So you want a word that separates us from the heteros, than a word that includes us into the whole of society.
The whole "separate but equal" has always been a lie.
By not giving us "marriage" they are saying that we are not good enough to have the same things they have.
As I explained before, marriage is included in every international agreement. If we start making up words just for fags, the we have to make new international agreements.