Posts made by samerantha

Hello,

The Canadian government is passing a bill through legislation at record speed, that would give an unprecedented amount of power to its intelligence agency with no oversight.  This means the arrests of its citizens and foreigners.  You can also be added to a no fly list without facing your accuser or hearing their reason.  This is a misstep in democracy, justice and the rule of law.

This is on the heels of the recent shooting on parliament hill in Ottawa, using fear (and xenophobia undertone) to gather support.

Even if you don't live in Canada, it may be in your interest to help spread the word about how harmful Bill C-51 is because it will allow the Canadian government to spy and intercept information on all citizens, domestic and foreign.  Worse, information gathered from spying may be shared with foreign governments, such as those in Five Eyes (UK, USA, New Zealand, Australia, Canada) and whom ever they share it with.

There is a thunderclap campaign you can sign up for here to make sure it catches media attention:
https://www.thunderclap.it/projects/24432-stop-secret-police-bill-c-51?locale=en

Here is a video explaining thunderclap: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wvPfuV00-1k

Nothing wrong with seeking knowledge, we're all more aware now, and the above guidelines for detection apply to a lot of kinds of addiction.

But again for everyone reading, don't let the internet replace a real doctor. There is a lot of bad information on the internet and its really easy to convince yourself you're sick or you're safe.

If you like EDM as much as I do:
Slow Acid by Calvin Harris - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YKZnqiu4YDM
Androids by R3hab (Breaux Remix) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MkeVZcvx6vo (this is more twerky when it breaks down)

I play these to Treasure Island Media clips sometimes while getting off, the sound just make it so much more filthier.
Not so much a strip tease but Alarm Clock by Feed Me - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EHkiGTDPfNA is also good for TIM videos I found.
At the 2:00 mark its like euphoria getting lost enjoying a great BJ or a loose hole, then it snaps out of it at 3:45 in that filthy industrial alarm like "get back to work pig" and dump your load.

Here is my advice in TL;DR form:
If it harms you or someone else, or it gets in the way of responsibilities to yourself or others.
You should also consider how often it occurs and the severity of the occurrences on the above mentioned.

Also don't read advice and stuff on the internet, this may be a good place to get an idea or reach out for help. But if you sound like the above you should seek a councilor. It will save you time and money to deal with it now. They can also asses if you are just paranoid and just a sexual being.

Also there is grey area, its not black and white.

Given some time like 3-4 weeks into dating, at some point formally ask him "we're dating right?". Then meet a close friend of his and mention you're dating. That should end the speciousness. If he keeps you away from friends or gay friends after a month, that is a weird sign. At least in my world.

I love bottoming on my stomach or doggy position and with my bf's arm pushing on my back or the back of my head into the pillow. I like it rough. We also have a sling in the basement and with a harness he can really go at it. It helps I have a practically indestructible hole

I love me an Dublin Ireland accent. I don't know what it is, they just sound so darn cute.

First, there are dating sites for twinks and older men. My friend met his husband online like this, they have a very similar age gap as you, and they are now married.

You need to be okay with dating someone older, I am dating someone 21 years older than me (he's 48).

This means he has more vacation time than I do, he's further in his career, having children is not practical, and we will both be at different places in life all the time.  He may leave this planet before I do, but there is also a chance I will first. So knowing that, I planned to be happy and accept the facts surrounding age differences.

Also some fabulous feel good points about dating older men is it comes with great perks: 
If they don't have their shit together by 40, they probably never will lol, saves you time dating.
More experienced, you'll learn a lot from them. They are more intelligent.
I don't get paranoid wondering if he is cheating on me (we're monogamous), but that could be because my bf earned my trust (we said if we cheated it would be worse to say nothing and possibly give the other person an infection because THAT would end it for sure, not the cheating so much at that point). Though that is probably tougher to communicate than as an idea.
They generally have more stability, since their mortgage or loans are usually paid off or low. Mortgages and loans are a HUGE stress for my straight friends getting married, but not for me

So assuming the environment in Australia is not so much different than here in Canada where I live. Urban centers are easier environments and generally have more diversity support networks. My parents are Christian Lebanese immigrants, but are not heavy on the religion.

Here are a few things to consider:

• Do you live at home with family?
  I would recommend to wait until you move out, just makes it a lot easier to deal with them, like hanging up the phone and not being kicked out.

• Are you financially independent from your parents?
  Some parents try to coerce their children by cutting education funding, kicking them out, making your home too poisonous to live in, etc.

• Are you in a relationship?
  Yes -> Is this someone you are sure you want to be with for a long time, then wait until you are sure.
  No -> This might be the easier one because they can't blame someone else for "making you gay", gives your future partners a fairer chance.

Also doesn't mean you have to come out to everyone. Is it really that important for some people to know before others or can they wait.
But keep in mind its not a secret if you're not the only person who knows.