Posts made by shynquietguy

I've masturbated in all sorts of risky places (the worst probably in an AMC movie theater while a G rated family movie was playing. I was like 12 at the time). I've never been with anyone willing to have sex in some crazy public place though.

The first time I saw straight porn was when I was 10 or so and I went into the bathroom at my aunt's house and my uncle had left one of his magazines in there that was full of pictures of women bending over with their panties pulled down.

The first time I saw gay porn was when I was 13 bored at the same aunt's house alone and I was snooping through their closet and found a VHS tape labeled "Nothing But Cumshots". I popped it into the VCR and there was a guy banging another guy. This was back in the late 90s and I've looked everywhere for that movie online with no luck because the title brings up a million different gay porn videos lol.

Yes, every night, but only because my boyfriend insists upon it.

As someone who spent the first half of his upbringing in Los Angeles, and the second half of his upbringing in rural southeast Oklahoma, I've seen the confederate/"rebel" flag used in many different ways. Yes, it has, and is, used as a racist symbol. Yes it has, and is, used as an anti-American symbol. But most of all, it is, in fact, used as nothing more than a symbol of southern pride and heritage, and/or a general dislike for authority.

That being said, even if it was just a racist symbol and nothing else, that wouldn't change how important and integral a part of our history it is. Like it or not, racism is a part of history, and we should not ignore it or pretend it never happened to avoid offending retards. Erasing the horrible, darker portions of our history will only doom us to repeat the autocracies, and forget the victims, and courageous actions of the brave men and women who fought against those inequities and paved the way for a brighter future.

That is why when I hear all these news stories about cities dismantling confederate monuments, removing graves of confederate historical figures from city cemeteries, destroying statues on university campuses because for all the guy's accomplishments he once said something sexist, etc. it scares the ever loving hell out of me.

I don't see the problem. Privately owned businesses should be allowed to refuse service to anyone based on their beliefs and moral convictions. Of course, I'm a business owner myself, so I can see it from both perspectives. If you've never owned a business, it may be hard for you to see it from that point of view.

Not that I'd ever dream of refusing service to anyone. If you're a paying customer, you're money is as good as anyone's and you're more than welcome to my business.

He's an Iranian-Norwegian and he did this?

I wonder how many hit lists he's on now.

I always find it interesting how often a gay closeted guy's kid comes out gay.

@yababylol:

I don't think I've ever met someone who honestly believes this. It's a very old, old idea. I don't think it even survived the 90's.

You'd be amazed how ignorant a huge piece of the population is in 2016. I was having brunch with a group of co-workers on Easter and someone mentioned that they're aunt was in the hospital due to AIDS complications and a man and his wife were there and were absolutely shocked to hear that a woman had AIDS. They thought that it was literally impossible for a woman to get it, and that only gay men could get AIDS, and could only get it by having sexual contact with each other.

These are college educated adults who thought this.

If you mean "Are the bareback acts we're seeing happening on camera possibly spreading HIV?" then sure, probably. Some of the more crazy barebacking videos I've seen where it's a recording of a giant bareback sex party probably had some STD sharing happening, but the fact that it was being recorded didn't change that. If it was happening privately with no cameras around the HIV spreading would still happen.

On the other hand if you mean "Are people watching these barebacking videos and then being influenced by them into thinking it's all cool and awesome and no worries to run out and do the same?" then that's just silly. Sure, like with violent films, video games, etc. every once in a blue moon there's going to be that one nutcase with a very low IQ who sees something on film and feels the urge to mimic it in real life, but they're, thankfully, extremely rare, and their stupidity-fueled actions are in no way to blame on the media they consumed.

@matwlep:

That show was crap. Good riddance.

Agreed. I don't like it.