Posts made by skr2k

Redheads will always catch my eye in public, but I can't say sex with any of the redheads Ive been with (in the remote past!) has been anything out of the ordinary. Sex with dark haired Asian guys was always very good. I find myself increasingly drawn to black guys these days, but I have never actually been with any. Should have created the opportunity when I was young and hot and promiscuous but there were almost no black people where I lived.

God, yes!

I miss waking up in the morning with a totally clear head and boundless energy for the day.

I miss spending the whole day outside without having any agendas or plans, except finding whatever fun one could. Spending entire afternoons turning into a prune at the swimming pool without worrying about skin cancer.

I miss eating heartily and finding EVERYTHING delicious - without giving a second thought to how the food was processed and what the ingredients were or how many preservatives and calories it might have.

I even miss fighting with my siblings and hating my parents (who were actually great, apart from fighting with each other) and wishing with all my heart that I was "Grown-Up"

But I think what I miss the most is that feeling of discovering everything for the first time (including porn!) and feeling as though the whole world was just waiting for you.

@Dene:

The rake thin pale boys that could pass for underage kind of porn, is a major turn off for me.. also the steroid looking muscle guys that seem to always look sunburnt

Not sure why but I also do not think I have ever enjoyed a machofucker clip

Those skinny pale twinks always remind me of feral Eastern European kids during the communist era. One felt so bad for them - not only were they under-nourished, but the lack of proper food and the harsh culture also seemed to cause mental maldevelopment. Its not really surprising to see so many of them in Soviet porn.

I agree with Machofucker - its occasionally hot, but for the most part it is the ultimate in robotic sex. I can never identify with either the top or the bottom in those vids. Porn is only good when one feels like a participant.

Another type of porn that I always pass on is sex in locker rooms.

Years ago, I had sex fairly regularly with women. I could perform very well, but repeated experiences proved to me that being straight wasnt really me. So in a way, it took sex with women to convince me without a doubt that I was gay - gay as in my emotional and physical orientation was entirely towards other men.

I suspect a lot of "gay-for-pay" performers are similar - they can perform adequately with guys, but doing so just proves to themselves without a doubt that they are straight. Rod Daily is a fine example of this - he performs very well in gay porn, but in real life he had a girlfriend - whom he got AIDs from.

Not disgusted, as such, but I immediately want to shower and get back into a clean state. Now I try to masturbate only when I am about to have a shower. My bf does it in the shower, but my own weird psychology makes me feel as though the subsequent shower wasn't cleansing. Seems like everyone has their own individual quirks.

What did make me disgusted at an earlier age was the mess - having to clean up, getting cum on my shirt etc.

Have you ever had high-energy porn-movie style sex, with lots of weird positions and angles, and different places (chairs, tables, locker rooms etc)?
And have you ever filmed yourself?

For me, sex has always been much slower and in two or three positions based on the activity (oral, and rarely anal - mostly face to face or spoon positions) and almost always in bed (two forest blow jobs excepted)

I filmed myself once jerking off, felt immediately embarrassed and wiped the tape without even looking at it for more than a few seconds.

Also annoys me when a guy slaps my butt. Totally breaks my mood. The weird thing is that I am not even a bottom, and both times when it happened, I was being rimmed.

I would strongly advice against doing this. The urea in piss breaks down into ammonia and other toxic substances, and bacteria tends to flourish. This is why stale urine smells so much stronger than fresh urine. True, putting it in the fridge slows down the breakdown, but it does not halt it.

Do a search for "Herzog" in the torrent list and you will discover several videos of Herzog, who is over 7 feet tall, having sex with small guys. They are kind of boring tho. . .mostly oral.

There are often posts about favorite types of porn, but rarely discussed is the type of porn one tends to bypass, even if the actors look good.

e.g - I tend to pass on any porn that has only twinks, hipster types with trendy hairstyles, piercings and excessive tattoos, and porn with any sort of toys such as dildos.

@aaron31:

My torrent client (uTorrentPro 3.5) says I am seeding 272 files (at ~500kb/s).  My user page here says 309 by the up arrow and 0 by the down (that number fluctuates a lot).  But I don't think my ratio has changed in quite some time.

Any ideas for how to start uploading as much as I can, ASAP?  Or fixing my settings so that I get credit?

Uploaded  5.36 TB [Daily: 5.52 GB]
Downloaded  7.09 TB [Daily: 7.31 GB]
Share ratio  0.756
Current minimum Ratio  0.800
Amount to Seed 318.82 GB

I'm afraid I've got bad news for you.

