I feel the Japanese ones with good art also have the really heavy stuff (based on CG dumps) like scat, rape, etc. So I tend to stay away since I would be navigating it blind (without translation). Even then tend to like something more romantic lol.

A lot of western games I've noticed they just can't draw dicks, or guys that well in general... some have good enough writing you can overlook it but most honestly don't. Why would I read bad porn if it doesn't even look good when I could go read a story on nifty or somewhere else...

@Kekkaishi I did it a couple times in a gym shower/sauna. And to be sure we went back and forth quite a bit. Even the second time I met him we were extra cautious, ended up moving somewhere more private.

Did it on a park trail, I saw this guy I was fairly sure. He walked past and I was far off the path, we made eye contact, but he kept going. Then he came back again and I rubbed my bulge. He followed me far off trail.

I'm not sure where you are at but there are sites for cruising listings including dangers and signals. E.g. this bathroom is good because it has a loud door.

Overall though, probably safest to stick to a hookup app! Especially in a smaller city or less gay friendly area.

@bluemisiek You can do your search by going to Torrents > Browse. Then use the advanced settings you can pick 1 or more main categories and 1 or more required subcategories.

I used to trust guys and bottom bareback but that was pretty much totally self destructive and super risky! I stopped and got on PrEP.

Now I have one partner so we bareback all the time. It's great.

I'm 25, he's 75