand is, why he treats me like no one. I did try to move on, went on dating apps, did some hook ups. But all felt empty. I saw the guy I cared for everyday, and he barely blinks an eye on me anymore.

Hi

I'm a male asian gay, living in a very conservative asian country.
Had my first real relationship with someone who i had grown to passionately in love with for 2 years.

But on 2015, he got a new offer in another neighboring country, althoug its hard, but we tried doing LDR.
Its been his request that I follow him. I did. I got an offer, in the same company as him, just to be broken up with when i delivered the news.

But i moved there anyway.

Spent this past 1 year. Treated as if i was no one. Turns out, during our LDR, he emotionally cheated, with a straight men btw, who no longer even work in the same company anymore.

We have the same circle of friend, same job industry, same company, he is even my "boss" to whom I report my works to. I can't just quit and find another place to work because the my job industry is pretty niche and few in terms of networks.

And the worst thing is, even though I don't want to get back together with him. I still see him as my best friend, and someone I care about. Why am I torturing myself?

1, and i loved him. but he cheated.

;D Definitely FFIX, it was such a sweet sweet game for me. Everyone also talked about VI but nver managed to finish, I always stop after playing it for the first 1 or 2 hours.

2nd would be FFXV, i know i know its new and all that, but i actually quite enjoy the overall vibe of the game.