The problem here is the massive numbers you are working with.
7.09 TB = 7090 Gb downloaded

To get a ratio of 1, you will have to upload 7.09 - 5.36 = 1.73 Tb (1073 Gb) which is an immense number, especially when you are uploading at the rate of 5.5 Gb per day = 195 days to make up the difference

To put it in another way, to change your ratio to 0.8 minimum, you will have to upload 7.09 x 0.8 = 5.672 - 5.36 =0.312 which means 312 gb
at average 5.5 gb per day = 56 days to get to a ratio of 0.8

This should show you why your ratio is changing so slowly. Its simply a factor of the huge numbers, as i mentioned above.

I am not sure how you can speed this up, since your upload speeds depend on

1. your upload speed limits
2. Leecher's download speed limits (people have much slower internets abroad)
3. Popularity of the torrent (freeleech torrents upload much faster as long as they are freeleech and plenty of people are downloading them. The speed drops very dramatically once they stop being freeleach.

Perhaps some others might have suggestions.

For me, topping is something that I really have to be in the mood for, and to get in the mood, I need long foreplay and to be really turned on so that I last for a while. It is NOT something that I have ever been able to do with a hookup or when I am in a hurry, even though many of my previous casual hookups wanted it bad, and instantly.

I find that topping is more about the shaft of your penis than the head. So it also helps to change your masturbatory habits if you really want to be an effective top. I only top in my long term relationships, when I actually don't masturbate at all, or very infrequently. I found that the habit of rubbing a quick one off - where speed and efficiency are the focus - reduced my ability to top. Instead, perhaps it would help to focus on the shaft - squeezing and milking and making it last for a long time - rather than the head of the penis. The shaft is really where one feels the pressure when topping, and if you get to enjoy that ring-like squeeze, you will enjoy topping. The best oral sex is also when your partner squeezes the shaft while performing. The worst blowjobs are those guys who only focus on the head of the penis.

I have never felt the slightest inclination to be a bottom, so topping is that only thing I do, but honestly, I am perfectly happy not having any anal sex at all.

My dad loved wrestling, but never American wrestling which he considered entertainment of the worst type. He grew up in rural Pakistan, where (dust) wrestling was about the only sport the young men competed in. I dont think the erotic elements ever crossed his mind. His favorites were Indian/Pakistani, Turkish, and British style wrestling.

My (male) cousin sucked my dick when we were both 5 years old. Does that count? Around the same time, a female cousin let me finger her. Neither incident was erotic in the least!  ;D

(regarding the male cousin, he drank his milk from a baby bottle till he was 7. I wonder if he is still orally fixated)

Ive pretty much ended random sex simply because too many things are unpredictable with it. I hated guys who tended to be in a rush, who thought spitting and biting and spanking would be a turn on for me. Bad breath and any sort of drugs. Bad kissers, and even worse - the non-kissers. (Always wondered how they would willingly put my dick in their mouth but not my tongue!) And of course, the constant underlying fear of a possible STD. My partner and I are in an open relationship by mutual agreement because we live in different cities, but neither of us really looks for anyone new, and save up sex for when we are together. Sex with him is great simply because we know exactly what the other wants. Looking forward to retirement together.

Seems like you are well rid of the guy. Obviously he was more interested in you as an object than as a person. Years ago I knew two guys in CA who were so obsessed with foreskins that they didn't care what sort of guy they were with as long as they got the foreskin to play with. One of them would hang around public toilets in the gang-ridden latino part of town just to suck guys off. He got robbed several times, but couldnt stop himself from going. Last I heard, he got beaten up brutally there and ended up in a wheelchair.

Pakistani living in USA here.

I have never liked anal sex either (though I dont mind watching it in porn). I think its just that the anus was never an erotic zone for me growing up, and I am kinda repelled by anything to do with it. The first time I watched gay porn (I was 18) was the first time I realized that gay sex actually includes anal sex and I was both surprised and turned off.

I have never rimmed anyone. I have topped others occasionally, but I make it clear at meeting someone new that anal sex is right at the bottom (heheh) of my list of interests. Ive been lucky that my long term relationships have always been with guys who share a similar lack of interest in anal sex and butt play.

I can only describe my own taste as a "reverse fetish" - I really like a very natural man best, with smooth skin, without any tattoos, piercings, or even body hair (though I do like full pubic and armpit hair). Ideally someone in their early 30's.

I can tolerate tattoos, but any piercings (including ear studs) and excessive body hair are an instant turn off.

That said, I REALLY love low hanging balls.

Its also funny that the masterminds and most of the perpetuators of 9/11 were Saudi, but Saudi Arabia is not included in the ban.