Was this rape I would say no. He didn't end the night all he did was say not tonight I usually don't bottom on the first night. This leaves an opening for the other guy to work for it, to get him horny and wanting more. Now the whole position thing was this the other guy trying to be in control as a top or as a rapist its hard to say. Now was the victim a victim …. Well first of he obviously wanted or felt obligated to do something sexual however if he knew going in he didn't want to be penetrated thats something you start with online or when you get home. Setting out a list of hard NOs is a good and safe practice and makes situations like this much less ambiguous. As to the lack of boner thing some will likely bring up I personally and I know others who bottom especially if its on a rare occasion who will enjoy it without getting hard.
Posts made by Masonmason
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RE: Was this guy date raped? He isn't sure…
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RE: Did you choose to be gay?
I think we choose to act on our attractions I also believe I could be content in a platonic marriage with a woman but I'm glad of the times that I do not have to be. In short I don't think we choose to feel attractions to our own gender but I do believe that we choose to act on that attraction. I do not however think its genetic or at least it can't entirely be genetic (see twins one gay one not).
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RE: Mary Fallin, Oklahoma Gov., …....
Ah well in the Us for a contract dealing with cash or property you simply need two witness and a properly worded document no legal process other than filing.
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RE: Mary Fallin, Oklahoma Gov., …....
And the vast majority of those rights came about because of religions influence on our culture. Drawing up a basic legal contract is fairly simple and not all that expensive especially if theres not much negotiation you wouldn't need a lawyer on either side at that point. The fee for example for a will is not excessive very rarely would an exceedingly intricate contract be required an the ones that would need to be regarding money or an estate can use prenupt agreement as a template. Not to mention other than a filing fee there are no legal fees associated with contracts in the us at least unless your handing over property or money. Now going back to the right not to testify against your spouse or tax exemptions etc those should be done away with anyway and dealt in a strictly dependent nondependent manner.
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RE: Mary Fallin, Oklahoma Gov., …....
While I firmly believe in the separation of church and state as well that the government has no place in social issues I also believe in a regions ability to decide these things for it's self. Oklahoma has very right to say our voters say no so you need to go through federal facilities and use federal resources for these benefits. I don't agree with the discrimination but the whole issue would be resolved if marriage was abolished all together and everyone drew up contracts and have it be dealt with by contractual law instead. These issues come up in places where social mores still exist; both the good and the bad. Because of this we can't expect nor require people to turn away or support things they don't believe in. We can however use the federal government to fulfill these requests and it is doing so. Requiring a state to go against its peoples wishes is wrong thats why we have regional and a federal government people believe and different things always have always will. There is a stark difference between police raids and not allowing the use of state resources to process claims. One requires outside intervention the other should be respected. If we don't respect those issues we are as bad as the Catholics who try to intervene in more socially liberal states to change there laws and we should try not to lower ourselves to their level.
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RE: Misleading sites that advertise CGI movies
As far as I can tell it doesn't exist outside of a few clips from games and the Extremely well circulated and known ones (gift from gods, animan etc). Which makes sense while there is a huge market I don't think anyone whose interested has the capital to actually make quality movies. Especially considering there would be little profit.
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RE: Which fantasy novel you like the most?
For fantasy itd have to be Darkness Descending by Harry Turtledove The entire series (World at War) is amazing not for the faint of heart though if you can slog through Tolkien you'll love this.
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RE: ***The last book you read…***
I went on a binge read for the series (Drone Vampire series) by Stephani Hecht. Very good series hot sex scenes and good story line. (there is bi gay and straight couples)
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RE: What are your favorite gay erotic fictions sites that have more extreme stories?
Theres nothing that is written about thats not on Nifty. Check there special section for stuff that is a little more out there. Nifty.org definitely the best for GBLT stuff. Literotica is a bitch to sift through but has some seriously awesome stuff I highly recommend their search feature even if it is a pain its less a pain than sifting through by category. both sites have cool stuff. Next for a more personal favorite I would go restrictedsection.org you need an account and its just a storage site nothing new in years but there is so much there quite a few of my favorite stories are there warning not all of it is erotic and not even most of it is PWP. Another good favorite of mine with excellent search capabilities (you can search by warning for the especially naughty stuff) would be Hpfandom.net.