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RE: Can one be both gay and religious or its not possible?posted in Religion & Philosophy
Yes, you can. I'm catholic and I belong to a gay catholic group
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RE: Truths, lies and facts about Brazilposted in Chit Chat
The free sex-change is a complex issue. Yes, it was included in the National Health Care Law, but very few people have had access to it. It's a very complicated process and there aren't many publich hospitals which can perform the surgeries. We're also the country with the largest rate of trans murders, so don't expect an open society towards the issue, unfortunately.
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RE: How you guys find your partner?posted in Sex & Relationships
The world has changed a lot, I'm 46, I used to meet my partners, including my ex-husband with whom I spent 15 years, going to clubs. I've never met a partner using facebook, but I've met using orkut (r.i.p.), after that I've met t apps, Tinder and Growlr, and they have lasted long enough 3 years, 1 year and a half, 3 months, 3 months, so it's not that bad. BTW, I'm very average looking, so maybe the fault is not with the apps, how high are your expectations? If you are looking for someone who looks like your favorite porn star and have the same kind of sex you enjoy masturbating to, and at the same time cuddle and go to the movies together, it may be very difficult to find.
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RE: Depression, anxiety, sleepinessposted in Health & Fitness
well, I'm bipolar, I go to the psychiatrist and take some pills, Depakote, Lamitor (I don't if they have the same names where you live), I also go to psychoanalist (I'm a trainned psychoanalist myself, and I'm getting my second master's degree on psychoanalysis). Besides that, there are many things that help me, I love music, reading, movies, tv series, I try to be healthy, I've lost a lot of weight recently following the Weight Watchers program, it's nice because you eat better, it encourages use to exercie (I walk), and you have the support of the group. As far as friends are concerned it's really hard to have good friends around, I can relate to that, but you're better off alone than with people who don't really care about you. I've moved to another city to be near my family, it was a smart choice. If you are lucky it's nice to have a boyfriend, but it can also be a major source of suffering, so chose wisely. I'm also catholic, I belong to a gay catholic group, it helps me. It's always nice to be helpful, I try to help as much as I can, young people, hiv+ patients, I fight for LGBT rights, and all my studies are related to social issues, the current one about transgender people. Even doing all these things, it's still a daily fight, so all I can say is: keep strong, and do whatever you can, don't pay attention to other people's judgement, the only person who truly knows how you feel is yourself. BTW, my best friends are two bipolar women I've met online through orkut. They live in different cities but we travel to meet each other and are always in touch. Good luck! :hug2:
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RE: The "expiration date" for a bottom vs a topposted in Sex & Relationships
I think your question is genuine and deserves polite answers. The other day I heard a friend of mine saying that he's too old to be a bottom, and I think he's 55, so you're not the only one with this notion. I'm 46, I consider myself versatile, since I have no problem to perform both roles, but I prefer to be a bottom, because it's easier to cum (I'm talking about myself obviously). But this is just the sex part, and we are much more than that. To be in a relationship you need a lot more than sex.
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RE: Why doesn't anyone post face pics? Picture of Me.posted in Personal Pictures
cute and proud, good for you