Posts made by newbieff

Wow!
I wish I could meet you!

It never works out from my personal experiences!

Great news!
Hope they are happy forever!
One is at 41, but he looks so young!

1. Henry Cavill

2. Chris Evan

Please help to enlighten me with the words "BBC"
What does it mean?

I think you just crushed with that guy!
At this moment, as other guys said, keep your work and do it professionally!
Time goes by, you can see he will be really into you or not!
That will be the time for you to say something!

I am having the same situation with the OP!
Everything is too much the same!
Honestly, I want to do something with the one I love. But the fact that I haven't come out, so most of my friends whom I like (love) are straight! That why, I can not do something gone far beyond the line!
Even I am handsome and great body! But it is the same! Gays approached me, but I don't like ones approaching me, ones I like, i don't know how to approach them!

@RectalTemp:

All this is to say, give it some time with your attractive straight friend.  You may realize in time that there really isn't all that much to him that is worthy of your interest.  Sometimes we just really want the thing that we think is unobtainable.  My advice to you at this time:  He knows you're into him, just stand your ground, be his friend, and trust me… he'll eventually come to YOU.  And if he's lucky, you'll still be into him when he does.  But more than likely, you'll find someone else by that time that suits your fancy better than him (who will also likely be more worthy of your time).  "Straight" guys like to play games, all hard-to-get 'n' shit, when they think we worship the ground they walk on.  And many of them know instinctively when we do.

Put another way: You can say that many of them have GayFriendWantsToFuckMeDar, and they often try to use it to their own advantage.

Thanks for this!

I am in the same situation!
It is really hurt!
I am trying my best to forget him now! It will take time, but I have to move on!

I know what I have to do, but I am feeling so so sad!
I am so lonely, empty, hopeless and so painful right now!
What should I do?

Thank you guys so much for replying! These comments mean a lot to me!

3.  I told him and it shocked him at first but hugged me and said that nothing would change the way he felt about me and it didn't.  In fact we dated in high school and I was the one that who ended it because he really was Str8 and I knew that I risked ruin his life if he went forward with me.  He was born str8.

I can imagine how hurt I am! I do think he was born str8 because he now likes a girl. Even every time we meet, he keep sending her messages and even, we went to a store to buy a gift for her.

I saw how happy he was! That made me think that if I really love him, I will need to make sure he is happy! I would select the option that I should go away and should not disturb his life. I will always keep in mind that we are just friends.

I am doing a Master degree now then I might do a PhD. Honestly, I really wish that I would be a straight so I could love a girl. I knew some girls loved me, but I ran away. I am willing to exchange many things for being str8!

And do remember that not only are you coming out to him, but you're also revealing your feelings to him.
Your relationship, your closeness, his behavior and yours– it will all come into question.
Depending on what sort of character he has, he might feel cheated about it ("So you're getting close to me for my dick, huh? HUH?")
So yeah.

Thanks for this! It is now hopeless for me! Yes, no more hope!

Hi,

Thank all of you for replies! They made me feel relived! I am so much appreciated for all of them! I have a feeling that I were shared and I had someone understanding my situation. Your comments help me a lots!

I know what should I do now! I will have to keep silence. I will try to think less about him, and try to forget something about him too. One day, when my study will finish, I could tell him then I will go!

I saw another topic, more or less the same! The guy in that topic made a choice that he told his best friend about what he thought about his best friend. He got luck, they are remained their friendship. Because he did tell his friend, and there is no hope for his love, so he did focus on something/someone else!

Thank you so much again!

I got a great friend here, in another country where I came to study.
He is a great and extremely nice friend. But he likes girls and he said he want to get married then have many babies (That why I know he is a straight). But he is really nice, please to me. Everytime we go to somewhere for a cup of coffee, watching movies, having dinner or lunch, we just go with ourselves, even we share the same cake, a drink, …

I like my friend a lots, even, I could love him (but I think just from my side).

Should I tell him that I have feelings for him?
Do you think that if I tell him, I could lost him in a mean that we/he will never feel comfortable when we go somewhere together?
Do I still hope?

Sometimes, just want to share my thoughts about someone, that makes me feel relieved!
Thanks for reading! Looking forward to some advices!